Member Comments on AshleyMadison.com

Have any of you men considered that your wives are possibly sick of having sex with you? You get old. You never want to go out anymore, never express any interest in foreplay, and some of you lose the ability to even get it up. You stop treating your wives like women. So in truth, a lot of them would rather have sex with someone besides you. Women just have better control over our sex organs. Most of the men I met on AM were pathetic old losers. I'm 22. They were in their forties and fifties. Old enough to be my father. Gross. If a woman my age wants to have sex with a guy that old, she is either mentally retarded, or he has a lot of money. So advice for the men on that site. Don't send young women pictures of your private parts. We'll show our friends, and point and laugh at it <3.

I just realised I don't want to live on this planet anymore. For all the people who access this site: go shoot yourself, morons! I read comments and I can't believe what retarded, hypocrites some people are....if you are bored with your partner, get a divorce.........@Smokey88...if Americans are interested in foreign women...well that doesn't mean that they are interested in you...because we don't like fat ass...i mean why i should be surprised...only in America these things happen.

I would strongly recommend you stay clear of this site. Not only is it very hard to connect with others, the administration themselves are not honourable. I have been a member of Ashley Madison for a few years, and have had zero success. AM will tell you that it's my fault, naturally, but it really is a scam. I question how many members are real. Bottom line is, I decided to leave. In the process, I am sure my account got hacked, and I ended up buying over $100 for credits I did not want. I went back to AM, and requested a refund. I was elated when their first response stated "We would be happy to refund your most recent purchase, but we would like to consider.....". I emailed back, thanked them, and said I wanted the option of the refund. The next email from them stated I did not read the email correctly, and they have a policy of no refunds. So, they were not going to honour their email. Now, I am fighting trying to get them to honour their offer to refund. Bottom line is, the site is ineffective at meeting others, and the organization itself is not sticking to offers through a customer service rep. I would stay clear of this organization at all possible costs....they purely want your money. Don't fall for it.

@Louise Are you kidding? There is no justification whatsoever for cheating in a marriage. Why stay married? If you have a sexless marriage, there is a deeper underlying problem. Do something positive for you both and seek out counseling to get to the bottom of what's really wrong.

This website is unbelievable. I didn't believe a friend when she told me about it, but yes Virgina, it exists. Why be married if cheating is Ok? Doesn't anyone respect one another as human beings at the very least, or are we all just objects to use and lie to at a whim?

@katherine l. You are so right!

@Rex My experience with AM was poor but expensive. It almost seemed like you get a lot of response about the time your credits run out. This way it seems to suck you into buying more. I actually have ten times better luck just going to bars. Sorry, I say save your money. You can buy a lot of drinks for the cost of this site.

Yeah, real classy. You are denying your partner's the right to information they have a right to know, whether it's lying by omission or flat out lying. In business we call that fraud and we sue. In the bedroom, we say, oh, boys will be boys?

I found that Ashley Madison is inundated with posers, fakes, wannabes, and possibly a few employees. Of course there are a few real women on the site who actually want to experience a thrill outside of their marriage, or just want someone to make them feel pretty. For those people, Craigs List would be more beneficial. For all of the single women on Ashley Madison trying to find a guy; I suggest Match.com. Ashley Madison is very expensive to use and preys on human vulnerabilities and susceptibilities to secure the next purchase of credits. Whether playing alone, or with my wife, we have found that AFF is far more cost effective, the people on AFF are real, the comments from their encounters are also real, not just nebulous numbers at the bottom of a profile. My recommendation - take your play and money somewhere else.

@John Mazzitelli Right now it is the best game in town. But until there are more real participating women on AM, it is not-unlike walking into a bar where there are ten (10) guys for every woman. Not too much fun, I'd say!

