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Hello, I would really appreciate some advice here. I met a man last year with two kids who is going through a divorce. On our third date I wasn't sure if I wanted to continue with him due to our age gap and goals, I look for a healthy and balanced relationship and I would like to marry and have kids at some point. I'm 32 and he's 46. I expressed this to him and he said he noticed that, and is something he was willing to do again. We saw each other every other week as he lives part time with his kids. As I got to know him, I really like him and we enjoyed so much being together, I felt safe and secure and in love with him. I noticed he continuously brought up his ex-wife and still has pictures of her. After dating for 5 months he said we wanted to take things slow and back up a bit. I never met his family or his kids. This broke my heart and we stopped seeing each other for 4 months. About a month ago we re-initiated contact, he removed all the pictures of his ex-wife and the process is almost finalized, we were so happy to see each other again. But one more time he told he wished he had met me before he married that person, and that he is not sure if he wants to have more kids. He was very sad but he said we can continue seeing each other until I find the right person for me. I feel very hurt, I love him but it looks like this will not work and all I have left is just to move on...