@Laura I joined a few weeks ago. I am very serious about finding someone. I am a professional, educated, i am told I look younger then my 50 plus age, still my matches are not even close to my age or they live in the next state ect.
I am a 36 year old woman with a preference for men my age or slightly younger and they kept sending me matches of men of men 40 to 51 when my preference is 30- 41! Any younger guy id message would ignore me while these old lechers kept badgering me.
Did you ever consider these younger guys you are messaging might consider you to be an old lecher as well?
Eharmony is a complete joke! A waste of good money! I am a 36 year old woman with a preference for men my age or slightly younger and they kept sending me matches of men of men 40 to 51 when my preference is 30- 41! Any younger guy id message would ignore me while these old lechers kept badgering me.
@sandra schofield Don't be so down on yourself. If you don't love yourself, why should anybody else love you? I'm 56, met a man on pof.com and he thinks I'm very hot. I am not slim, tall, and my hair is very short. Not Christine Brinkley by any means. I'm average for my age. He's 4 years younger and loves women my age, won't even date someone younger. Learn to love yourself and your own body and you might have better luck with men.
@Priscilla I feel sorry for you. You are so young and so hateful. Grow up. Someday you'll be 50.
I'm sure the site is fairly good if you pay the high fee. However the 10 day free trial is really pointless considering you CAN'T see what your matches look like. eHarmony fails because of this. Bad enough that online dating is a crap shoot as it is by having to deal with fake profiles, scammers, and narcissists; But to not show pics of your matches? Online blind dating equals no for me!
@Alex Hi Alex, I like your frankness here. Yes, I was being prompted by eHarmony to give it a try. I am still sceptical about as to whether it is worth trying my efforts on it or not. I am 35 years old, a full time teacher and a part time model for a corporate magazine. I like to know you better. Don't ever worry, I am a genuine seeker just like you, looking for my soul mate. I hate scammers to bits!! You can reach me at my email: lindalaszdan@yahoo.com.sg. See you soon!!
@Priscilla With that pitiful arrogance, are you going to feel the same way when you turn 40 and look older than you are now? Do you really think that those men that come in your face aren't looking for a booty call? LET'S BE FOR REAL AND STOP THE FAKING!
@Priscilla I feel sorry for you and your attitude towards older women. I'm in my 50's and I have men in their 30's in my face all the time. Why.... I'm beautiful, sexy, and they don't care for your immaturity. You think you have it all figured out and you don't. You think you're "a gift" and you're not. I hope you age gracefully as I have. By the way... remember what your are when you're 50!
I have had no problems. Get many matches a day. Lots of contact, requests for communication, long conversations on the phone and many dates. All in one month. And all within my criteria (which was pretty strict). I am early 40s and matches are 35-50. Having a great time looking for the "one".
I have been thinking of e-harmony for a while but after reading the comments, it is exactly what I suspected - a rip-off for men who can't find a woman, and a place for the "cougars" to find a younger man. Let's face it, life is not going to bring you what you want - Stop "shopping on line", stop drinking so much, and face the fact that you are, like I am, old and not desirable any more. Stop talking about yourself as "Hot, late fifties", etc. Nobody in their late fifties is "Hot" - get a mirror and clean it well before you look into it. Do some volunteer work and grow old gracefully - alone!!!
eHarmony
@Laura I joined a few weeks ago. I am very serious about finding someone. I am a professional, educated, i am told I look younger then my 50 plus age, still my matches are not even close to my age or they live in the next state ect.
eHarmony
Did you ever consider these younger guys you are messaging might consider you to be an old lecher as well?
eHarmony
Eharmony is a complete joke! A waste of good money! I am a 36 year old woman with a preference for men my age or slightly younger and they kept sending me matches of men of men 40 to 51 when my preference is 30- 41! Any younger guy id message would ignore me while these old lechers kept badgering me.
eHarmony
@sandra schofield Don't be so down on yourself. If you don't love yourself, why should anybody else love you? I'm 56, met a man on pof.com and he thinks I'm very hot. I am not slim, tall, and my hair is very short. Not Christine Brinkley by any means. I'm average for my age. He's 4 years younger and loves women my age, won't even date someone younger. Learn to love yourself and your own body and you might have better luck with men.
@Priscilla I feel sorry for you. You are so young and so hateful. Grow up. Someday you'll be 50.
eHarmony
I'm sure the site is fairly good if you pay the high fee. However the 10 day free trial is really pointless considering you CAN'T see what your matches look like. eHarmony fails because of this. Bad enough that online dating is a crap shoot as it is by having to deal with fake profiles, scammers, and narcissists; But to not show pics of your matches? Online blind dating equals no for me!
eHarmony
@Alex Hi Alex, I like your frankness here. Yes, I was being prompted by eHarmony to give it a try. I am still sceptical about as to whether it is worth trying my efforts on it or not. I am 35 years old, a full time teacher and a part time model for a corporate magazine. I like to know you better. Don't ever worry, I am a genuine seeker just like you, looking for my soul mate. I hate scammers to bits!! You can reach me at my email: lindalaszdan@yahoo.com.sg. See you soon!!
Linda
eHarmony
@Priscilla With that pitiful arrogance, are you going to feel the same way when you turn 40 and look older than you are now? Do you really think that those men that come in your face aren't looking for a booty call? LET'S BE FOR REAL AND STOP THE FAKING!
eHarmony
@Priscilla I feel sorry for you and your attitude towards older women. I'm in my 50's and I have men in their 30's in my face all the time. Why.... I'm beautiful, sexy, and they don't care for your immaturity. You think you have it all figured out and you don't. You think you're "a gift" and you're not. I hope you age gracefully as I have. By the way... remember what your are when you're 50!
eHarmony
I have had no problems. Get many matches a day. Lots of contact, requests for communication, long conversations on the phone and many dates. All in one month. And all within my criteria (which was pretty strict). I am early 40s and matches are 35-50. Having a great time looking for the "one".
eHarmony
I have been thinking of e-harmony for a while but after reading the comments, it is exactly what I suspected - a rip-off for men who can't find a woman, and a place for the "cougars" to find a younger man. Let's face it, life is not going to bring you what you want - Stop "shopping on line", stop drinking so much, and face the fact that you are, like I am, old and not desirable any more. Stop talking about yourself as "Hot, late fifties", etc. Nobody in their late fifties is "Hot" - get a mirror and clean it well before you look into it. Do some volunteer work and grow old gracefully - alone!!!