@Stella Yep, the site is a great site for women but it stinks for men. I am 62 and live in southern NJ, USA. I conducted an experiment in which I created a fake woman of 55 years of age. I gave her a weight of 130# and 5'6" height; no other information was given... no pictures... nothing! Her name is on AM now. I also created an AM guy account also. Describing myself, 62, retired, trim-fit, educated-professional, above average looks (for 62), sports car (private photo), with all sorts of (desirable?) characteristics. Well, my fake lady gets hundreds of messages-propositions. My guy gets 1 (one!). Even when I do a search for my fake lady, she gets 200+ prospective guys in the 20-mile radius. When I do a search, with virtually no criteria for selectivity, I get 47 possible women. How many of these women are real is another question; since most of the have not been active on their account for 7+ days. Yep, it must be great being a woman on AM, but as a guy, it stinks!

@E Gato del Florida You've got a great marriage, and a great wife and you're cheating on her? What the hell is wrong with this picture?

@Ziara I agree...I found out my husband was on the site...and its sad how the cold hearted idiots out there just don't care about anyone but themselves.. We have a 5-month old baby girl..and just got married in july of 10' I just couldn't believe it, it's a pain that will always stay with me...

@Mike Well I am one of those women who signed up for Ashley Madison. I had 350 messages in 24 hours. I had to weed them down somehow, so I eliminated everyone that was more than 500 miles away from me (that was most). Then I decided I would reply to everyone that actually took the time to send me a message, not just ask for nude pictures. You would not believe the messages I got back. I was called the worst names imaginable, just for a simple "no thank you". The few decent seeming guys I did find were complete flakes. I just cancelled my membership because of too many nasty people, pic collectors, and flakes! I would recommend wasting your time with this site!

You treat marriage as a rubbish...this is holy gift from God...think about your children not your own fleshly desires. From Manila, 22 yrs old.

Are you all out of your mind? How would you feel if it was your wife or husband having the affair on you? I realize there may be some extenuating circumstances, but many of you admit to having a great marriage. Did you ever think about honesty, and just trying to spice it up at home with your significant other? This is beyond reprehensible. If you are not happy and you can afford to leave, then leave your marriage and have all the adventure you want.

If this is okay and you see nothing wrong with it, then why don't you just come out and sign an open marriage agreement with your wife/husband. Mmmm....I guess "some" of the people on this site feel pretty special don't they. After all it is your right to do what you want to, but it would bother the crap out of you if you found out your husband or wife was doing this.

Please....I am sure this won't even get posted. But what the heck I got it off my chest.

I plunked down the cash and got zero.... I am a very good looking man with a winning personality. I'm not ashamed to be confident about that fact because it's for illustration purposes. It's just the way it is. I don't go walking around a confident arrogant jack ass. I just know that I'm not unfortunate. Anyway ...I was never treated as badly or inhumanely by anybody ever in my life as I had been on Ashley Madison. I am very respectful and humorous and I either go nothing for a response of a woman degrading me in a return email. I even "undressed" a woman to the point of her saying "gee I'm really sorry will you accept that" I did and she returned an email bashing me again. What is that??? My suspicion is this. The men are on there trying to find a fast hookup. The women are on there to wreak havoc with these men. And those of us (women and men) who are on there for real with realistic goals are proverbial needles in the haystack. Nothing good in life is easy and you have to put the time in. Ashley Madison and their online counterparts are not worth the time.

@Marina Okay for one sex is a huge part of a successful relationship, and if you're not getting it from your wife/husband partner whatever then you need to leave the relationship. Staying in a sexless relationship and finding sex elsewhere isn't the answer. It's that simple. And before anyone says how would you know, I do know and was married to someone for almost 13 years who I loved very much and still do. But sexually nothing, maybe twice a year, But I divorced him and it was the right thing to do. Not going out and having random sex with anyone that's not the answer, you just end up with a hot mess.

I joined there from Finland, Europe. Was never able to log in, they said that it is because of my country, so why I was even able to sign up? I want to delete my account, have asked them to do it several times, now they asked me to call (!) to USA? It would be very expensive. I have sent my request to delete from my account from email, which I used for registering, still waiting them to delete my account, is it so difficult? Can't understand.

The so-called Ashley Madison "agency" is a total rip-off. Most of the women just do not actually exist. Your emails--which you pay for with "credits"--joom off into cyberspace. A total waste of time, and a total scam. These jerks ought to be prosecuted for fraud!

@Mike I understand exactly what you are saying and I agree 100%!