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Meeting the kids is a huge thing.. if he is a decent guy then this would be true in your situation. I am with a guy who has four children to his ex and I met them around three or four months after the separation. At first he brought them over to meet me and have dinner. Takeaways not anything fancy =) The most shy one is the one who always want to see me and has cried about it. My partner took steps with the kids.
He would take them to stay at his new place or at parents when we were first living together (his parents didn't know we were living together). He waited until he thought they were ready and when we did do the over night, we waited again before they stayed again.
Slow and steady sure does win the race. But EVERY situation is different. My family were always happy that we were together but his family not so much... but now I have met his parents and sisters. So who gives a f**k what others think. Yes they may be right but I can't say as I don't know your situation and how serious it is but some do work out.
Mine did =D
They may come around but you don't want to lose too many friends over it. But if they are real friends then they will be very supportive. Yes they may not agree with yah but...
Do what makes you happy. My partner has hurt me and I have hurt him (sounds bad but if u knew the situation then it's understandable). But that was before we got together and I couldn't be happier =) He was a married man when we first met and was for just over three years while we were "just friends" (if you know what I mean). So this is why we had complications but he told her he was in love with me and he was sick of being miserable. He didn't want to hurt the kids but the hard road is over and that heart that was hurt... is now much happier and have the man I love. Hey... he's mine so you have your man if you want him!! =D DO WHAT YOU FEEL AND THINK IS BEST FOR YOU. Talk about it but don't be fooled. If you do it right then u will be the happiest ever =)