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A New Approach To Facebook Matchmaking

May 15th, 2010

There’s a new player in the arena of matchmaking and connecting singles using Facebook. Littlehint is a startup company that claims to have a new and better way of collecting your Facebook friends, sorting them according to which ones might be best matched for dating, and then making it easy for those folks to connect with each other.

If it sounds a bit like Thread.com you’re right because the basic idea is the same. What’s different, though, is the Littlehint is setting itself up with more detailed questions to answer as part of your profile and is also working feverishly to allow users to submit their DNA profiles as well. DNA matching for singles is the hottest, newest, and most unproven method of matchmaking in the business right now so it’s not clear if this is really a selling point for Littlehint or not.

The way Littlehint describes its process is that they ask a series of questions to determine your sociological characteristics, assess your personality and psychological tendencies, and then use a function called “degrees of separation” to connect you with friends via your Facebook page. The catch? Your friends need to fill out a Littlehint profile, too, for the whole thing to work.

Is this the wave of the dating future? Who knows. But one thing is for certain, we’re going to be seeing more of these types of online dating tools so you need to stay as up to date as possible if you want to make the most of online dating opportunities.

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The Science Of Matchmaking

October 7th, 2009

We all have seen the commercials and heard the hype about how some dating sites use “scientific” methods to match people based on personal characteristics, compatibility, and the like. But does this really work? Is there any evidence to show that there truly is a science to matchmaking? The answer is, it depends.

Let’s start with what it means to take a scientific approach to matching singles with each other. For paid online dating sites like eHarmony.com and Match.com, this means taking known research about the things that tend to cause marriages to fail (smoking, age differences, lack of common interests, etc.) and using this information to match people together. The theory is if they can minimize the problem areas that often lead to divorce in the first place, they can match singles more successfully and get better results.

The problem has been in actually verifying this as a successful matchmaking method. EHarmony.com and Match.com recently published their “success rates”, but these are put out there in terms such as the number of emails exchanged per year, the number of “winks” sent out each year, and the number of dates their users go on each year. This is interesting information (mostly for advertisers) but doesn’t necessarily help determine if their matching methods succeed where it really counts – helping you find someone special to share your life.

Do I think dating sites that use this approach are necessarily bad? No, of course not. There are plenty of singles who have found partners using this kind of approach. All I’m saying is it’s a good idea to have an objective view of what they’re offering and promising if you’re going to choose to use their services.

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Love’s Still Booming

May 1st, 2009

When times are tough, the tough don’t want to be home alone. After all, you can only look at your 401K statement and weep so many times. Instead of sitting by yourself, why not call up a matchmaker and make an investment that’s sure to pay off.

Love is still a hot ticket right now – especially for matchmakers. They’re finding more and more people who want to sign up for love – and pay for it.

It makes sense. Even though you might want to hide away, you can find love. Matchmakers find people who seem to share common interests and then arrange for meet-ups. Of course, you do want to know that these services don’t come cheap.

So that’s why people are turning to online dating to act as a matchmaker for them. By simply signing up with a few different sites and creating interesting and honest profiles, you will begin to have more dates than you know what to do with.

(And maybe a few free meals along the way.)

To act as your own matchmaker, be clear about the kind of person you want to meet and what you are expecting from the relationship. This is not the time to be vague or to be shy – get out there and start making dates.

Love isn’t going to come in your next 401K report, so you need to start matchmaking to ensure your life isn’t completely without value until the market rebounds.

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