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Indian Matrimonial Network

indian matrimonial sites — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 12:28 +0000

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Mike — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 12:33 +0000

<a href="#1182">@anonymous</a> Not everyone is Christian. Please consider that. There are other religions out there (with different morals), and *gasp* even people who are not religious. Stop seeing the world so ego-centric. Don't ruin it for everybody else, just because you don't agree with it. Please keep your morals to yourself, and I'll keep my morals to myself. Deal?

AshleyMadison.com

Mike — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 12:18 +0000

<a href="#2175">@Banjo30</a> Thank you for saying what everyone else is thinking. I'm in the same situation. I've been with my girl for 5 years, and after year 2 she pretty much completely cut out sex. I refuse to have sex with someone who's "only doing it for me" but isn't interested in it herself - "going through the motions so to speak". If you guys want to do that, fine. To me that's a form of rape. (Even though her sex is consensual, I know her heart is not in it. Therefore I refuse to participate in it.) Iâ��d much rather have sex with someone who actually enjoys it and craves it like I do. That's what the site is for, and does very well. Do I love my wife any less, because of that? Of course not. We have tons of romantic evenings, outings, etc. We just don't have sex. Now are you saying I should divorce my wife just because she doesn't enjoy, or crave sex? Or because she thinks that she doesn't have a problem she needs to get looked at? Monogamy is an outdated concept that doesn't apply in todayâ��s generation. It worked well from biblical times to the middle ages, when people lived to be 30. In todayâ��s world where people travel more than 30 miles away from home, monogamy just doesn't seem as reasonable. I still believe in marriage and love my wife. I just don't see why I should suffer from it. (Or do what other men do with prostitutes or internet porn.)

AshleyMadison.com

Banjo30 — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 01:00 +0000

While I pan AM for a lot of reasons, the morality police really need to stop being so naive. About one marriage in 6 is sexless. Many of those are by choice of one partner only. What do you do when you love your wife, but at age 30 she decides that she will never have sex again, nor ever get help for what she thinks is not a problem? Before you decide to send us all to hell, why don't you go have a look at the sexless/loveless marriage support sites on the web to see what 15 million people in the US alone have to live with every damn day. I only wish there were a site like Ashley Madison for men. The one that exists is really only for women.

Indian FriendFinder

rocks — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 12:47 +0000

I am a indian. I am seeking good indian woman may be interested long term friendship.

MyFunline.com

Ani — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 06:53 +0000

MyFunLine.com is the #1 Armenian dating and social network site ever made

Scanna.com

gentllleman — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 12:14 +0000

Hi looking for a beautifull understanding hot and sexy woman

Dating a Divorced Man

EllaMoore — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 10:16 +0000

<a href="#2012">@Me</a> "Me", I am almost in the same situation as you are. I am about your age, with a man, divorced, with a son, and at times itâ��s very hard to just ignore all the negativity that clouds over the relationship. Itâ��s hard to listen to loved ones tell us that they only want the best for us bc they love us, and that they donâ��t want us to make a mistake, but you know what itâ��s even harder to leave the man himself. If could be possible that your friend could be a bit jealous but think of what she really means. I mean she is not the only one that has been against this thus far, so you must consider this. I think at this point, hunny, there are more important and pressing issues beside your "mutual friends" advice. Things like â��why did he get divorced?â��and â��what will happen to the children after you get serious with him?â��, etc. Hang in there, Iâ��m here if you need!

Dating a Divorced Man

EllaMoore — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 10:07 +0000

<a href="#1764">@Chloe</a> Chloe, I am sorry to hear that it is hard for you to face that he used to be married and lived with and bore a child with another woman, but I must say that you are blessed that this is the main concerning issue. I would think that if she remained an active part of his life and they still got along great that would be the main concern. I have been dating a guy that is divorced and with a daughter, I do not yet know whether or not I would want to take this to the next level bc the thought of having to share my time with him with a child, who is not mine, scares me and is already worry and insecure. I am terrified to getting hurt, of being put last, or told that itâ��s either his daughter or me in the house. You made an interesting point, saying that you can easily go and meet a man without any baggage, and thatâ��s something that so many of my family and friends have told me the same, what are your reasons for staying with him and being able to overlook the "baggage"?

Yahoo Personals

Ivan — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 01:35 +0000

Not impressed at all. The set up of the site is actually good and well laid out and user friendly, but thatâ��s where it stops. The main problem is you can have a full profile for free and as a result there many inactive and or fake profiles. In addition, it is a magnet for Nigerian scammers with their fake profiles. I quickly became fed up being frequently contacted by fake profiles, which are usually easy to spot by their inconsistencies. You have to cancel your membership to actually stop the charges. They are actually very few real and active profiles, at least from women in 20's and 30's . A waste of time and money.

eHarmony

Alex — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 11:53 +0000

I was disappointed with the site in several ways. I am an attractive and fit 42 year old man, and look mid 30â��s in appearance. However, I received far too many profiles of women in their early to late 40â��s, where profiles of women in their 30â��s would have been more appropriate. The quality of profiles of women in their 30â��s that I did see was disappointing to say the least, rarely fit or attractive. Even after the extensive questionnaire, some women would immediately close communication, even though these were supposed matches. In addition to the hoops to jump through, it can be very time consuming to actually get to one on one contact.

Armenian Match

Harout Barigian — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 10:06 +0000

Hello, I am a 77 yr old healthy man who is seeking the companionship of an Armenian woman living near Pasadena or Glendale. I am looking for a long term relationship, with the possibility of marriage. If you would like to know me better, email me at lakesevan@yahoo.com. With much respect, Harout Barigian.

IWantU.com

Bert Lundblad — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 02:37 +0000

Has anyone dealt with someone called favour joy, from senegal, possibly nigeria, no pics, no profile just this nickname?

Millionaire Match

jemal — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 02:38 +0000

<a href="#1725">@Perla</a> hey then why don't you just message me back and we could converse a bit if thats cool.

SugarDaddyForMe.com

melmel12 — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 06:28 +0000

Iâ��m looking for that special person to give him my love while caring for his desires thus making the relationship mutually beneficial for both of us. I love Sugardaddyforme site because it gives me the opportunity to express this stance. Iâ��m just searching for that special man and who knows Peter Dann it might just be you :)

Get it On

Practically — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 05:53 +0000

GETITON is an excellent site for adults who interest varies from curious to committing.

MerryDating.com

Jack Frost — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 03:00 +0000

I can't make up my mind if this site is real or not. It is weird, but I feel like I usually have a good insight if the person or site is a scam, but I can't figure this one out. The girl I am in the most contact with wants to talk to me on the phone, but I'm currently using the free service which only allows e-mails without contact information. It is weird, but I feel like it might just all be a site scam. Like there are no real people and they are only trying to get you to sign up to get your money. It is like I want to sign up and see what happens with the phone call, because I don't mind paying a little for the service. I just want to be an actual service and not a scam. Anyone else thinking this too?

ArabLounge.com

jadkhalil — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 01:11 +0000

Looking for someone special and hope to find her as soon as possible.

Amateur Match

HDspencer — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 05:08 +0000

Pretty decent site, it does a lot of things in addition to the dating aspect like live cams, videos, galleries, chat among other things. I would say take it for a spin and see if you like it like I do.

MyPoppet.com

Joe — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 04:01 +0000

Well, folks, I think you ought to draw your own conclusions. Here is my latest email thread with a guy called Matthew, who I might add had his comment posted on this board and is now gone, who did not reply to my March 1, 2010 email reply to his email. I had asked for three people who posted on this board to touch base with me. One did but has not to date follow through. ** Content removed by moderator ** It is my opinion that some of these postings that are so positive of MyPoppet.com are from shills. I would like to be proven otherwise. This guy Matthew is perhaps scared off from my question whether he is associated with MyPoppet???? I asked the question so I can at least know who I am talking to. Well, folks, have a nice day. Be careful with your hard earned money!!!

Muslima.com

azharuddin — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 06:15 +0000

Assalam walaikum, I'm looking for a good and decent girlfriend who has a full islamic culture in her, and who has respect for her elders.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Dreama — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 09:58 +0000

<a href="#2049">@Jeanne</a> Hi Jeanne, I won't try & retype everything I just did & it disappeared..POOF!! But, everything that happened to you, happened to me for over 2 months now. I even got Flowers for Valentine's Day... Except, he went from Fl. to California on a job, then to Australia due to his Mom dying of Pancreatic Cancer, as my DH did 2 years ago....What a Joke! Now he is supposed to be in a hospital in Australia due to an auto accident. They are requesting $6,000 for his medical bills, same as he needed for his Mother's hospital surgery. He has 2 others involved, supposed to be doctors, a Panloyd Williams & a Dr. Kyle. BTW...he has two names he goes by Ronald Buckyard/Buck Ronald, God only knows how many more. I so wish, I had found your post earlier, as I fell for him hard, I'm so sorry to say & got burnt! We must have over lapped at some point, as I was also contacted via him at the first of Jan. 2010. I received all the LONG Love emails, Poems, Songs that would melt your heart & many phone calls. They are still trying to get more money from me. Not Happening, Once Bitten, Twice Shy! There was also another lady by the name of Kathy, he tried it with too, She was much smarter than I was. I feel like such a fool & not sure I'll ever believe another dating site again. BTW...I did find one of his addresses in Hemet California under the name of Buck Ronald. He said, that is the home he lost to his ex wife. Who knows, he may still live there. I would Love to chat with you & compare notes on him. Does this ring a bell "Smiles"? He was suppose to be coming to my state for 2 months, so we could finalize our relationship. Please everyone...Be careful, if it's too good to be true, It probably is.

AshleyMadison.com

What a jerk — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 08:55 +0000

<a href="#1796">@Kelsey</a> Then go away, and don't go on the site you self righteous jerk! What disgusts me is people that judge others based on their so called morality, with out having any idea what they're talking about.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

brennie — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 02:38 +0000

There's good and bad everywhere, you just can't be so gullible...No photos, no fill ins then don't respond, and don't respond to "flirts" only. Sound upbeat, independent (not desperate), informed, not negative either and without going into your life history and you should be fine...It's so important to have a recent photo posted, at least one or two...Ask yourself if you'd respond to a profile w/o a photo...I know I wouldn't...Do you know how many people put up profiles w/o photos? Tons!, so what makes you so sure they're going to look at your photo less profile, unless they're scamming, of course...or married, which many are....Just be careful and don't believe everything you hear...Like one poster said, if it's too good to be true, it usually is...Be cautious, but have fun browsing anyway.

eChemistry.com

Bill — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 09:51 +0000

After spending 2 hours and 20 minutes answering the myriad of questions they found "no matches" only one near miss in Ireland. Too bad I don't live even close to Ireland. Then when I try to cancel and remove all my information from their website the link doesn't work. Thank god I didn't spend any money on this site. Don't get caught...stay away.

SugarDaddie.com

LittleDog — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:18 +0000

Guys (and girls) I joined SugarDaddy.com and I am an attractive, friendly 30 year old girl. I don't make much money and had my share of user boyfriends and I thought I would try out the site and perhaps meet someone classy and real. The "Sugardaddies" are very cheap, and although real, write endless emails, want to talk on the phone but you can be literally stranded with a dead car somewhere and they won't send you a dime, even if you prove and verify your identity to no end. (I wrote their name on a piece of paper and held it up, and took a pic) I looked some of these guys up; yes they are legit millionaires and doctors. But forget making a real friend, or anyone who makes the time to keep in touch or even send you a gift certificate. The site actually told me I am one of the most viewed and highest ranking as far as emails, I had nice clean photos and a very open, honest bio that was not demanding, stuck up or written like a "princess." I was having legit problems, and needed a little help fixing my car as I am completely on my own, no family/boyfriend to help and car problems can get even the best of us sometimes. I went to dinner with one sugar daddy, saw a movie and had a great time. He bought me dinner, showed me his million dollar home, and I drove home. (In my car that was dying) ...He told me he might give me his old used laptop the next time I visit. So...ladies, don't expect much more than stingy dinners or weeks of phone calls from these wealthy men (let alone even a used car to replace your dead one). You will have better luck getting any real attention or genuine care from the average Joe in a beat up truck. Seriously...I did all the steps right, I'm a nice person, attractive, verified myself...nothing but talk, promises and not to mention the worst part---their ongoing bragging about what they own or have purchased. Too bad all their money can't buy them any manners.

SpeedDater Online

Jay — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 09:54 +0000

Events are poorly organised and shocking website, not secure and contacting admin is pointless. Avoid these organisers. Agree with Dmitri's review above.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Pat — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 09:32 +0000

<a href="#1681">@Tina</a> Tina - I had a guy named Charles Clarkson, who went to Africa for work, and his daughter got sick and he needed $1500 for medicine. I told him to use his Mastercard.

BlackPeopleMeet.com

Alli — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 08:49 +0000

There are a lot of scammers. I had a guy steal my credit card #'s and use it to renew the site. It happens so often that they have an automated form where you type in your number and it pulls up who used your card. The company didn't want to reverse the charge. They said to get it from the guy because i know him. They should not be taking 3rd party payments. And there are a lot of guys just playing around. I don't recommend at all.

Geek 2 Geek

Tom — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 05:26 +0000

I intend to sign up, but first I will buy a disposable credit card from Kmart and put just enough to cover the charges in the account. I will also make sure I have some street person buy it for me so they can not chase me down for non payment. Two can play their game.

