You Need a Dating Strategy - Now! Part Two

March 13th, 2008 by Julie


Still not seeing anyone special? You need more strategies

Without further ado, here are some tips to get some responses for your profile on that online dating site.

Get advice from someone else – Before you post your first profile, have your best friend read it…and then ask them to be brutal about what works and what doesn’t.

Focus on creating contact with someone on a regular basis – Don’t just sit around and wait for people to contact you, try to make contact at least once a week. Email someone or IM someone to get used to talking to others. Soon enough, you’ll be meeting up with all the right ones.

Be honest with those you meet virtually and in person – You want to be make sure you are telling the truth so that you’re actually making a connection with the people who would be the right fit for you.

But…don’t tell everything – Releasing all of your personal history, your divorce, your children, your lack of child support, etc. Until you know that you really like the person, total disclosure just isn’t necessary.

Create time in your life for love – You can’t start dating unless you have time in your schedule to date. You need to start making room for love…before you start adding dates into your day planner.

Good luck!

Posted in Dating Diary, Divorce |

One Response

  1. SmashGal Says:

    I like the advice about having a friend look at your profile. I’d go a step further and have a friend of the opposite sex write it. They will be more honest and also tell you how it sounds to the sex that you are trying to attract.

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