While we can sit back and point out all of the flaws in our dating life, maybe it’s time to start pointing out what we’ve done right – for a change. So often, we sit and we wonder, “Why am I alone?” But while this question is not going to be quieted any time soon, the validity of asking it in the first place is questionable.

Here’s the thing – being single is not a disease or something that needs to be ‘fixed.’ In thinking that you have some sort of problem, you begin to create the feeling that YOU are the problem.

And as the saying goes, “It takes two to tango.”

Being in a relationship (or not) is rarely the fault of one person. Since you need to have two people come together who both enjoy each other’s company and who are actively ready to be in a relationship, it’s almost as though the stars do need to align in a very precise manner in order for love to blossom.

Instead of simply giving up and taking the blame, you need to get out and start living the life you do have. Sign up for classes, become a part of your neighborhood watch, etc. Do things that make you happy. After all, people want to date someone who’s vibrant and alive – not someone who’s mopey.

That part IS your fault. But fixing it is easy.

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While we might want to believe that celebrities date other celebrities just to stay in same kind of attractiveness factor, that’s not always the case. Because of the schedules that many of these celebrities have, it’s just easier to date someone that ‘gets’ what you have to do and what it takes to do your job.

Why should it be any different for those in professional public service jobs?

At thebadge.org, police officers, emergency medical professionals and fire fighters can meet other singles in their lines of work, helping to connect these courageous people. But because you’re meeting people in the same line of work, you’re already going to have something in common, plus you’re going to be with someone who ‘gets’ your life and your responsibilities.

Your line of work takes you out at all hours of the day and night in dangerous situations. You have to drop everything for strangers and you can’t simply say ‘no’ when the fire bell rings or if you get an emergency call.

And other singles on the site understand.

While this site is still growing, there is no doubt that helping to focus your possible dating pool is going to help you find the perfect someone to love. After all, you’re meeting someone who cares about everyone else’s well being – why not about yours too?

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In this world where beauty seems to be the ideal, it’s no surprise that some online dating sites are capitalizing on this trend. At DarwinDating.com, it’s all about the survival of the ‘hottest’ where only beautiful people can sign up and meet other equally beautiful people.

All you have to do is sign up – and then hope that others vote you in as ‘hot enough’ to be a part of this young, hip, and happening group of would be daters.

Sound restrictive? It is. The main concern with Darwin Dating is that while it sounds like it’s taking itself a bit too seriously, it really thinks that it’s cornering the market on those that value superficial looks above all else. And in this day and age, maybe that’s what people are looking for.

It sounds like a bunch of silliness to those that want to find love in someone who simply shares the same values as themselves, who wants to respect and love them for whoever they are. But for those that are tired of finding certain groups of people on the dating sites they’re currently using, this might be the perfect fit.

I guess that if you’re going to say that there’s a dating site for everyone, you need to include a dating site for everyone – even if the pretty people all want to hang out by themselves and talk about how pretty they are.

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