Plenty Of Fish

Rahel — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 04:26 +0000

Actually, I believe POF goes off the IP address. I can not get on the site. It doesn't matter how many email addresses I try, if I attempt to register from my lap top I get booted - within 5 minutes of being registered and accepted. I don't know why. It's more frustrating than anything. I agree with some other comments that the site tends to attract the lowest quality singles. Many are down on their luck and penniless, say they have jobs and don't, say they are younger than they are, say they are divorced when they aren't, post fake pictures, etc. The site really draws the lowest of the low. With one exception - I made a very good friend there who I am still friends with. He too, though, presented himself as if he were rich and younger than he was. Ended up he is dirt poor and about ten years older than his picture. He was so nice I let it slide.

Chemistry.com

mike — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 07:46 +0000

The site is a joke, you receive matches that are fake, they never respond to you. Save your money.. Match.com owns the site.

Millionaire Match

anthony keith — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 07:23 +0000

I'm interested in a wealthy woman who is curious about the entertainment industry (movies).

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

George Grasser — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 07:08 +0000

<a href="#2102">@LaVerne Brown</a> Most people are nice people, but they are way too many scammers in the world. Even face to face people have to view each other with suspicion.

SugarDaddie.com

winter2010 — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 03:03 +0000

<a href="#1966">@Susan</a> I think you must have been unlucky if I may say, as I did join SD site just for a month and have had polite responses. I met one guy not long ago and perhaps we will meet up again soon..so we'll see.. so it's not all bad, believe in fate ? goodluck!

WomanSavers.com

JillminusJack — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 12:16 +0000

There is a need for sites like this. If there wasn't, they wouldn't be so popular. Concerned you need to take legal action against the person doing this harm to you and your family. Ranting and raving on the net doesn't accomplish much. Womansavers can't legally edit posts. Post your side of the story if you don't want to take legal action. It sounds like this guy isn't mentally stable so who knows what else he is capable of doing. He's probably posting information all over the internet. I would consult with an attorney or the police to see if you can get him to stop harassing you and your family.

Plenty Of Fish

specialluve56 — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 11:37 +0000

<a href="#1856">@khan kamacha</a> That is pretty harsh don't u think? I work and supported my children by myself with no child support. So there is a few that work hard and don't ask for nothing.

Sex in the UK

Steve Cropper — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 10:28 +0000

Agreed with the other comments; free membership is useless, except to let you see that most of the women who email you are completely bogus. They appear to be local, but when you check their comments, they are miraculously local to people all over the country. There might be some genuine women, but I'm not going to give money to people who are actively trying to defraud me; would you trust your credit card or phone number to them?

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

LaVerne Brown — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 03:06 +0000

I was on this site for 1 day before I was contacted by all very attractive looking men. Their pictures were so polished and professional, the men looked like models. The two that interested me both had the same occupations, though located in different countries that they were working in. I thought it very strange that they would disclose to me right away how much they were worth. I dropped one and continued to chat on Yahoo with the other. He knew all the right words to say, and how to make me feel comfortable with him. But he said he had his son with him in Nigeria who was 10 years old. I thought this strange because the child should be in school. After about two weeks, he told me he was in Lagos, Nigeria and that he was ready to come home. But upon his arrival at the airport, he was hit with a fee that he had to have cash. His credit card would not work nor is ATM card. He said he went to the Embassy and they told him that was the law. Without cash money, he could not leave the country. Now after working in a country for 9 weeks building roadways and hospitals, and they will not let you leave? I became suspicious and began to do some research on the internet. I found just what I wanted. Scammers using Yahoo for personal contact and the story about them travelling with their 10 year old sons. The next day my scammer got online, but I was ready for him. He did ask if I could send him, and this is the way he put it, 780$ and he would pay me back as soon as he got to the states. I said sure, that I was going right to the bank to get the money. He sent me all of his contact information. But the money could not be put in his name, but it had to be in his son's name. I copied this whole chat segment and saved it on a disc. After I got his info, I told him there was something I wanted to share with him. I copied and pasted the info about the airport fee (TBA or FBA) some sort of phoney fee into the chat box. Upon his reading this, this immediately ended the chat. Ladies and men as well, do be careful. Love will find you. This was my first attempt ever to use a dating serve, and truthfully speaking, it was my last. I will wait until God places someone wonderful into my life. Take heed.

AfroRomance.com

mikekill — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 08:27 +0000

Looking for a good women 2 have fun, to love, an be with.

MyPoppet.com

Dale — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 01:49 +0000

MyPoppet.com is not a scam, as some people say here. Probably they were badly slandered by their enemies. The company is bit expensive, but it worth. The girls are absolutely gorgeous! I have been using MyPoppet since April 2009, I travelled to Moscow and I liked it. The translators are excellent. Service is professional. It is good site and staff will help you if an person need some help about anything at this site. The staff is very nice group of people with good understanding what an person need at their site.

MyPoppet.com

Joe — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 08:45 +0000

@John Cooper, Edward, Mathew, you three men claim they are real. Please contact me directly at josephdaniels88@aim.com. I would like to see your personal proof. My experiences with them has been terrible. I am still waiting to hear back regarding my planned trip of last October. I have emailed them many times. No responses to date. So, what am I doing wrong? @John Cooper regarding your explanation about receiving two identical letters due to an browser issue is bogus. I own a software development business. What you are saying makes absolute technical nonsense. I stand to be corrected.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Sue — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 02:20 +0000

I am not very pleased with this site. There is no phone no, or address where they can be contacted. They will gladly take your payments online and then you are still not able to get onsite. It also seems everyone is either in construction or architecture. All describe themselves as being good looking and financially secure. Many men state they are only interested in older women. I think most women know what that means. They are looking for lonely, needy women to support them, because they don't have a JOB. All of us are not needy or lonely, and don't need a man to validate us. WOMEN, please be very careful here, there are a lot of scammers out there. Do not give out personal info or go to Yahoo to chat. Stay Safe.

Geek 2 Geek

Mark — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 12:15 +0000

This site is bull. They build up a bunch of fake profiles, so that it looks like you have tons of matches. On my list of matches only 2 or so were real. It is a fake site to make money.

SpeedDater Online

Dmitri — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 04:36 +0000

I have a bad experience with the site. If I could I would give zero stars. I've booked an event and got a free month membership, which allowed me to write to other members. What I was not told is that the other members can't even read what I write unless they also pay. In no way did the site inform me that they cannot read my message. It is then no surprise that I got 0 (ZERO) replies. Now, before I got the access, I received emails from several ladies even with almost empty profile. Once I got the access, I replied to them but never heard anything back. Furthermore, once having the access, those emails from the ladies stopped. Finally, after my subscription expired and I am not able to respond, I start receiving those messages again. It is now clear that those messages are FAKE as probably are the profiles. Also my next month fee was collected despite of my cancellation. My inquiry email was brushed off by: Please, send all requests concerning refunds to our billing department with refund@easydate.biz address and they'll consider your inquiry. Best regards, Anna Jensen EasyDate Customer Care From refund@easydate.biz. I never got any response...

Prescription4Love.com

bob gibeault — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 09:24 +0000

Looking to date other health challenged women, women who understand not everyone is in perfect health, but still wants to date.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Coolladyhawke — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 05:55 +0000

I don't think the site itself is at fault but I do think that common sense should be used. I did not use common sense; I believed what I was told. I was taken for my money and my heart and never again. We are Senior Ladies...not Stupid Ladies....I am living by those last words by the way. When it feels too good to be true it usually is. I was used and I do not like that. I have to agree with many of the comments… What is it with the broken English and the "Car Accidents" and raising my daughter on my own...DO NOT BELIEVE IT!!!!

PARSHIP

Paul — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 12:06 +0000

I had resisted using the Internet to find a partner for years, but last November took the plunge and worked my way through a few sites, they only achieved indifferent results. Then I found PARSHIP. I went into the home page and intrigued, completed the multiple choice questions and discovered that I had found a site I liked using. It was quirky. I enjoyed sending smiles and ice-breakers. I spent the first week working through all the recommendations and making contact with the people I liked the sound of. Then I took the plunge and made dates. On the third date I hit gold, it was an instant attraction. I had finally met someone of integrity, honesty, warmth, wit, was fun to be with, sexy, uncomplicated. We have been dating for two months and it just keeps getting better. We are 74% compatible and that is about the perfect number. PARSHIP has worked magic, to find somebody in only 4 dates and in only 2 weeks of being a member that is pretty amazing.

PARSHIP

Miriam — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 12:15 +0000

I joined Parship having seen an advertisement on the TV. I had a few contacts but none really struck a chord. I saw Mark's profile and thought we matched quite well but having exchanged a couple of emails I discovered that he lives in the Swindon area. I had never bothered on any of the other sites, to pursue anyone more than 100 miles away because it is impractical, but I so enjoyed getting messages from him and writing to him.......we talked about anything and everything and found a real connection. We decided to meet and had a truly magical romantic first date in London. That was 8 months ago last Sunday and we're now talking about setting up home together next year. Parship worked for us.

ChnLove.com

greg — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 08:08 +0000

Nigel is crazy. This site is such a scam it's incredible. You'd be better off saving your money to spend on peep shows.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

geoff — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 08:20 +0000

Ditto on Pete's comment-why is everyone trying to screw us-no contact info or anything-I am livid @pete andolina

OKCupid.com

Andy — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 07:04 +0000

Who the hell is "Ross"? Please explain for us non-Americans!!

Plenty Of Fish

FlashPan — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 07:38 +0000

There is a significantly low response rate for guys on this site. The site is very time consuming to use. Under that scenario, guys that are pretty good catches won't stick around too long as they can do better elsewhere with less effort. What's left over are the guys chasing sex, the guys in the model range in looks and the guys that are at best average or below. Women tend to be quite picky about little things that don't really matter much. That explains some of the low response rate. The other reason is just the male/female ratio is quite high. It's actually much higher than simply counting male/female members. The ratio that matters is the number of guys interested in a particular woman ... this can be exceptionally high ... much much higher than that woman would ever experience in real life. That level of competition would not interest most guys who are pretty good catches as they really don't need to put themselves in that situation, to meet women. The actual number of people on the site is grossly overestimated in effective terms. While there may indeed be 1000's of profiles on the site, the reality is only a small percentage of those profiles are active on the site. In a large city maybe only 300-500 women are truly active, even though there may be 10000 woman profiles. So, you don't actually have access or available a large number of women, but effectively the same number of women you would have access to at any large gathering like a dance hall or event. In fact, for any dating site, including POF, if you looked at the effective numbers rather than the professed numbers, you would discover there is a lot of smoke and mirrors around dating sites regarding members, effectiveness etc. For the most part it is just a game of BS with numbers. POF is actually quite good at providing the illusion of a large number of available people and it's intentional. The reality is, for any one person, there are certainly less than 50 people that would be a reasonable match. No more than you would get at any reasonably large place/event. If POF had a cross match facility, this would become very obvious to most people.

PARSHIP

William — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 03:14 +0000

A friend of mine told me she'd seen some comments about Parship on this site. She said other people didn't seem to rate it as highly as I did, so I thought I'd let them know that it worked for me. I joined Parship after my wife had walked out on me and our two kids. I’d always thought our marriage was pretty good, but suddenly my life basically felt like one big mess. I was having to carry on running my building business and also do the housework, the cooking and do my best to be both mum and dad to the kids. This went on for a year before some friends who’d seen Parship advertised on TV told me I should give it a go. After I’d done my profile I immediately got messages from two women. It was pretty exciting to talk to them on the phone. One of them was Kate. She also lived in Manchester, so we arranged to meet in a bar in town the next day. I was impressed when Kate walked in. She had a lot of style, and she turned up to be a very good listener. It was the first time in ages that I felt I was talking to someone who understood me. To tell the truth I poured out my heart to her a bit, but she took it all on board and even gave me some good advice. By the end of the date I knew I wanted to see her again. We enjoy each other’s company and her kids and my kids seem to have hit it off. Kate’s a very supportive person and I feel that I’ve got my life under control again.

BikerPlanet.com

peter linney — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 07:42 +0000

I signed up and paid for a premium membership, and had some tech problems, but they were quite quick at getting back to me with a fix. I built a very nice site as I am a photographer of custom bikes and put up bikes from some of the best bike builders in America. And I sent out mails to some 20-30 CA girls that I thought look nice. I never got one response back from them, not even a peak at my site from any of them?? That sends me a signal that something are wrong.. I have been on Match for a few months, and I would say that about 2/3 of the ones you send a mail to have a look at what you send and your site, as the system there shows you that. Same at BikerPlanet. I have told them about all this, and asked them to charge me some, but I am asking for my money back. They have given me some good advice, but it does not deal with the problem I have and they refuse to send back any money.. I think they simply do not have the membership to sustain the money they are asking, so they are trying to get away with fraud. Be warned.. Peter

Person.com

stephen — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 08:52 +0000

Not a bad site to chat to people, but I find there aren’t many people from the uk, many people on there seem to be from the Philippines. Was it made there??? Also a lot of scammers and people from Ghana with fake photos after money!!!! So be warned! But a good site to chat to uk people when you find some, just needs a bit of a polish.

ChnLove.com

Joe — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 05:09 +0000

I wish I had of found this post sooner, anyhow... I am in china at this moment and I can say from my own experience, Chnlove letters and replies are not real! However the ladies are real, I have met with several of them. The lady I had come to meet was not at all interested but Chnlove introduced me to another lady, and things seem to be going quite well over the past few days. Anyhow, as for the reply letters I can assure you they are not real, I was out skiing with this lady when her last letter was written haha. Chnlove is very helpful but dishonest at the same time! Use caution! I will talk with the lady and find out her real answers and replies to my questions anyhow, will post here again in a few days.

