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Looking for Love as a Senior?

January 24th, 2007

For most people, online dating seems to be something limited to only the younger crowd – the hip twenty to thirty year old professionals that just don’t have the time or the patience to be on the dating scene. However, as the average lifespan increases, online daters are becoming more diverse. Even seniors are getting online and hoping to find love.

When you’re a senior that’s looking for love, getting online is a great way to begin. Not only will you be able to talk with others that share your same interests and hobbies, but you’ll also get to take things slowly, and really get to know someone before you meet them in person.

You can find a number of great dating sites for seniors, including:

Senior Friend Finder

Prime Singles

Age Match

But there are many other sites for seniors as well.

Dating online allows you also to save money on those singles cruises and trips that are sometimes planned for seniors, allowing you to also stay at home until you meet the right person that you want to spend more time with.

You also don’t have to feel pressured into meeting with someone that one of your friends has set you up with. Getting online is easier than ever and you can meet a lot of good friends as well as possible love interests.

When you want to live up your golden years and share them with someone special, online dating just might set you up with Mr. or Mrs. Right.

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Big Age Gaps Needn’t Stop Love!

September 5th, 2006

Big age gaps needn’t stop love!

Michael Douglas (61), Catherine Zeta-Jones (36)

Harrison Ford (64), Calista Flockhart (41)

Brad Pitt (42), Angelina Jolie (31)

Cameron Diaz (34), Justin Timberlake (25)

These super-celebs have something more in common than just blockbuster fame.

With a 25, 23, 11, and 9 year respective age differential, these star couples have an added dimension heaped on the usual relationship difficulties. Each is trying to make love work despite the host of problems that come specifically with a rather large age gap.

Sure, there’s plenty to gain by getting together with someone from a different generation.

Think about it. Everyday you get the chance to be with someone who really has an entirely different perspective than you do. They’re from a different time and era. So naturally they see things differently than you. And adding some of this ‘new other perspective’ to your own way of viewing the world is a definite bonus.

But, yep…there’s a bunch of difficult stuff to deal with too.

Different ages mean the two of you’ll be living through completely different life cycles. This can translate into totally different interests and friends. Maybe you’ll even have to seriously start thinking about health issues (if your partner is older than you) much sooner than you otherwise would have. And if there are children involved from previous marriages – whoa! – you might have your hands full. (Kids often like to wreak havoc on a new wife that’s hardly older than they are).

What’s more? Other people will do their best to make things worse. They’ll stare, gossip…and generally try to make you feel as if you’re some kind of freak.

Forget them. Who cares what other people think anyway!
Focus instead on those who believe in you. True friends will understand the real nature of your love and encourage you.

To get over some of those other difficulties…try taking up a common hobby.

Michael and Catherine golf. Cameron and Justin surf. And Brad and Angelina seem to share a passion for just about any daredevil activity, from motorcycling to flying.

Granted – A common lifestyle (i.e. show biz) probably also helps.

When it’s true love, age really is trivial. Some days might be tough. But don’t be afraid.
Just go for it.

Veronika Cardes

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Saturday Night News

July 15th, 2006

Match.com knows when to strike when the pot is hot – no puns intended.

With the decine in birthrates and an aging population, Japan is starting to encourage couples to have more children to bring the country back to its high population numbers.

Couples in Japan are also getting married later, which is leading to an overall lowered fertility trend – which is also adding to population concerns.

And that means that Match.com has to bring people together in order to start that family process.

(Of course, the fact that the online dating population may be overly saturated by online dating resources probably has helped Match.com to think about looking outside of the U.S. borders.)

Match.com is even going so far as to create personal consultants that will work with people individually to find the person that they will form a long term relationship with – this program looks to begin in early 2007.

It’s interesting to note that while the Japanese spend much of their time on computers, they are not all that confident of the people that they might meet over the Internet.

But Match.com is hoping that they can change some minds.

Online dating has never been easier – and this online dating company is hoping to save a country in the process.

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