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Online Cheating and You

October 14th, 2008

Some people start online dating for one reason – to cheat on their spouses. While this isn’t exactly an honorable reason to date online, it’s the truth. And it’s becoming more rampant than ever.

There are two sides to this debate – one that supports infidelity online and one that says to avoid cheaters altogether.

To make things easier for you, here are the advantages to cheating online:

  • You can be discreet
  • You can meet other married people
  • You can create online relationships
  • You can have multiple relationships
  • There are sites devoted entirely to married people who want to date

Here are the disadvantages to cheating online:

  • There’s a permanent electronic record of your infidelity
  • You might run into your spouse
  • You can get ‘outed’ as a married person
  • You can get caught much more easily
  • You have to pay money

Is there an answer to whether or not you should cheat on your spouse? Only you can decide, but when it comes to creating a new relationship, it always seems to be better to get rid of the old before you bring in the new – online or not.

Maybe if you’re tempted to cheat online, you might want to talk to your spouse about what you feel. This can help you both figure out what you need to do to fix your relationship or to break it off.

They say cheaters are never winners, after all.

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Summer Romance Anyone?

August 23rd, 2008


Who needs a long term relationship when you can have a summer fling? Well, a late summer fling anyway. Even if you want marriage and partnership in the future, there’s nothing wrong with getting into a relationship right now – just for fun. Here are some of the reasons you need a fling now!

  • It’s fun – Instead of feeling the pressure of making a relationship work, you get to focus on how you and your fling can make the most of the time you have. Each date is better than the one before.
  • It’s harmless – As long as you and your date know that you’re not looking for anything serious, you can enjoy each other’s company guilt-free.
  • It helps you meet new people – Not only are you getting a date night companion, but you can also meet his or her friends, extending your future potential dates and just platonic relationships.
  • You can have your space – Since you’re not going to be changing your life for this person, you have the freedom to still do whatever you want and then see them when you like.
  • You learn about your needs – When you focus only on what YOU desire, you actually are getting a great learning opportunity. You get to learn more about yourself and more about your needs in terms of relationships in general. This is only going to help your future dates.

Online dating is a great place to find that summer (or fall) fling, so why not start updating that profile. Who knows? Maybe a fling will become more than you expect and all that you’ve wanted?

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Wildmatch.com

May 6th, 2007

Wildmatch.com is stylish adult dating site where adults can seek likeminded adults for fun and casual encounters of every type. Adult content and explicit photos are hidden from view until you confirm that you are at least 18 years of age. Basic membership on Wildmatch is free, and this gives you limited access to the site, allows you to read member profiles, and to receive emails. On signing up, you’ll receive a message from a friendly Wildmatch representative who will offer you help and advice, all at the click of button.

Once online for the fist time, I received 3 or 4 emails within the first few minutes (one from a Filipino lady-boy) and a couple of hits. Women can expect a lot of attention, as with most adult oriented dating sites, the male/female mix tends to lean towards men. However, Wildmatch does seem to have a sizeable genuine female membership. Uploading a good photo is also important as profiles with photos can expect to receive about 8 times as many responses as profiles without pictures.

The site is user friendly and very easy to navigate. The advanced searching options allow you to really fine tune your matches down to location, individual appearance, sexual positions and preferences, and even occupation. However, free membership only gives you a teaser of what the site has to offer, and in order to contact members or to use more advance features such as webcams, video chat, keyholes or compatibility matching, you will need to upgrade to Gold membership.

Do you have any comments, complaints or something to say about Wildmatch.com? Did you meet someone special on this site? If so, we’d love to hear from you. Your opinion matters!

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