Shaadi.com

Manjula — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 03:56 +0000

I just want to thank Nisha for bringing out the truth in the open. We need more women like her in society. I also was being cheated by this Shaadi profile loveall1698 (**name deleted by moderator**). He is a dr and already having wife and kids as per confirmed sources!!! How can he advert as divorcee and issueless and proposes to women for marriage. I complained today to Shaadi. And Shaadi found hanky panky and deleted his profile immediately. Shaadi. com and its management I CONGRATULATE you for the expedite response before the next woman falls in his trap. Women out there if you see wrong stuff talk it out, expose it. The time of keeping quiet is over. When we stop one injustice, we are stopping the flow of many more injustices. We are not weak. We are strong and deserve respect, dignity. Thanks Nisha and Shaadi.com !! The reason why I give out Dr name is so that he does not attack the next woman thru another website or medium of advert. Take care all you women there and happy search for the right man :)

Shaadi.com

Manjula — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 02:53 +0000

Hey you are right. Good job.I just saw some stuff on the yahoo answers also. Is this really true about this man doctor or man eater.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Jeanne — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 12:26 +0000

I really would give this site a 0, but they don't offer that option. I had a very bad experience with a member of this site going by the screen name of buckronald101 and claiming to carry the name Ronald Buckyard. After several conversations with this person, claiming to be a contractor with a degree from who knows where, he began asking for money. Said he was working in Canada and had received a large check, but could not cash it until he got back to the USA. Said he needed to pay something called BTA to get out of Canada. Well, I got suspicious and began searching and to my surprise, there is nothing available on this name. Says he owns a home in Miami Beach, FL, he will even send you pictures of it, along with pictures of his Mother and deceased Father. I searched the Miami-Dade County tax assessor’s office and no such name anywhere. I also called and tried to see if he was a licensed contractor for the state of Florida, guess what, no such name. I went even further and paid Intellius to search for him. Nothing turned up. He will call you from a cell phone out of the California area, 951 area code, the telephone search showed nothing either, except it was a cell phone. So ladies beware of a pretty face, and he is handsome, according to the picture he submitted, and beautiful poems and songs and words. He is a scam artist, and very good at it. I just turned my computer over to the FBI for an investigation of him. Now try to contact the seniorpeoplemeet website and get a refund. Won't happen. I can't even get them to return my emails. I truly don't think that there are any dating sites that really screen their members, it is just a money making racket. And boy are they making money.

SugarDaddie.com

sugarplum — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 05:47 +0000

One thing I must say here ... I was on the site for a long time and met some nice guys but beware the huge salary requirement for the 'sugardaddy' is not vetted and there are guys on there who are not genuine unfortunately ... one guy was saying he was a millionnaire and a friend of mine who was on there got a PI on him and he was a car salesman .. so beware and be very very careful - it was she who was wealthy so he was a con man and did not live at the address he said he lived in in fact he was miles away and nothing was true about him either...

MuslimFriends.com

ali — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 09:18 +0000

Searching single muslim girls for friendship & life partnership.

Geek 2 Geek

Lawrence — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 07:36 +0000

Single geeks welcome! Try my site - BrainiacDating.com. It's completely free and has gained just over 15,000 members since Oct 2008 when I started it. So admittedly it's still small compared to the well known sites, but it's free, and growing fast.

MyPoppet.com

John Cooper — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 01:03 +0000

@Joe, I am a member of mypoppet.com. I also received two identical letters from two different ladies. The reason was that I used Safari web browser. When I opened my inbox page with Firefox everything worked fine. When I used Safari - strange things happened. There was an error on their website, I wrote technical support and this bug was fixed the next day. Thanks to MyPoppet.com I will celebrate st Valentine's Day with someone I met 8 months ago. No idea where this relationship will take me and I don't know if he is the perfect match but I have a lot of fun. But I hope she will be my future wife. Anyway I guess there are lot of nice people on this site.

MyPoppet.com

Frank — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 10:31 +0000

MyPoppet.com is legitimate. I went to Moscow solo (no Russian language ability) and met real Russian women. The translators were excellent. Service was professional. My advice - pick a woman with significant English skills.

FilipinaHeart.com

maribeth zuniga — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 04:15 +0000

Hi I'm maribeth. I have notice that filipinaheart.com is having nice friends here. That's why join.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

smileylisa — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 02:46 +0000

Ditto on the Widowed so called rich guys wanting/needing to borrow money. The warning to not give ANYONE a DIME applies to not only this site beacause it's happened to me once on Match.com as well. NOT A DIME ladies please!

Shaadi.com

Nisha — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 05:17 +0000

I had a profile on Shaadi.com. I just want everyone to be aware of a doctor who is lurking on this website. He comes under different identities or profile ids. He is a paid member. He will not tell you anything about himself. Seems he is into Palliative care. He targets people outside his own city. He is very dangerous. Please beware. He is already married, had kids and is a very smooth talker. I saved myself in nick of time. Please be very careful. Before starting anything close contact enquire everything about any profile thoroughly. Family, friends. Don’t feel shy to ask questions. If they shy away means something very fishy. Enquiries please contact nishadix at hotmail.com. I have been so emotionally disturbed by this man. I hope his game ends soon. Always trust your gut feeling.

Virtual Date Space

Lori A. — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 01:48 +0000

Love this site, i can stay on it for hours. Great site, great people. and its free, gotta love that.

PARSHIP

claudia — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 03:40 +0000

My friend met her partner on Parship - she was happy with the site. She searched for a long time before going online but met her right man at last, so I'm so happy for her.

Dating a Divorced Man

Me — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 05:41 +0000

Here's my situation- I'm 22. I've found a 25 year old man (whom I am very interested in). He is divorced with 2 kids (3 & 5). It's hard for me to find a post similar to my situation. Most posts I've found are older men with older kids and how to deal with that. I just wonder advice from strangers--not from my family and friends. My family and friends tell me how bad of an idea it is to date him. We've been dating for a month and I think he is worth getting to know and put myself in this situation. He treats me very good. He is very honest with me. He's told me his ex messed him up. He's told me she's nuts. I know this and I'm not afraid to handle it. I know myself and I know I can handle it. My friends are worried we are moving too fast in our relationship. I've met his kids once and he and I have agreed it's good for me to be around them, but no staying overnight when the kids are at his house. We really like each other. I want to continue pursuing him, but it's hard when my close friend/co-worker/only mutual friend with him is against my relationship. I asked her if she was happy for me that I’m happy with him and she said no. She said she's not happy for me because he has kids. She said her boyfriend (who's roommates with him) said that he moves fast with every girl and then dumps them. How much of that statement is true, I don't know. He has only had one gf since his divorce. He's just been divorced since May, but separated for a year before that. I like him a lot, but still have concerns. I feel like my friend doesn't want us to be together because she and her boyfriend are always having problems and it makes her impossible to be happy for me when she herself is not happy. I am just looking for opinions or advice. I don't want her to cause he and I problems, but I'm worried her statements and advice will effect it. It already has. Any advice helps.

Shaadi.com

Nisha — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 10:24 +0000

@anamika Me too Anamika. I have been also frauded by a man who is already married and has kids. I would like to get in touch with you. Please contact me. This is crazy what Shaadi.com is not being responsible.

SinglesNet.com

Bob — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 01:37 +0000

This site is a real ripoff. I became a Featured Member on two different occasions. On both occasions, I had females from other countries, posing to be from local areas, trying to get me to send them money to come to the United States to be with me. I also met one individual, in person, that turned out to be a real psycho case. I am really disgusted. I have asked that my money be returned but, to date, have received no reply. I am going to the PA State Attorney General to file a formal complaint.

SinglesNet.com

Robert O Perry — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 03:24 +0000

I signed up today, but was not given opportunity to add my personal info. Now when I try to establish an account, you refuse to accept my e-mail address. If it's truly in use by another member, something is wrong. I suspect you just have it because I signed up. Either straighten this up or cancel membership and refund any charge made.

OKCupid.com

Richard — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 08:32 +0000

@Gregory If this was ever true, it no longer is. I'm a flag moderator and have no idea who the creators are.

Person.com

isaiah — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 05:20 +0000

I love the site but always have difficulty getting there.

ChristianMingle.com

reginald — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 05:03 +0000

It is writen that he who finds a wife, finds good things and favour from lord. I believe that my God sent love, and will locate me this month.

Geek 2 Geek

batman — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 03:02 +0000

What a horrific waste of my time. I was on there for 2 months as a free member. First off they do not give you accurate matches, the age groups are way off. My age limit was 25-35, I was getting 18-56 year olds. Sorry but I'm fairly certain that a 56 year old woman isn't going to be my "Ideal Match". When I did find someone I liked, I could only "wink" at them, no messages. You aren't allowed to message if you don't pay. My main issue with the site is that they censor you, so if you complain about their site they cut that out, if you use the same username on a free site they change your name.

Online dating for beginners

Singles dating — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 06:43 +0000

Online internet dating is really good way to convey all sorts of message immediately,make instant effects to increase your circle of influence i.e making good relationship for success. For this we need to make use of best dating site. Thanks for the recommendation.

RSVP.com.au

Kelly — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 10:21 +0000

I think the site is a rip off! It is not 'free' at all! The stamps should not expire so quickly. Once you buy the stamps you should be able to use them at your own leisure. What a rip off!!!! zero stars.

Plenty Of Fish

Diane — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 05:03 +0000

I actually ran into a guy that I had went on one date with on this site... afterwards when we parted ways, I did find out he was married.. and still is married. I came across his profile on this website and flagged him numerous times but he is still on there. I deleted my profile... this site is a total scam. If you are in the Houston area, avoid the guy with the ID of csides. He claims to be 48 but he told me he was 48 two years ago and he states he is divorced but he is married. This guy is also cheap and wanted me on the one date we had to pay for dinner...

SinglesNet.com

cheyenne — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 04:47 +0000

@christina I just signed up today and it keeps doing the gateway timeout to me also its crazy I'll be searching and then for no reason it does it, then I can't get on again for hours. They really need to fix this, it only happens with singlesnet.com web site.

Dominican Cupid

mamensilase — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 06:46 +0000

Oh the dominican cupid girls are so very beautiful. Oh they are beautiful. When i get, i am happy to marry. thanks.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Janet — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 10:41 +0000

This is a farce, why do I have to give them any stars? Tell them you are going to report them to the legal authorities. That will stop them quick. Guess they think older women are stupid. What fools they are, right?

Plenty Of Fish

jewels — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 02:37 +0000

I joined POF in 205.. you get some rite npb heads on there who stalk you, then they report you, and i ended up getting deleted, i did nothing wrong, but hey it won’t let me sign up again.. no worries there are better sites out there anyway.. it's full of duplicate profiles i know for a fact this guy has 4 profiles, but how do they get away with it...it’s a crazy site!!!!

Senior Friend Finder

Zebrina — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 10:59 +0000

Hi there just checking out this site and hoping to see others here from N.S.If so will add pic and more info at a later date.

AshleyMadison.com

Handyman865 — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 11:13 +0000

Well, I haven't decided to join AM as of yet, but from what I've seen, heard and come to a conclusion is that AM doesn't promote or talk you into having an affair with anyone. If you don't agree with the purpose of the site, don't visit it or join, it's that simple. Furthermore, you don't need AM to meet anyone to have a discreet affair. I've been married for a very long time and accidentally met a wonderful, delightful, caring, beautiful women, (need I say more) and we began having coffee and that lead into a more discreet relationship. We are both in similar situations where our spouse's forgotten to continue to consummate the marriage (having sex). I have no regrets about the relationship. Unfortunately that also has ended, due to her marriage finally coming to a close...

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

sandy — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 05:08 +0000

I am having the same experience. All of the men who contact me are engineers with a Master's and widowers. They ask for your email address and just talk about what they are looking for and what kind of person they are. They are all loving, goodhearted, patient etc. As if they read a magazine article about what a woman is looking for and then copy and paste it to this site. Very disappointed.

SpeedDate.com

Angela — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 05:18 +0000

Thanks for the review! I was thinking about signing up on Speeddate, but now I don't think I will.

Fitness Singles

Fitguy — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 08:56 +0000

A complete waste of time. Despite this site "REAL" appeal, the NICE women are probably fake. Only a few a the girls even open the mail you send them. Go to your gym, if you want to find fit women.

eHarmony

Prince Kodua — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 05:54 +0000

Eharmony you are doing great job. I hope you keep it up.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Jen — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 12:20 +0000

Linda :
Also, in order to view my messages and or flirts on the "free" site, I had to "Upgrade" my status which required payment by credit card. Now I keep getting a message on my profile page that my credit card is about to expire and I should upgrade my credit card status in order to maintain my Upgraded services on the site. This happened the same day I enrolled on the site. Why should that matter? It seems like they are just trying to get another of my credit cards on the site. Beware!

Probably because you're gonna get billed again as soon as your membership lapses. That's why they need your up-to-date card details. Best to check.

MyPoppet.com

jack e — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 05:44 +0000

I think Mypoppet is a scam because I’ve been contacted by so many beautiful women...it's like they say...if it's too good to be true.... One lady in particular who wrote to me seemed real until I asked for positive, official identification, but received no response. Not recommended! Be forewarned.

Plenty Of Fish

manny — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 11:11 +0000

I was on plentyoffish and it seems there are more sardines on that web site than mermaids. Most of the woman are not really attractive that I would never approach them in public and they all have drama in their lives. If it’s free, you get all the riff raff. Men, you want a woman who does not emails lots of guys on a web site. Find a good woman by a friend, at a church, etc. I found my love by a friend and we are getting married. I'm happy I am out of the dating game. :)

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Linda — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 08:15 +0000

I give this site 0 stars. At first the people responding to me seemed to be fine. But I have recently received 3 back to back responses from men who all have been "widowed", whose "wives" and I quote"...died by Car Accident"...they always capitalize car and accident and the wife was always on the way home from the school where she taught (2 of these) or from "her bank". And all of the letters are very poorly written verging on broken English, although most of them say they are Americans. Two of them have encouraged me to join Yahoo Messenger...which I will not do. Seems to be a ploy or come on just to join Yahoo Messenger. Also, in order to view my messages and or flirts on the "free" site, I had to "Upgrade" my status which required payment by credit card. Now I keep getting a message on my profile page that my credit card is about to expire and I should upgrade my credit card status in order to maintain my Upgraded services on the site. This happened the same day I enrolled on the site. Why should that matter? It seems like they are just trying to get another of my credit cards on the site. Beware!

