Everyone knows that girl. She somehow gets nonstop attention from countless male suitors, seemingly without any effort at all, and every girl hates her for it. Well, get ready to be hated and admired by all of your friends, because if you follow these three easy tips you’ll have every guy you meet wrapped around your little finger! When it comes to first dates, it’s all about how you come off to your new love interest.

Guys are interested in a girl who is fun, exciting, exotic, and most importantly, NOT CLINGY. This seems impossible at times—girls need a lot of attention!—but with these three tips, you are sure to have your cake and eat it too. You’ll come off as sexy and aloof, and he’ll be so intrigued that he’ll be calling and texting you nonstop for a second date!

The first tip is a golden rule that every girl should follow on a first date; try to keep from talking about your self too much! It’s a proven fact that humans love to talk about themselves, so try asking him some interesting questions about himself! If you ask questions that allow him not only to talk, but to brag a little about his strengths and talents, he’ll start to feel confident and masculine around you and have no idea why! When you do talk about yourself, try to keep the conversation fun.

Don’t talk about all the girls you hate and the ten reasons why you hate each one—or your best friend and all of her drama—guys aren’t interested, and drama scares them away! So keep it cool, ask him questions, and answer his with poise and a little sass!

The second tip is the easiest one to understand, but the hardest one to follow; after your first date goes well, ignore him! Okay, don’t ignore him per se, but do try to let him be the one to contact you first. Think about it; how do you feel when a guy doesn’t call you back right away? Even if the first date was awful, he suddenly starts to be all you can think about!

Well it’s time to turn the tables and make him crave that next text from you! If you two hit it off, keep in mind it’s important to take a few extra minutes to text or call back every once in a while. It’s amazing just how much of an effect this one simple trick can have on a guy. There’s a certain mystique about a girl who isn’t constantly fawning all over you!

The third tip is fun and sexy; try to add a little sex appeal to every interaction! Use these little tricks to keep him itching to see you again. On a first date, instead of wearing a skin-tight dress, or a super form-fitting blouse, wear an off-the-shoulder shirt that shows off your neckline, collar bones and a flirty peek of bra strap. Let it slip out every once in a while, and then fix it like you’re hoping he didn’t notice. Then, add a little eye contact after your wardrobe adjustment, and immediately look away and laugh when he catches your eye as though a little embarrassed.

This sequence of events is like a magic spell that works on every guy you’ll meet. It may seem silly and goofy, but if you really want him to see you as that sexy girl-next-door once-in-a-lifetime catch, try it out! Sporadic use of flirty eye contact is always a game-winning move, so don’t be shy!

When it comes to setting yourself apart from all of the other girls out there, these three tips can be your secret weapons to win over Prince Charming. Use these on your

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Have you ever encountered a situation where you spotted an attractive female but didn’t approach because you weren’t sure if she was into you? Thanks to the subconscious signals she sends out, it’s easy to tell what’s on her mind by studying her body language. Whether in a bar or at the office, use the female body language tips below to determine if a woman is interested in getting to know you better.

1. Her gaze is always on you

If she can’t seem to take her eyes off you, she probably finds you attractive. Observe her gaze. Do her eyes seem to linger when she looks at you? Does she position her body in such a way so that she can keep her eyes on you? As an experiment, try moving to a different area of the room and see if her eyes follow you. These are sure female body language indications that she is interested in you and that you should introduce yourself. Also, pay attention to whether or not she holds eye contact with you during conversation instead of looking around the room or at her friends.

2. She points her feet in your direction

Whether she’s sitting or standing, take a look at the direction of her feet. A woman who is attracted to you will point her lower body in your direction. It is effectively a signal that says ‘I would like to go in this direction’.

3. She does things to get you to notice her

If she takes an unnecessarily long route to get somewhere and happens to pass by you, this indicates that she wants you to notice her. For example, she might deliberately pass by you on the way to the restroom even though the restroom is nowhere near you. This is a very clear invite and signals that she wants your attention.

4. She preens herself

When a woman knows you’ve observed her she’ll make a quick effort to look her best for you. She may do this by straightening her skirt of smoothing her hair. These female body language actions are often subconscious, though, so she may not even realize that she’s doing it.

5. She touches her hair

Most women are very particular about their hairstyle because it is one important way women show off their beauty. The way a woman touches or flicks her hair can be a sign that she is interested. If you see her tossing her hair back seductively or twirling and fondling her hair while looking in your direction, she is flirting with you for sure.

6. She laughs at your jokes

Once you approach her, tell her a funny story and pay attention to her reaction. If she openly laughs then she is probably into you. If she is interested in you, she will also listen intently as you speak and it will be apparent through her body language (head tilted, eyes focused, etc.).

7. She strokes herself or an object

Signs of interest or attraction also include enactment of sexually stimulating activities. For example, a woman might caress her arms, leg or face if she feels an attraction for you. This can mean ‘I would like to stroke you like this’ or ‘I would like you to stroke me like this’. Objects held may be also used in enactment displays which include stroking a wine glass, cigarette or any other object in close proximity.

8. She mirrors you

When a woman finds you attractive, you may be able to detect signs of mirroring which involves her mimicking your body language. This is an unconscious body language behavior and a definite indication that she is interested. Some examples of mirroring are taking a drink together or leaning back against the chair at the same time. She may also rest an elbow on the table at the same time as you or try to match the speed and tone of your voice. Pay close attention to see if she mimics your behavior in any way for signs of sexual attraction.

9. She moves in closer

If she feels attracted to you, she’ll sit or stand closer to you. Another great sign that a woman is flirting with you is that she moves in closer and closer and you continue to converse with her. She does this to show a desire to create more intimacy while between the two of you. Another trick she might use is to lower her voice so that you have to move in closer to her to hear what she’s saying. When you see her doing this, you’re receiving a definite sign of attraction and interest.

10. She touches you often

If a woman touches you during conversation it is another indication of her interest in you. This can be a simple touch on the hand or knee. Generally, the more intimate the touch and the longer it lasts the more she is interested.

Most body language experts like to apply the “Rule of Four” when determining if a woman is signaling attraction, so be alert for at least four of the above such indications. If she displays five or more signs of interest, you have definitely captured her attention and can be confident that she finds you attractive. Keep in mind, however, that even if some of the above body language signals are present, she could just be interested in keeping you as a friend so always be polite and respect her space.

Remember these 10 signs that she is attracted to you the next time you encounter a woman you find attractive, and you‘ll become an expert at decoding female body language in no time!

By Salena Quinn

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Dating videos, designed to help people attract the opposite sex, have been around for quite a while. But a new series of dating videos called “Instant Attraction” have caught the attention of more than just the men they were aimed at.

It seems that the “Instant Attraction” videos are getting a lot of things right because their methods employ a lot of research into the psychology of attraction. They spent a lot of time looking at why two different men can have such disparity in their ability to attract women, even when they are of equal attractiveness. What Mark Sing, the creator of the Instant Attraction videos, has learned is that men must employ a certain psychology and thought process to attract women easily. His method employs steps that men who attract women easily are using already, and Sing is proud of the fact that he took the time to do a lot of research on what works when trying to attract women.

The videos have been so successful that psychologists are now studying them to get better insight into male/female attraction psychology. I think that fact alone makes it pretty clear that Sing and his videos are onto something!

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