AffluentArrangements.com

Veronica J. — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 01:16 +0000

I had a good experience with this site. I added my profile to Affluentarrangements.com and received many positive inquiries within 2 weeks. Anyway, thanks to them and their great filters, I am very happy! Thanks, VJ

SugarDaddie.com

Susan — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 03:01 +0000

I signed up with Suggardaddie Uk for 1 month back in September 2009. I didn't pay full membership straight away, I would like to see how many member interested in me before I am being parted with my money. By the time my profile and pictures approved, many men hot listed me, I even received a few mails. As soon as I paid my membership, I sent thank you message to every single person who hot listed me. Guess what, not one single of them have the decency to write back to me. The mails I received are mainly just sexist remark or just plain Hi. Almost all of them couldn't be bothered to open my replies until my membership almost end. One man made regular contact with me and we decided to meet up for drinks. When he turned up at designated venue, I was surprised to learn that he was driving. I'd thought that any men on Suggardaddie can afford to pay taxi fare. All evening he drank two pints of Shandy, kept on and on about how many famous people he had met in his business, which is ailing due to credit crunch. In so much details he told me that what he need is someone to put some money into his business and asked me if I am interested. I might have been naive enough to be parted with £24.99 to pay Sugardaddie membership, but I am not that stupid. I never heard from him again and he ignored me on line. Few days before my membership ended, I have received more hot list, in fact quite over the top. I didn't renew my membership, instead I signed up using different name and the same thing happening again. All in all Sugardaddie UK is not worth to waste your time on. I recognized many members which listed as new members, which in fact they have been there ever since I was browsing three years ago, is not quite right.

Mate1

Aurthnel Moore — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 03:35 +0000

Looking for sweet dream and clean and loving heart woman, that can show me love.

WhiteWomenBlackMen.com

pieman980 — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 06:24 +0000

Like to meet and date nice women. Just want to have fun maybe get together sometimes. So let’s chat and get to know one another. I am a nice guy that’s all for now more later.

Friend Finder

rashmi — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 10:33 +0000

I'ts good to share ones feelings and desires and take suggestions from one another to brighten up ones life when feeling low and blue.

Meetic.es

zhanna — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 12:36 +0000

I very much wish to meet the love! Decent, gentle, kind, cheerful! I would want that he has grown fond of my son!

Seeking Arrangement

Jasmine — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 07:22 +0000

Tried the site for a while. Found the SD to be shy and unsure. One was a real winner wanting to come to my front door with no arrangement. Oh he had a plan. Too bad. I really wanted to share time with someone and be cared for in the process.

ChnLove.com

Alex — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 10:24 +0000

I tend to agree with Nigel the neuro surgeon. Scammers and people trying to get your money exist absolutely everywhere online, just like they do in real life. If you meet someone trying to scam you online, it doesn’t mean the site is fraudulent. You have to be careful, you have to use common sense, you have to learn to "smell a rat" so to speak because being misled by someone at the other end of a computer is a whole lot easier than being misled by someone face to face. A site like Chnlove has no way of vetting everyone using the site, just like other dating sites can’t. Most big sites now carry a legal disclaimer that actually tells you that they don’t do background checks on people using their sites - so the bottom line is "enjoy the site but take part at your own risk".

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Peggy — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 10:21 +0000

I signed up and was slammed with flirts. None of them could write in English-too much bad phasing to be native when they said they were. ALL wanted me to go to yahoo. Most were widowed, 1 child. Several travelled to Africa. Total waste of time and money. Don't do it!!!

SexyAds.com

nedm — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 10:17 +0000

Here's the good and bad of the site when it comes down to it... Good: The chat is IRC based and you can IM people if they allow it. There's also message boards and profiles that allow for comments Bad: Due to the ratio of men to women and that there's less people on this site the chances of meeting someone are slim. When it comes down to it they could do things to make it better. Lower the price for women but raise it for men. Also there's huge numbers of dead profiles on many sites. Who honestly would join a site and not do anything for a few years unless they actually just quit it totally. They should automatically delete profiles after 18 months...then after a few a year then after a few months six months or older. The frustration kicks in eventually..here's the logic 1) If you don't pay for the site you can't send emails to anyone but those that pay..ok...so naturally they get bombarded. So technically the only way to meet someone would be in the chat rooms but again women get bombarded with things so they can turn their IMs off. Women say "Lets know each other etc" ok how can that happen if it's not a private chat? How can that happen when there's really no way to get a women’s attention? This is where cams can get to be an issue. 2) Reality sets in. Men are attracted to women but women aren't attracted to men...there have been a few meet and greet things but they are only at best once a year or every other year. Can you meet someone on the site? Yes...if you are willing to drive for hours on end or fly. I turned down sex from three women on this site this past summer that were somewhat local (within an hour or less) one just wanted to talk and implied to me she wanted sex (lied her ass off), another admitted to me she used cocaine so that ended that conversation and the last one never told me as to who is taking care of her kid! If you want a place to hang out in the chat rooms its fine but beyond that forget it.

ChnLove.com

Taxman — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 08:46 +0000

@Nigel As a forensic accountant, I find it interesting that a distinguished neurosurgeon can spend all his time and money on a site like Chnlove. LMAO. In between your several trips to China and forwarding messages to your girlfriend, did you ever consider going to date sites that cater to millionaire male candidates online? Well, that is, of course, any legitimate, well-off professional would even consider going to a fraudulent website like Chnlove to begin with. There must not be many professional colleagues or nurses at your hospitals, "doctor". LOL. Since you couldn't possibly be a liar, maybe the reason why you can afford to support Chnlove's fraudulent activity is that, unlike the poor pleebs we all are, you have so much money to flush online than we do. Never mind the surprises and extortionate amounts that await guys without a lot of common sense but a lot of hormones. Everybody should check online and read the legal battles with this outfit, and then ask yourself how pathetic some scammers can get like the "doctor" here. Maybe you can post your website and credentials and we can have the guys on Chnlove give you a call to fix their loneliness. Good d'ay "mate". That's a term a non-Australians uses to hide his real low-life, isn't it?

ChnLove.com

nigel — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 02:09 +0000

@David He he, David, no, Hong is the name of a Chinese woman I know. I guess we would call ourselves friends now, the "spark" wasn't there. Actually, I have never driven a truck, but I remember wanting to as a child!! Not sure if I am a gifted neurosurgeon, I included my occupation in response to the comment that labelled me as a "putz" (whatever that is). But yes, that is my profession. I am attached to the medical staff at the Austin Hospital, so if you check the list, you will see only one of the neuro team with a first name Nigel... that is me. Come to think of it, I am the only one with an initial "N", so your task is even easier!!! I really do not know why this site gets so many negative comments when the ladies are most certainly real, I have met plenty of them thru my meeting with Hong, but all my post intended to do was show those reviewing the site, possibly with the intention of using it, an alternative opinion. I know the ladies exist, so the idea that there are a set of unscrupulous interpreters stealing your money without even having any ladies on the books is just rubbish. If you are wasting your money, it is because your expectations and unrealistic. I have no doubt that translators continue to communicate with men after the lady says "no thanks", but in my experience, saying "no thanks" only happens in unrealistic circumstance. Here is a good example. Hong is a tall, very beautiful lady aged 27. Her profile indicated a desired age of 30-40 years. She received three EMF's from a Swiss guy, aged 63, who was 105kgs and 176cms tall, and looked like Jabba the Hutt. I saw the profile and letters... wow, not even a mother could love that. She had told the interpreter "no thanks" on the first letter, but the guy kept going. My guess is that after the three goes, the interpreter would have kept it going, cause three months later the agency asks her if she wants to meet this guy who is now in Shenzhen, and his first "date" didn't work out. So, my guess is this guy was scammed, but it was not the lady's fault, and she did get notification and interpretation of all three letters. So, read what you like into this. But I take exception to being called a "putz" by some nuf-nuf who thinks he knows best because he has been to Asia a couple of times (roll-eyes).

SinglesNet.com

Gordon — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 04:33 +0000

I have been a paid member, (when I was actively looking), and recently a non paying member again. I have always had a good experience with the site, and even started one decent relationship because of it. I met someone else in the normal way, we have been together for 6 months, but if things don't work out I will be more than happy to give them another try.

ChnLove.com

David — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 04:00 +0000

@Nigel, I could swear you are the same guy who is the truck driver on the other site. Must be interesting being such a gifted neurosurgeon. I would think Chnlove could use someone like you to drive their truck and help them sell their wonderful company that has caused many men to waste their money. Hong is the name of your pet monkey, isn't it?

ChnLove.com

William B — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 03:56 +0000

Nigel the Neurosurgeon, I can't claim to be an expert like yourself or Smithson there. I've only travelled to Asia once and not China, myself. So what exactly is this "ignorance" of Smithson or the others here? I've read all 2 pages of posts and in particular found the comments useful, especially the scamming that is clearly going on with this "match" site called Chnlove. I think Smithson is suggesting that Chnlove is obsolete in this era of technology and I'd tend to agree. His post offered a pretty good picture of what to expect for me at least. I didn't think your post added much to this thread to be honest. That's my opinion, anyway. By and large, I would not recommend any of these suspect sites, but Chnlove is clearly one of them.

Shaadi.com

anamika — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 02:20 +0000

I would not advocate this site to anyone. There are fraudsters on this site and shaadi.com does nothing to screen them. I was interacting with a member (arc_of_the_rainbow) and found to my shock that the fellow had lied. He had a five year old child and he had mentioned that he has no children on the profile. I brought it to the notice of shaadi.com but instead of taking any action in spite of my providing them with the guy’s phone no and work information so that they can verify and cross check.. they just kept telling me they are looking in to it. While all the while they allowed the member to keep his profile online and continue duping other girls. I guess, since he was a paid member, they just didn’t want to lose the revenue otherwise it beats me how they are unable to find out such a simple fact, when an ordinary girl like me could find out. I am thoroughly disgusted with them.

ChnLove.com

Jhon Waterman — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 08:13 +0000

I joined chnlove in Sept, 2009 and have been corresponding with what appears to be a very lovely young lady with a 4 yr old daughter. Very early she sent me a picture of herself with her daughter, stating it was taken 2 years ago, hmmm. O k, we kept up the chat, and I made the move to devote my heart to her. She backed off a bit, so I suggested to come to china in the spring to meet her, as friends, no commitments. She refused and said that summer would be better for her, knowing that I cannot travel in the summers due to my work. Our conversations have since turned very "bland". I am now having doubts as to her intentions to find love, or even if she is a real person. I started chatting with another lady, and she is very eager to meet me, at my best convenience. We have great conversations, much talk of love and such. But something doesn't feel right. It seems she wants me to promise her true love before I come. I try to explain to her we must meet first before I can commit myself to her. I'm still on the fence about the whole thing.

MerryLife.eu

Rain — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 06:51 +0000

Good Site! 100% Free and simple Number of Members The estimated number of active members using this site: 3000 Free Browsing: Yes Forums: Yes Instant Messaging: Yes

ChnLove.com

Nigel — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 03:15 +0000

@Smithson Wow, the ignorance of this "smithson" is amazing. For the record, I have worked 18 months in Beijing and 12 months in HK, and have been to China about 15 times, North and South. I work as a neurosurgeon. The site is real, the ladies are real, the scammers are real, but I suspect in the minority, and the only thing that doesn't ring real to me are idiotic comments like the above. Sorry, mate, I do not think I am a Putz (I assume that is some sort of American term for an idiot). Unfortunately cannot access this site in the mainland, so I cut/paste yr comment to Hong for a look and to show her friends. They got a good laugh, he he it is no wonder losers like you feel the need to write acerbic idiotic comments like you have. I think maybe you are the one that requires a real job and life. But hey, whatever stokes your fire buddy, I have no stake in this, but it is sad to see a pretty decent site defamed with ignorance. I am sure Chn Love is far from perfect, but it suspect it does its best.

ChnLove.com

Smithson — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 12:29 +0000

Like I posted a couple of months, ago, apologies for sounding harsh but it's incredible the number of Putz-es on the internet (see my post back in November @Smithson). Chnlove apparently borrows a long-standing model. Some review sites call it "multi-level" scamming, others have noted it's a knock-off of other scam 'date' sites that have been out there for a number of years. Essentially, it is convenient for the company to keep blaming its "agencies" when they are invariably exposed by clients. Ask yourself: if the company is blameless, does it really matter when you’re paying the mastermind company, directly? If you don't know what a shell game is, do a search on the internet. In any event, read what I originally posted. If you've never been to China, research and keep researching until it sticks in your brain. Loneliness is NOT an excuse to be stupid.

ChnLove.com

Jerrod — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 09:58 +0000

I don't know what all the fuss is about. I only talked to one lady that HAS given me her e-mail and all she talks about is how her family are having it rough right now. She has NEVER asked me about money or visas. True, there are many fakes out there. But you have to go through the fakes to find the real deal. Hell, I even talked to one that had a damn visa she paid for herself. If you like the site, good for you, and if you don't move on with your life.

Lovetropolis.com

Lawrence — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 05:17 +0000

As a man whose tried many online dating sites, I was prepared to be unimpressed by yet another newcomer. The fact is, though, Lovetropolis.com is an impressive breath of fresh air. They have all the basics and lots of high-tech features that appeal to my inner geek. The webcam dating is a definite plus. It’s nice to be able to see who you're talking to. It makes online dating feel less virtual and more personal. Another thing different about them is that there are male experts on the site that cater to the male side of the equation. Scot McKay's articles are hilarious, and his advice is on the money. And, if you really want to make an impression, trying one of Jay Jones' recipes is probably the way to go. That man can cook, and he makes it easy enough for the average Joe to follow his recipes. I will say that because the site is new, it doesn't have millions and millions of members in every corner of the globe yet. To me that just means there's not SO much competition for the women I'm interested in getting to know.

MerryLife.eu

John — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 11:38 +0000

Good, free site. I find there my love :). Free dating websites are a great way to meet fun and interesting people and to save money so that when you find a special someone, you can afford to take them on a very special date.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

pete andolina — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 08:04 +0000

I have been charged 63.75 thru my bank account and it is posted as such for over two months and still cannot reply w/o having an upgrade solicitation. What is going on? Does the state a.g. have to be informed? How does anyone contact this ripoff site, like phone number?

Get it On

koolhasbeen — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 07:10 +0000

Attached 64 y.o. former swinging partner of a happily married couple... until she decided time of time to go her own way (back to the secret love affairs). The reason we (I) started us into swinging in the first place (the most honest time of any married couples lives). But that was then and this is NOW. Many pleasant times with great memories, but what was missing then (and for a reason) was the closeness, compassionate conversations, and extended after play ever so present in an extra-marital office love affairs. As I wish no “one night stands” to just add to....well, you get the picture.... As I not only wish to spend hours of foreplay, (oh great foreplay is everyones motto) but after play is where the real pleasures are had... As I have always been wanting to enjoy the inner beauty. There is someone very special inside that sexy body and behind that beautiful face..... Oh, many now are not what we were, but does that really matter when the chemistry is right? Even if at times just to hold you...let you set the pace, or just cuddle...until then.

SugarDaddie.com

Jenna — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 01:58 +0000

So, I ended up using seeking arrangement and it was lovely. I found tons of willing guys. And let’s see, 6 months later I went from a Honda Civic to a Lexus, I live in a 300,000 condo and my college is paid for :) I am very pleased. I have 3 sugar daddies. One for shopping, one for rent and car note, and one for college. So, I'm veryyy pleased, not to mention trips to france, italy, africa, and asia. It is really grand!

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

John — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 06:02 +0000

Plenty of scammers and hijacked IDs there but also many, many legitimate people. Like the rest of the Internet, it's pretty much uncontrolled and full of wicked people. If you're careful - require recent photos, a complete profile that makes sense, contact only through the site - you should be OK. Just ignore all the wrong views, delete email from unlikely suitors, block and report the knuckleheads and verify everything.

Muslima.com

nifla — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 06:59 +0000

The best islamic website ever.

Muslima.com

abdullateef — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 01:58 +0000

This muslim site very good for young muslims to be able to communicate and make friends in islamic way.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Vincent Donohoe — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 02:48 +0000

Watch out for the scammers and fake profiles mostly from the USA and Ghana on here. They seem to be well prepared.

12Meet.com

PULANE MOFETA — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 01:10 +0000

Looking for someone who is so loving and caring and who is always there for me when I need a shoulder to cry on.

Plenty Of Fish

Diana — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 12:36 +0000

Plentyoffish.com is a piece of crap. I signed up 2 nights ago. Got a response from the cutest girl. Soon as I think things are going right, BOOM, my profile is deleted. I re-registered, making sure I had no offensive material on my profile and still yet again within 20 minutes tops my profile was deleted again. I thought to myself, what a crock!! Tried one last time and sent the girl I liked an email informing her of my prior deletions and sent her my email addresses, but I doubt she received them. Not even 10 minutes after re-registering it was deleted for the 3rd time. F*** that site. Myspace is better.

ChnLove.com

nigel — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 04:46 +0000

The "translator" comment (@tell you the truth) is simply not true. Well, not universally true, but Chn Love is a conglomeration of agencies, some of which may be scamming men. I wrote to a lady, met her, and apart from the first reply, she did indeed write all the letters. She is intelligent, beautiful but does not speak English. We had a great time, but I decided she was not the one for me. She has three friends who were also on this site, all formed relationships with western men and eventually met them, one is in the process of fiancé visa etc, the other two didn't work out, one mutual, and the other the lady was not that impressed. These sites have declining popularity in China, because of the lack of suitable men ..... I had a look with her one night, and it was a joke. Talk about the scum of western manhood. Clearly, arrogant Western men think for some reason that Chinese women will take anything. If you are 55, 30kgs overweight, and write to a 25 year old hottie, you are going to get scammed. Not by the woman, but by the translator. Lady reads the letter and profile, says "no thanks" to the translator, who then continues on his merry way with the sucker. My guess is that there is some sort of latent racism going on in these guys, ........no fellas, if you can’t snag anything in your home-town, don't expect some Chinese hottie to lap it up. As far as I can tell, the successful relationships from this site happen when the man does have realistic expectations, and respect for the women he is dealing with. I also suspect that most of the negative comments and hard luck stories come from the type of client described above. Sorry guys, but the truth hurts us all, and it is about time plenty of you out there faced it.

BlackSingles.com

campbell — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 03:39 +0000

Looking for a loving black lady. This site was recommend to me from a friend.

AfroIntroductions.com

pretty — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 08:42 +0000

A lot of men, mostly white men, come on this site telling black ladies to take off their cloths on cam or send them nude pics. Too bad most of them are into games. I know the bad ones have made it difficult for the good ones. Still there are good men and women.

SugarDaddie.com

maddison — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 05:58 +0000

@Rob Roy When you find that let me know. I'm looking for the same.

Plenty Of Fish

private — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 09:13 +0000

@Ami I think Plentyoffish is full of players looking for hookups. I met several who said they were looking for a relationship but they are always searching. One man who moved to Chelsea, Michigan named Andy on POF, profile name andy12345. He is a cold blooded player with an addiction to trying to hook up with every female on that site. He was so cheap, he used his job as an excuse that he hasn’t got enough free time to date. lol. But of course he wants to come over to your house. He is almost 40 years old but the age range he desires starts at 20 year old women? He is almost old enough to be their dad. lol. He tries to lure women in with half nude photos on his profile. I don’t understand why POF deletes them, then allows that man to re add them on his profile.. He also added his Yahoo web site address. POF rules say members are not allowed to do this. Just proves to me that POF lets the men on that site get away with anything. The site is garbage.. But I guess that’s what you get for free. lol.

ChnLove.com

tell you the truth — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 09:05 +0000

I am a translator from the site in China. I can tell you the truth. The letter from the girl to you, are written by the translator. I have work there for some days, but when I know it is a trick I left. When you send letter to the Chinese girl, the translator reply them, and they can get the money from your letter. You can see, you cannot write to them girls mail, or sometimes the translator sign up the mail for the girl and they tell you the mail is from the girl, but the girl never sent the mail. If you say you would direct communicate with the girl, the letter from the translator would tell you: no time, no cable, no computer, cannot understand the English. If you would not write to the girl, from the fourth day, the next letter would be coming. The letter would tell you why do you not write to her. Do you know, it is a trick? It is just for your money. Do not waste money on the website. If you have some question, you can write to me, no fee, my mail is shaodazhangjia@qq.com.

Love Quotes Encyclopedia

Martin — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 05:34 +0000

Great place and a well done website with tons of quotes and poems that are simply waiting to be enjoyed. One visit is never enough. I'll surely check it regularly

Seeking Arrangement

cityguy78 — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 05:05 +0000

A real sugar daddy here in Chicago. No time for games or drama just wanted something prearranged that benefits both of us.

ChnLove.com

T. J. — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 09:54 +0000

I've been a member 6 months. Got loads of letters. Unbelievable. All walks of life, doctors, accountants, acupuncturists, upper mgmt executives. The list seems endless. But wouldn’t it? For the most part the ladies seem to want serious relationships and marriage. But emails from them seem short, not really answering questions. So I may be fooled again. Seems about half of you all think we are getting screwed by either Chnlove or one of the agencies working with them. I aint got the money or the emotion to waste on any money hungry, fibbing. If only half of your bad luck or problems with Chn are really scams, well wouldn’t it be a fair assumption, that the longer you communicate via Chnlove, the more chance of getting, you know what. Cause if it aint Chnlove itself, evidently they can't control their individual agencies or don’t really care. Either way it aint looking very good for us men. Why isn’t Chnlove speaking out on this? Somebody badmouth me, well I usually address the rumor or at least try to clear up misunderstandings. Isn’t that kind of basic communication? Communication is fairly high on Chn's list aint it? Is there a better business bureau in China? I don’t know, he he he...(sorry about that he he bit) Where can we each send 25 bucks to check this? For letters of which half are "ha ha he he" translations? Shoot I got fifty. Small price for good info. Man these China girls, the one I communicate with (spending money on) is hot! But there seems to be some questions here. Hey don’t tell OK? But I have been slicked and kicked by a dame sitting next to me, let alone da other side a de freaking world. IT AINT ABOVE EM. I know there's somebody reading this that has a buddy in some bar somewhere that knows what to do. Cause my fellow friends, we deserve some facts on this AT LEAST! I’m new at this. Would like suggestions on getting facts.

Mingle2.com

julie mcvay — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 08:43 +0000

To meet attractive, intelligent ,successful men interested in dating.

Muslima.com

shafiq — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 09:46 +0000

As sa lar mo alai kum. I feel very happy to meet this website. Muslim girls are very beautiful. I want to make friends with them. But I am not good in English. I can speak in Urdu. Thanks a lot........bye

Seeking Arrangement

Kim — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 05:38 +0000

@Bonnie You are exactly right!!! I have been on mostly all the sugar daddy sites and I have yet to meet a real SD. I am not a bad looking girl so I know that it's not because of my looks. My advice to most of the women out here is to get your own money! This is a new day in time and right now everyone is all about their self.

ChnLove.com

jeff Hofmann — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 09:06 +0000

@Smithson I have been communicating for 3 month with ladies on chn. Right now I am at an airport in Syracuse NY on my way to visit a lady I’ve been talking to. So I guess I’ll follow up on here to let you know what happens when I meet my love. The flight was cancelled due to the weather in JFK airport area. So now I wait till the next departure. I’m on standby for 5pm if no room I have a flight going out on the next day at 5pm. Stay tuned I hope it works out.

Muslima.com

abdulaziz — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 01:52 +0000

l will love to meet muslims singles, to make friendship and to communicate with my fellow muslims around the globe. l wish to meet beautiful singles. Distance is not a barrier when it comes to love.

Plenty Of Fish

khan kamacha — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 12:46 +0000

The women on this site are also trash, no one has jobs, and they are looking for men to support them. All trash women on plenty of fish.

RussianEuro.com

Petr — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 11:21 +0000

I've been using Hot Russian Brides.com for a few months. It has replaced Facebook as my main source of daily online fun. The girls are always fun to talk to and I have even talked with a couple of them about going to meet them in person. Video chat is fun. I sent one girl a gift through the Web site and was lucky enough to see her receive it live on webcam. There seems to be a lot of misinformation out there about this site. But I think if you look at a lot of these "scam" claims, it's clear that a lot of people just don't understand the nature of the service. It's an international dating service. Not a mail order bride service. And the ladies don't have to talk to you if they don't want to. (But it's great when they do!) If you're looking for a different kind of online dating, I would highly recommend becoming a member of this site. I have definitely enjoyed my time.

SpeedDate.com

jasny — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 01:30 +0000

Speeddate.com is a terrible site! I receive several communications a day from users on the site, but it turns out that 90% or more of them are African scammers! And when I browse members that match my criteria, more than 50% are African or Russian scammers! When I report them to Speeddate I always get a popup that says how important my communication is, how seriously they take such reports and how they will make every effort to investigate and delete members that violate the Terms of Use. However, even the most OBVIOUS of these fraudulent profiles remain active for weeks or even months after I have reported them. Stay away from Speeddate.com.

PARSHIP

Jules — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 04:59 +0000

I must admit I found it a useful and interesting site. The personality profile was interesting and seemed to work. It's true that you don't get a huge number of people if you avoid areas like London and it is quite expensive. I would say some sites make it easy for you to choose a partner on height or build, but I do feel that the dates here do match me better. It depends on whether you see your ideal partner as being a busty blonde over 5ft 9in or someone who has a similar outlook on many aspects of life and personality. I haven't had issues with speed of site, the blurry photos is a good idea because it makes it less of a meat market. I have met a very nice date through this site and I hope it develops.

Dating a Divorced Man

sara — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 04:08 +0000

I am happy I saw this discussion. This is a Big question I’m carrying in my head for 5 years since I got married with a man who is divorced and has kids which live with their mom. It’s a very long story but all I can say to make it brief is that when we met, he just let me know he was married before and he didn’t want to talk about it much and so I thought he wanna really move on and I’m the one to give him a fresh start. After I accepted marrying him, he also mentioned he got kids from his ex and asked me if this is gonna change my mind. Well, then, according to his way of letting me know about his past (he had said they’re in another city at that moment) I still thought he wants to start everything fresh and even he swore nothing from his past is going to come before my eyes or mind to bother me. Then, I just trusted his word and because I had fallen in love with him, I believed everything he said. Right after marriage, everything changed and the truth came out. His ex wasn’t living in another city, and wasn’t goin to be away from us. His ex that had stopped him from seeing his kids for ages, now let him see them, he came to me and said I have to see them here on a regular basis....I wasn’t even mentally prepared to face them. I couldn’t even accept I could see a child that is from another woman. Maybe if, before we married, I knew what his plan was going to be after marriage about his kids, i didn’t have any right to think like how I thought. But didn’t know and this didn’t even pass from my thoughts for a second. I just had given my heart to what he had told me and promised me. By marrying me, he had kinda got back to his kids after so long and I could see the excitement in him. However me being in shock with wt was going to happen for the rest of our life took peace from him as well. What was killing me the most was that I had hardly accepted marrying a man that was married before and had challenged so much to pretend he hasn’t , but when his kids came up, his ex was going to be the shadow over my life forever, and I could not pretend anything anymore. My life turned into a mental torture. We had lottttsa arguments and fights over this , me complaining about the hell he put me in by not being honest and clear with me , and him expecting me not to be sensitive about his kids. I tried so much to get away from this kind of thinking but I cant, and till today I can’t love him again.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Tess — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 12:22 +0000

@karen I had a very BAD experience, also with this site. They think because we are labelled 'senior' that equates to stupid! My profile was hijacked, changed, and they didn't even change the text where I spoke about my grandchildren...this girl said she was 35...and I reported it and Seniors never replied. I also spoke with several supposed 'singles' from the site, with all the same story...they were in Nigeria. I will not be renewing...they had best not auto-renew or even try! BEWARE BEWARE BEWARE!!!

Amoureux.com

truelove — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 11:57 +0000

I am Linda and i am from uk and i am looking or serious relationship.

Lovetropolis.com

Cassee — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 09:56 +0000

I'm new to online dating and I picked Lovetropolis because of the great price and lifetime membership offer. I wasn't expecting much since the price was so low. Boy was I wrong. Lovetropolis has lots of features and fun ways to interact with guys I'm interested in. I really like the webcam dating. It's nice to be able to actually see the person I'm trying to get to know. I also really like all the advice available. This is definitely the site for people interested in making informed choices about dating and relationships. I highly recommend Lovetropolis.com to anyone who wants to try online dating. If you're a online dating veteran, a switch to Lovetropolis might be just the refresher you need.

Asian People Meet

John — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 06:04 +0000

This place is not free. It uses flirts and e-mails from others to trick you to join after a few days. You can’t view who flirted or e-mailed you until you join. Then you will find out all flirts and e-mails are from fake accounts that no longer exist. I think they run a program to do this automatically to every free account that gets setup. The flirts and e-mails will stop once you join.

Asian People Meet

whatyouget — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 02:39 +0000

Have chatted with one woman. It took her all of 5 minutes to say she wanted to have sex, was in love with me and wanted to see me. It took two more minutes for her to ask for money for an airline ticket. Scammers look at your profile and post false photos and a profile similar to what you are looking for. The scammers think you are stupid. They all have big age differences and say it does not matter. Good women will ask few questions and are cautious. Beware. This is a hot sport for scammers.

AshleyMadison.com

Kelsey — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 07:33 +0000

How messed up is the world we live in? Not only ar people wanting to have affairs, but now can visit a site and meet other people wanting to do the same thing. How about you divorce the people you are with and then have sex with other people... Or maybe actually try to have a successful and meaningful relationship with a person you love. This site and everyone trying to have affairs through it really disgusts me.

Islamic Faces

shahid — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 03:36 +0000

Salam to every muslim, and pray for all muslims all over the world against terrorism.

Geek 2 Geek

Doug — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 01:47 +0000

Beware!!! Reoccurring charges are a default condition for signing up. My credit card was charged after a period of unuse, I cancelled my account within hours of the charge and was unable to deny service. I plan on making a complaint to the Better Business Bureau, as I think this practice is unfair. I also found customer service to be non-user friendly and only available through email.

SpeedDate.com

EL ROV — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 02:11 +0000

Site is clearly bogus. Fake profiles with attractive people that bait, then switch to the reality: pure fugly orks that are looking for people to eat.

ChnLove.com

Smithson — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 09:45 +0000

As someone who travels to Asia and other countries regularly, I am constantly amazed at the stupidity on the internet. Chnlove and scam sites like it. For those posters who continue to broadcast how 'lucky' they are to receive 'real' messages and even found their 'true love', it would be nice if they also provided some context on the reality of things. China's urban population has seen an incredible modernization in only a few years: if you wander the streets, you will find the presence of international chains like Starbucks, McD's, etc. Many females (esp. younger demographics) work in offices (mostly multi-national / foreign invested), are functionally bilingual in English or have superior language skills than these WWW dolts are willing to tell you (or maybe they just haven't been to China long enough). Yes, on Scam Sites like CHNLOVE, one may find a select group of mainly OLDER, divorced or widowed ladies - incidentally, usually with those infamous studio photos - so if you want a Caregiver or Housekeeper, you can 'buy' yourself one at good expense. Then give yourself a pat on the back for: a) contributing to the exploitation of not only yourself, but someone in dire situations (who needless to say is likely be exploited in China) and b) for being such a PUTZ. If you want to meet a lady for "free" (gosh, but isn't that the way grand-pappy and most 'normal' guys did it on the 'old days'??) - just use your computer and your connection to the internet. What do you think it's for? To join CHNLOVE which has limited utility and provides nothing more than a means for a 3rd party to exploit you? These rouges online who keep touting how 'great' it was that they found “The One” in China should spend their time enjoying their supposed happiness. If it were so wonderful. That, and playing checkers, while they find a real job in life. Sorry to be so blunt, but I can't believe how stupid people can be. For every so-called 'positive' attribute for scam sites like this one, you will find 100 more, namely unnecessary extortion for something you can do for free with modest effort by using your brain and legitimate resources on the internet. Fortunately, many guys have indeed figured it out. Don't pay for something that you don't need.

eChemistry.com

ankur yadav — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 02:27 +0000

Nice to see a website like this, good to have people interaction through this site.

Cost Free Dating

Lolo — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 11:51 +0000

Costfreedating is a free dating community where you can meet people, play games,and do all of your shopping under one roof. How about that! love the site.

Plenty Of Fish

Name withheld — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 11:59 +0000

@MyName Yep, POF is certainly set up to maximize ad revenue over site effectiveness/efficiency. Under that scenario, POF could be nothing other than a hookup site. Very few men will use a site like that for relationship purposes. POF is also a quite negative environment as well, which certainly isn't a good dating environment. However if a guy actively chooses to date down, it will be a very positive environment for that guy ... just provide the validation for vanity ... it all seems magical after that. Still, I prefer to think the majority of problems/complaints men/women have with the site is primarily due to how the sites' user base is managed ... favoring ad revenue ... rather than thinking women that are using the site are particularly bad.

Muslima.com

MOHAMMED ZUBER HUSSEIN — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 04:47 +0000

Assalam... thank you for your blog...thanks to muslima.com. I’m still single looking for a beautiful muslim girl with a kind and caring heart for me...great site.

Dating a Divorced Man

Chloe — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 03:26 +0000

I have been dating a divorced man for almost 2 years. We started dating soon after he and his ex-wife had finalized the divorce papers, but they had been separated for almost 3 years. She had cheated on him, and things progressively got worse. They also have one son together. I met his family a few months after we started dating, and now they treat me just like family. We also live together now and have talked about marriage. While the majority of things have been great, there have certainly been trying times too. It is not easy thinking about the man you love being married to someone else, especially having a child with them. It is hard when they talk to that person, see that person, and when his family talks about her too. I sometimes worry that I am being compared to the ex and I realize that I try exceptionally hard to make him happy to show him that I am better for him than his ex. There have been times when he's told me she has had similar arguments with him, or conversations, and that hurts a lot. It makes me feel like he has not fully moved on, and he compares me to her. I tell him sometimes I'm a different person and this is a different relationship, because I think he has a lot of baggage from his past. I love him a lot and I do want to spend my life with this man, but sometimes I get so upset about him being with another woman, living with her, having a child, etc that I feel like it’s too tough and I can't do it. Or maybe I'd be better off dating a never-married man without kids. There are plenty of them out there and at times I'm sure I could find someone who makes me as happy as my current partner, without all the baggage.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

karen — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 08:01 +0000

@Sophie I have had a very BAD experience with this site. My profile was hijacked, changed and the person sent a very loving intimate message to over 700 men in two days with my user name. They take no responsibility for the security of the site and several other members have had the same experience. I will not be renewing! There is a no refund policy no matter what! Buyer beware.

Plenty Of Fish

john F — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 07:34 +0000

Women on there have mental health issues, most of them are ugly or fake and the good looking ones never reply. For women you have enormous choice of guys to choose from. For a man...don’t even bother signing up. Oh yeah and my account was deleted because I exposed a fake profile which was probably set up by the administrators on the site.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

tngranma — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 02:58 +0000

I have tangled with a man who I loaned money. I have learned my lesson.

OKCupid.com

Gregory — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 09:02 +0000

Ok cupid sounds like a real nice site with plenty of ladies to choose from, but that is only the cover. Turns out most of the women tend to be very shallow, or have hidden agendas. A lot are professionals and attractive even, yet they are single, which also makes no sense. Lastly, no matter how polite you are, or how well formed you message content maybe, the response from the women on this site tend to be 50/50, even for very attractive people, it's still the same. Biggest problem with the site is the moderators. Your profile can be flagged by them for any reason, even if you don't break the rules. Also they only give “flag moderation” privileges to friends of the developers of the site, and abuse is commonplace among the moderators. Had several profiles deleted for no reason other than not being liked by certain people, then when I asked about why, I was insulted and harassed. Best thing to do is avoid this site all together, not to mention their popup ads are full of viruses, and Trojans. My computer was infected twice already.

SugarDaddie.com

Lilly — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 08:10 +0000

@Nichole Hey! I was just wondering how things went with that. I am on the site and have been contacted by a very affluent guy, but this would be my first time meeting someone from there and to be honest, I’m nervous and somewhat scared. Any advice/good experiences to share?

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Kay — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 12:30 +0000

I have used the site for 2 months. Frustrated that I get "who viewed me" or "flirts" from matches that I specifically said I did not want a match. Examples: smokers, out of state, legally separated, ages outside of the 65-85 range. Also, when I delete a person, it continues to show up which wastes my time. Appears there are some nice guys out there but many do not have the courtesy to reply. Also, have found out by sending a second message that some never got my first message. Have not received replies from the company re: these problems. They make it hard to contact them.

PARSHIP

Richard — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 06:30 +0000

Initially I quite liked Parship, but was very quickly overloaded by contacts from completely the other end of the country and so would be unable to meet up with them, despite my settings stating I wanted relatively local contacts. Finding a work around to stop this was a pain. When I did meet up with my contacts, they were all very good, however there were several others that I did not meet as they appeared way off the mark. Despite not having many technical problems myself, most of those I was in contact with did have problems and found customer services to be very poor at getting things sorted. However, overall, despite a few minor irritations, eg, site sometimes running slow and a couple of occasions when I was unable to gain access, I personally had a relatively good experience. And then my renewal came up... I had a similar experience to Debbie above. I was not told how much it would cost and that the renewal would be significantly more than the original cost until I received an invoice email stating the transaction had already had gone through. They have an automatic renewal policy for subscriptions but they don't e-mail to say that it is about to expire. The cancellation policy (when you find it) is confusing and you have to cancel the day before your last day of membership rather than the last day as you might intuitively expect. Before the auto renewal I had been thinking I would probably extend to a 3 month membership but wanted to delay my renewal till after I came back from a holiday during which time I could not use the service. I emailed them on the last day of my membership to see if this could be done, however each of the responses back from their customer services department were quite frankly insulting as they simply copied and pasted multiple irrelevant terms sections from the site rather than dealing with my actual enquiry. I was not originally looking to cancel with them but my experience with their customer service department has meant that I now have, and in the process have had to accept the loss of a month’s paid membership which I could not use. It was very apparent that they are quick and efficient when it comes to getting your money, but they do not care at all about their customers. It is a shame - if they sorted out their various technical problems and gave a monkey’s about their customers, then they could make this into quite a good site, but I have left them now and will not be going back.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Ann — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 02:59 +0000

This site is a scam or has been invaded by scam artists. There was a particular match who said he was in Dubai working on a project and his license was coming up for renewal and he needed funds to renew...yet he also told me that he just received a check for over a 1/2 million dollars; but couldn't cash it until he returned to the states...go figure! He also had an accent. I told him that I knew this was a charade and I wasn't falling for it. Beware of this site! I tried to complain and received no response.

ChnLove.com

John Dillingham — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 10:10 +0000

@Harry Blodgett Harry, I hope you did not go to China and get married. If you get married in China it will take 2 years for an I-130 Petition for Alien Relative. A fiancé visa I-129 takes a year. I know. I have applied for both. My wife and I got married in China and it cancelled our I-129 fiancé visa which was ready after 12 months. We had to start all over again. It has taken almost 2 years for the I-130 for a wife. I started applying for the first fiancé visa on 11-24-06. It has been 3 years. The final Guangzhou Consulate appointment for the wife visa should be on November 30th. All visas go through Guangzhou so I hear. As for Chnlove, I have received hundreds of admirer letters. Some were from hot chicks, a third of my age, but their preferred choices from their profile did not match me at all. I had one lady I was going to send a free letter to. I checked her profile and waited to write her until the next day. Before I could send her a free hello note, I received an admirer letter from her. They must monitor who we are surveying. Once she sent the admirer letter, I could not send any free letters to her. Coincidence???? hahahahahahahaha. I found my wife on another website. She wanted to e-mail me directly immediately and even though she did not have a computer, she found a friend with a computer so we could do the Yahoo Messenger voice video. She did not want to wait for translated letters. She found a friend who speaks English to translate her e mails for her. Many people speak English in China. It is taught in the schools and universities now. Just about everybody has a cell phone too. My wife was real. I have been to China 9 times over the 3 years. My Mandarin is getting better each time. Good luck and happiness to you. John

Geek 2 Geek

Don Brooks — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 10:07 +0000

@Mike I found my match here; we're getting married next Feb. It's a great idea, and, while it's a pay site, what's $20 when you figure a date is gonna cost a lot more, even if you just go to a movie and get a snack after (which is what I did). As to the auto-renew, I un-checked the box and it worked fine. I have them to thank for what I hope is a lifetime of happiness. Thanks to them.

Millionaire Match

Perla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:39 +0000

I am a lady in the real meaning, smart, high educated, with style, beautiful, funny...and very naughty- only sometimes -. I am single and i want to meet a man who really knows what honesty, love, respect and honour is in a relationship with a man. I am a real woman and I need near me a real man. Please boys...married...involved...undecided… Stay away. Thank You!

Dating a Divorced Man

Terri — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 07:02 +0000

I agree. Why doesn't the man know where his loyalties lie when he is so sure of the girlfriend's love towards him? Does this mean he still loves his ex?

Caribbean Cupid

andrea — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 02:29 +0000

I just come to this site, I do not know much about this site. I wish to find out more and I hope it will be interesting for me.

Plenty Of Fish

Henry Harding — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 05:45 +0000

Looks like I'm one of the hundreds or thousands that signed up at POF only to find out to have been treated like an idiot. I was able only once to log in again. With a bunch of phony excuses at the site for logins, and after countless attempts to enter my username and password, the entered information was just wiped clean every time and login was impossible. If they treat new members like that, they should at least have the courtesy to inform them WHY they don't qualify for membership. I also studied all of their rules and regulations but could not find one that I could possibly have violated. Why does the creator (Markus) even bother to send out WELCOME invitations after registration by email to new members that are being thrown out the next day without an explanation, anyway?

Plenty Of Fish

registered tons of times — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 11:27 +0000

Don't bother to register for this site. It will just delete your profile after you log-off. There is no customer service and your mail will go unanswered.

Plenty Of Fish

MyName — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 08:26 +0000

POF doesn't have the typical toolset in place that dating sites normally do. Yes, this is to maximize ad revenue of course, but it will just devolve the site into a light weight version of MySpace. MySpace isn't a place where you would go for relationships but rather simply hookups. POF is the same thing. Not having that toolset creates a lot of the problems people complain about. In the end you end up with a bunch of women getting ego boosts from a bunch of guys looking for sex. Pretty pathetic really. I find it unlikely that there are very many men whose self respect is low enough to consider women using POF suitable for relationships. Really what man, would use a hookup site to find his "sweetheart"? And did you see the self descriptions of women on that site ... and what they are looking for? I hang with a whole bunch of well educated professional men. I know of NO guys that meet what these women are looking for. These women are at best looking for a "sexual prop" or a "male prop". Ironically, in my short visit to the site, I found it quite challenging to even locate women there that were suitable for me, even though all of these women clearly state I would not be good enough anyway. It's just a bunch of women starving for attention, living out a fantasy of being in high demand. They're in shock that Mr. Awesome has not yet found them and POF, and is the last step before they accept their own reality. POF, for me, is just a large collection of women I would never be interested in. They typically lack the strength of character to attract top tier men. While there may be a few women on the site that are suitable, finding them without the toolset mentioned above is far too time consuming. I don't know why men, who really bring something to the table, would even consider that site.

AshleyMadison.com

zee cane — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 05:57 +0000

Wonderful site usage. It is important to know people before you meet them.

Plenty Of Fish

Lucy — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 05:38 +0000

Plentyoffish is not a bad site at all. The problem is that "free" attracts all the losers in the world, cheap guys looking for quick hookups and tons of rednecks and rude idiots. I am sure half of them are sex offenders. If this is the kind of place you want to meet your someone special, go ahead.

MillionaireMate.com

bigbamo — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 03:35 +0000

I love this website, it’s a standard dating site, with full options.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Polly — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 02:01 +0000

Totally bogus site. I can't even get a response to my request for a refund. I was only viewed and messaged by men with the same profile script, all in the construction business and ten years younger than my stated age. Their internet security certificate has been revoked as well. Stay away from this website.

DateandRate.com

Marcia — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 01:15 +0000

Date and Rate is a great dating site. I’ve been using them off and on for 2 years and have talked to a lot of chicks and even had a few great relationships. Recently they really upgraded their site and added tons of new features such as better chat and support for web cams which makes IMing more awesome. They also have the face battles where fights by the hottest women and guys. It’s a lot of fun. I recommend you give it a try. And best of all its completely free.

ArabLounge.com

Yasamine — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 09:47 +0000

Salaam aleykom! i recently stopped using the site b/c I met someone on there that I really clicked with. Until I see where things go with him, I have decided to keep my profile hidden. Inshallah, things will work out! Overall, my experience on Arablounge has been fantastic. I have met lots of interesting people and have actually made some cool friends that I plan staying in touch with. The cost was the same as match (30 something dollars) but obviously I have access to meeting more Arabs on Arablounge than I do on match.

MyPoppet.com

Joe — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 08:39 +0000

This agency is a scam. I received two identical letters from two different women. I tried setting up phone calls to the ladies which are always delayed or put off. I tried to make travel arrangements to visit Moscow, no answer. They are just one big letter writing scam to suck Western Men to pay for translations. The women are not real. They do not exist. Avoid MyPoppet. They troll Craigs Lists to find suckers like me. Don't fall for it. They pay young beautiful girls to be model pictures on their site.

Plenty Of Fish

Dan — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 07:09 +0000

Hi, guys! Don't believe all this nonsense about free dating agencies. The women there are looking just for fun. If you really want to meet a nice, caring woman who'll become your devoted life partner, you should contact some local dating agencies. There are not so many women there, but they are all serious and really want to get married. I can advise you a nice Ukrainian agency MissUA. I've met my bride there!

Bondage.com

Chris — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 01:42 +0000

Sorry I was a paying member some years ago and just got back to the US, the site is dead compared to what it was. I would guess eight of ten members haven't been on in years, and the forums are dead compared to what they were. Sad really, I met some good people and even got hooked up a few times from the place some years ago.

Dating a Divorced Man

esther — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 04:11 +0000

@Rob I'm a widow. My husband died not to long before your post and I am dating his best friend that has been married 2 times. The latter for 20 years. There are great women out there sometimes you just have to think outside the box... my husband’s best friend is 10 years younger than I am.. People that have been married a long time have a lot more to give to the relationship... I wish you the joy that I have found.. Look closer than you think just have an open mind.

SpeedDater.co.uk

jerzy — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 09:07 +0000

It's a great website very hlpfull and have a grea tips on speed dating.

ChnLove.com

Shark Mike — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 08:19 +0000

Funny thing about the truth to a lot of people is too much to bear so let's seek out a scapegoat make us feel better.

Mingle2.com

lulu24 — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 08:16 +0000

@Athanase Mingle2 is absolutely free. If you were asked to pay, you most likely clicked on an ad, since it's a Google website. There is a new premium membership, but it works by highlighting the profile and putting it to the beginning of a search.

Mingle2.com

Joe Average — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 04:23 +0000

@Athanase LOL POF does the exact same thing you are complaining of Athanase. I find that immensely amusing.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Tina — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 05:56 +0000

This service is dangerous and a waste of money. I have had so many scam artists, sick people, 45 - 55 year olds when I clearly stated I was only interested in someone close to my age which is 78. Deception runs rampant at this service so don't believe anyone and get yourself in trouble. I have been told some names and checked nationwide and there is no one by that name in the USA. I was told by someone named Conan Coleman that he lived in a town in upstate NY and was raising a daughter and was a contractor. He said he went to Africa on a job and was robbed and had no money to get his daughter and himself back home. I told him he was a liar and I never heard from him again. I checked the town he said he was from and the phone number he gave to me and there was no one by that name. This is only one of the problems I have had. He also sent bogus photos of himself and his so called daughter. These men are stealing innocent girl’s photos to use this way.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Mike — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 12:04 +0000

This site worked for me. I wasn't sure about this site since I never heard about it before. I discovered it a few weeks ago on this review site and decided to give it a chance. I was surprised to see how many other single seniors they have on their site. I got several matches emailed to me and I began a messaging another member. After a few back and forth emails we decided to meet in person and we plan to meet up again this weekend. BTW, i noticed seniorpeoplemeet's commercial the other day while watching cable.

SugarDaddyMeet.com

kamarie — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 10:37 +0000

I think I will give this one a try. Hope the men are honest at the very least here. I'll let you know..

SugarDaddie.com

Larry — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:48 +0000

Can someone explain how it is determined what the arrangement will be between SD and SB, so as to avoid misunderstanding, and that each's responsibility of the deal is understood? The mechanism?

AfroIntroductions.com

Ofuoku — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 02:46 +0000

@Wyatt Yes this happens. There are people from my country, Nigeria who are into this dirty activity and they do it with impunity. They are spoiling things for the guys with genuine intentions. I do know that one day nemesis will catch up with them sooner or later.

ChnLove.com

China Shark Mike — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 08:53 +0000

@jason The world is fraught with people trying to get you to part with your hard earned money through deception. I've personally met four women from Chnlove and they are in fact real. Like some of the other posters stated buyer beware. Some of these desperate guys believe that these hot young girls are searching for an old, old looking, ugly,fat westerner so they jump in hook line and sinker in this thing. I've perused the Chnlove men's companion site and it ain't pretty. 1 out of a hundred guys might actually be good looking and not fall into the above categories. Part of the blame should be because the men have unreal expectations. Would this girl really find me attractive? My Chnlove relationships didn't work out but that was simply incompatibility issues. It's real yet you must proceed with caution. You cannot be victimized unless you allow it. The girl is in love with you and you're no prize package. Commonsense, would a girl like this back home see me this way? Ultimately I've found my love in China on my own yet still have faith in Chnlove that love can be found there. China Shark Mike

ChnLove.com

Jean — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 08:43 +0000

@Fred It's a scammed website, young girls just cooperate with those agencies 'network' in China, when each time male member send messages and receive messages the girls could get commission. I've been to the agency in Nanning province Guang Xi China, the agency is very mysterious and they refused to answer any questions. The agency is totally different as the picture where on the web site.

AshleyMadison.com

chicagogorilla — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 11:09 +0000

I'm chicagogorilla on ashley madison, 6 foot 7 well built chicago nw suburbs looking for one attractive female for bedroom fun only.

Plenty Of Fish

Jeff — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 12:50 +0000

This site is appears to be a scam and is run by one person. He gets paid for every click on the ads there, rumors are there are many of fake ads...posted by whom? They will NOT reply and delete your profile if they don't like what you have to say. Be concerned about your personal information.

ChnLove.com

jason — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 12:39 +0000

Dale :
I found this site to be not honest too. The letters I receive from the ladies are very short and letters from different ladies are all about the same. Seems they are trying to get us to write more and pay more to have them translated. I have asked for the original letters from the ladies so I can translate myself and they do not respond. I do not trust them at all! Save your money!

2 of them wrote me pages of letters at once and didn’t ask for anything. Just because you all can’t score don’t put it down faggots.

SugarDaddie.com

Lisa — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 04:43 +0000

I love this site. I have been on only a week and have met so many interesting men who have the resources to do exciting things. When you go on this site it is already understood… of what both parties expect. If you don’t want it, then do go on it. I love it!

Why do people cheat?

shaz — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 05:17 +0000

I know, my partner goes clubbing every weekend and I’m pregnant so I feel insecure. He has cheated on me once before and I forgave him, but I keep finding messages on his Facebook from other girls and also on MSN. It upsets me because I love him so much, and now I’m having his baby. It is much harder for me. What should I do?

AfroRomance.com

Lovelybliss — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 10:06 +0000

I have been a long time member of Afro Romance, and I can honestly say; although I am still single and haven't met "THE ONE"(maybe I'm too picky)...... I have made a number of lifelong friends. I have recommended this site to a few other friends who also enjoy the site. The only down fall is that at one point a couple of years back there was a onetime membership fee, which I have, thankfully. But now as I understand it, that no longer exists to my knowledge. I could be wrong. Good luck to all who join.

Dream Marriage

Misha Edwards-Chinno — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 06:30 +0000

My advice to any man is to stay away from Dreams-marriage.com. It will take all your money. It is full of women who are scammers. Most women will talk to you as long as they think you are going to marry them and get them out of their country, but as soon as they think you don't have money they will drop you like a ton of bricks. All women will have around 10 - 20 men they talk to and will find out who has the money and that's the one they will choose. Russian and Ukrainian women fall in and out of love like we westerners have lunch each day. Don't be fooled how beautiful they are. This web site is for suckers only. You have been warned.

Thai Lovelinks

michael — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 03:34 +0000

The perfect place to meet beautiful Thai ladies like I have done. So much so that I will be living in Thailand for two months from January 2010 hopefully to finally find that perfect women for me. And to those people who think they are not real, go there and find out like I did. The woman that I am living with will hopefully become my wife.

eHarmony

mary ellen — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 09:35 +0000

Couldn't be more disgusted with the 20 plus years older matches I was sent. Obviously, Eharmony victimizes women for matches with much older men who are the large base of their clients. This is a rip-off of the highest order.

Why do people cheat?

anne — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 12:07 +0000

It’s pretty bad our husbands can stoop so low to have affairs....then deny it . When there are so many signs to show how it’s going on, even to have family and friends to lie, even co-workers. It’s disgusting. Why don’t they just leave! End it all even when it means losing everything including their only child and family that they were married to. Low lifes!

Why do people cheat?

angel — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 11:04 +0000

I think it is nasty to be cheater. Is no reason, is no excuse, because honesty is better when you do not love somebody, tell him the truth and don’t hurt his heart. The real love will be based on the honesty and the respect to the partner that’s my opinion.

Dating Direct

Jade — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 05:04 +0000

If you have lost money with dating direct, you should speak to trading standards, especially if DD are hard to contact too. I haven't had this problem - I just found it hard to unsubscribe until I discovered this post (thank you).

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Gail — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 07:10 +0000

I think this site might have started with good money making intentions but has become overrun by scammers. The scammers seem to think that the word "senior" is associated with being lonely, needy and addled. I have had the same experiences as Liz. The really sick part is that they claim to have lost their wives to some tragic happening and are left with a child to raise (which they would more than happy to send you photos of). Some even post children's photos in their profiles. I feel sorry for the innocent people and children that have had their photos stolen and used by such unscrupulous people. If you continue to use the site-be wary-key words-widowed, construction business (road, bridges), 1 child, live in Essex MD or Illinois-and watch for matching profile scripts. Altogether this is a very dangerous site.

Dive into the Pool

Rachel — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 10:31 +0000

Just signed up for this site from here after reading the review. Seems like a new site, easy to navigate and looks like lots of quality members. It's nice that everyone has a photo, no bloated results.

AfroIntroductions.com

phil! — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 11:41 +0000

Everyone else is correct except barbara!....95% of these women ask for money on the first chat!

SinglesNet.com

Cat — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 06:29 +0000

This site spams email accounts. It breaks laws and regulations. It violates privacy and peace. Singlesnet solicits married people for membership. I know this because they solicited me and I am married. They attempt to destroy marriages and families and leave children broken homes. Their married members, lying to potential legitimate mates, lure the unsuspecting into a disgusting unethical mess. Any dating site who actively seeks married people must be shunned and reported. Run. Don't trust them. Any business who must spam emails, use unethical advertising and business practices must be a real dud of a business. You can only get into trouble with people who resort to spam and unethical practices.

LoveandSeek.com

Cat — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 06:22 +0000

This purports to be Christian for Christian dating. It is, however, as hypocritical as you can get. There are several gross ethical infractions, some of which are violating laws or regulations. One, the site solicits married individuals. Any dating site which does this is highly unethical, and to be "Christian" is unimaginable. These "Christians" are destroying families, marriages and leaving children with broken homes by seeking married people as their members. It is the utmost antithesis of Christianity. Furthermore, these married people in their clan have got to be lying about their marital status, and embroiling legitimate members into a hideous situation. A second highly unethical behaviour of this dating site is its definite practice of spamming email accounts. Their spam is obnoxious, intrusive and highly annoying, violating the peace and privacy of countless email recipients. Again, the antithesis of Christian behaviour. What Christian would be so disgusting, egotistical and have blatantly no regard for anyone else’s peace. I recommend everyone to run from them, never join them, and never trust them. They have nerve calling themselves Christian. They are breaking spam laws, being as unethical as they can, and are, thus, nothing but a bunch of hypocrites.

Brides of Ukraine

tony curtis — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 06:45 +0000

This is a great site and a good company. I used them and have found my future wife, I used others and had nothing but loss of money!

Match Doctor

quentin — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 06:24 +0000

Matchdoctor is a 100% free site with blogs, quizzes, forums, videos and email (100 per day limit). No payment is necessary to use any of the above features. You can pay for a gold membership if you wish, to enhance your use of the site by enabling the 'who's viewed' me feature, unlimited emails and the ability to upload graphics into your posts. I liked this site and found it very user friendly. I didn't meet my match on this site, my match is obviously somewhere else! I wrote blogs on this site and enjoyed the feedback in comments. I used the other features on this site and would definitely recommend it to others. I held both free and gold membership, I prefer the Gold Membership and it attracts more people to your profile as it brings you up in the top of the people search.

BeNaughty.com

Richard — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 05:20 +0000

@David I agree with that my friend!!

Mingle2.com

Athanase — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 02:01 +0000

Minlge2com is not a free site as you stated. When I tried to see who has viewed my profile I was asked to suscribe to membership. A Free site is like PlentyofFish..

SinglesNet.com

Casey — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 04:06 +0000

Don't be a moron @Kelly, giving out an IM is not a sure sign of a scam. It’s a way to get in contact with you because not everyone wants to pay for a membership. If you weren't retarded you might have enjoyed the site better.

ChnLove.com

Ernie — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 10:20 +0000

Well not sure about fake or not. I signed up in Sept 09 and since then I have gotten maybe 15-20 admirers, not a land fall like most are saying. I make good money and stated that on the profile, so I don’t think it can be all that fake. I have been on other sites where I got 45 admirers an hour every day. That I knew was a fake. But I have now been talking to one woman who has sent me her home address in which I found to be her real address in china, not some fake set up address by the agency. I do skip trace work for a living that is how I know it is real and also she gave me her real email address also she does not write me much using the email but she has sent me pictures of her in real life at work with family and friends and most have the date on them. So I know she is real. We are now making plans to meet in a few months in china to get to know each other in person. So I have been one of the lucky ones I guess I have read a lot of these forums and I hear a lot of things but it is life to have bad experience. But you do not blame life for it, you move on to the next experience and hope for the better. If this does not work out for me then I know it was not chnlove’s fault. They have done what they promise to do so far.

EasyFlirt.com

Jonny — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 08:17 +0000

Don't waste your time or money. There's only about 3 english girls on it and you'll have a nightmare cancelling your subscription. I had to cancel my credit card to stop them billing me. Avoid.

FilipinaEyes.com

tommy — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 12:30 +0000

I found my wife at filipina eyes. I really thought it was good.

AffluentArrangements.com

Deborah — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 04:31 +0000

I signed up and paid for my membership to this site...... it is going on the 3rd day and I still do not have access to anything..... I have sent numerous emails for assistance, with NO reply. No one appears to be signed up or ONLINE with the level it has allowed me to access....which is NO level. My photo was appropriate, my profile was VERY appropriate...... I am wondering which step I should take next.

Person.com

H.Phillips — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 11:06 +0000

The statement that the site is free is erroneous. There are two categories of webcams; "safe" - no nudity or "unsafe" - when anything goes. To view the "unsafe" webcams you have to pay. Right now I can’t view the website - perhaps they are down?

Plenty Of Fish

Ami — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 01:53 +0000

I wanted to try this online dating thingy and I was glad to find a free one. Only thing is, it won't let me register. I've read the forums and there's like a couple of threads there asking for the "already used username" problem but the moderator didn't even give a proper answer or a solution to fix it. What a shame.

Be2.net

Cody — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 06:47 +0000

Site was recommended to me by a friend of mine. I was planning a trip to Bulgaria and decided to join. Found a ton of friends and met a girl there upon my arrival. I would highly recommend it. You have nothing to lose (at least not money).

Zoosk

carlos — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 12:24 +0000

It is not free. Either you or the person you're talking to has to be a premium member, since 99% of members don’t pay, you will have to pay if you want to talk with anyone, since you can’t say anything like phone numbers or email addresses.

GreenSingles.com

Alan — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 10:10 +0000

@jj I'm sorry this person didn't have a better experience on our site GreenSingles.com. However, that's no reason to try to smear us with false accusations and innuendo. We have been in business since 1985. We started as a postal newsletter and went on the web in 1996. We are a small special interest website and as such we do not have the most members in the most places. However, we do have loyal membership with many longtime members. Over the years we have had hundreds of marriages and thousands of other connections made. I can assure everyone that we do not fabricate member profiles. We receive over 1000 new members each month. We care deeply about our membership and screen all accounts before we accept anyone. We reject about 20%. We welcome single members of the environmental, vegetarian and animal rights communities to give us a try. For the Earth, Alan & Mary Owners GreenSingles.com

PARSHIP

Tess — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 07:58 +0000

Parship looks like a good idea but it didn't work for me. Despite the "personality match" questionnaire, I found little in common with the people they suggested. I also got really fed up with the constant email nagging from Parship if I hadn't been really active on the site, along the lines of "you haven't contacted such and such a person, they're a really good match, why not take a chance?" Really patronising and irritating. I also didn't like the fact that others can see if you've visited their profile (and vice versa). Having said all that, I thought the pricing structure was reasonable IF you had some luck on the site: the friend who put me onto them is marrying someone lovely she met on Parship, so it's not all doom and gloom. I just think it's more down to the luck of the draw than their pseudo-scientific approach would indicate.

Plenty Of Fish

DownPoF — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 07:43 +0000

It seems that this site is run by a pervert - looks like that anyone getting lucky on it gets booted off

Geek 2 Geek

Kaito — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 09:05 +0000

Lovely idea, but the execution is absolutely horrendous. You can't message anybody with a free account, which basically stops you from doing anything or contacting anyone. So basically this site sucks.

SinglesNet.com

christina — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 07:57 +0000

@Joseph I started out just being a non paying member and had no problems until I became a paying member...Now I can't even get on the singlesnet site. I get a gateway time out message every time...I call and they tell me in 3 days I will be able to access my account again ....that's a lie.....I cannot log on to my account and no matter what singlesnet link I click on I get the same response....Gateway time out......they CLAIM it gets blocked to prevent scammers from getting into my account....I don't believe this either because I can log on to any other sites and have no trouble at all.....just with Singlesnet.....think someone should maybe investigate this site and find out what is really going on....are we being ripped off, scammed, or what by singles net......

Friend Finder

13951539 — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 05:08 +0000

It is good network to know other people belong to different nation by sharing their happiness and sadness.

MegaFriends.com

Shela — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 02:38 +0000

Most of people there are fake. Women and men there play cam sex only. If you want to find true love or real boyfriend, or girlfriend don't join this site it's wasting time but if you just want to have fun to f*** on cam it’s the best site to join. Many men looking for cam sex there.

Plenty Of Fish

SomeoneWhoIsP****Off — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 03:32 +0000

This POF site is run by a dictator who picks on random guys he does not like and boots them off. I would personally like to strangle him for deleting my account several times at the most inconvenient times. There is no such thing as customer support, email is NEVER answered. Just run by a small minded guy who thinks he is right. Well I hope you have good security markus because one day you might annoy the wrong guy.

Geek 2 Geek

Mike — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 01:00 +0000

I also got ripped off by these people i signed up for 6 months and set it to not auto renew. I stopped using the site two months and stopped due to the low amount of people using the site. I got a charge on my credit card for another 6 months. They will not refund it.

Yahoo Personals

San Francisco — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 12:47 +0000

I agreed with a few of you out there, yahoo personal's customer service are the rudest. (She was a female personnel/worker) when I first joined, I didn't know much about it. I told them please discontinue after my three month, as I was out of the country. when I return and realized nothing has been done, as I saw the monthly charges still appeared on my credit card statement , since I didn't know how or take the time to find out how to take my profile off the site. I continue receive emails from the guy, though I didn't respond. I just look at them occasionally; the customer service told me that I had been using their web page. I never got my money back... However there are a lot of positive things about yahoo personal, I still use it sometime, now that I get a little more familiar about it. But for our conveniences they should not block the email address that the interested party sent to one another after all, we all paid our dues for using this service. Rena SF, Ca.

AshleyMadison.com

jonathan — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 11:14 +0000

Just looking for friends etc... I’m a nice gentleman easy to get along with not trying to take anybody’s girl away just natural fun.

Millionaire Match

Ian Langdon — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 09:45 +0000

It is interesting, how many lonely people there are out there, I found what I thought was love, I lost it, so I just have to keep on trying.......looking for a soul mate, partner, best friend....maybe a partner in crime......somebody fun with no hang ups....somebody who enjoys life.

Meetic.com

Sue Yu — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 02:02 +0000

I see you all had terrible experiences, but I have to say I have met my lovely husband on Meetic, neither of us had any problems cancelling the services and we are obviously very satisfied customers, without Meetic we would not have the wonderful life we and our families are now enjoying. It was amazing, they matched us up to a T, we even share the same birthday, we are soul-mates and were in love from day one, the first time I spoke to my husband on the phone I knew I was going to marry him, this was four years ago and we will be married three years next March( on the 21st which is also our ... birthday). It is a real fairy tell story, I recommend internet dating to anyone, who wants to find love, what are the chances of finding Mr. Right in the Pub ?

ChnLove.com

John Howard — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 11:56 +0000

Has anybody using Chnlove had any contact with a lady posted on the Chnlove site, from Chongquing, named Fei He who is 26 years old? I would greatly appreciate any comments from anyone who has, as I am beginning to be suspicious that I am receiving replies to my letters to her from translators and not from her. I think shared information of this nature would help users of the Chnlove site to determine whether or not they are being scammed by the agency's use of some of the young, attractive women posted on its site. Please get back to me if you have any info about this - before I get a broken heart!!

AshleyMadison.com

Ashley — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 08:26 +0000

Actually, AM has over 4 million members worldwide. People cheat and have cheated since the beginning of time. And if people are on the website, they have already considered going down "that" path - no 30 second ad is going to convince them to go have an affair. Best to keep cheaters with like minded individuals and off the websites for singles who are sincerely looking for love and a long term relationship with an AVAILABLE person. How many people are out there trying to find a partner/mate through on-line dating, only to get swept off their feet by someone who is married and has been lying about their marital status behind the "safety" of the internet? Also keep affairs out of the workplace where productivity can go down the toilet and co-workers are expected to turn a "blind eye" to the shenanigans of their colleagues and force a cheerful smile when coming face to face with Mr. Cheater's poor clueless wife at the company holiday party...

ChnLove.com

Fred — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 12:26 +0000

I have mixed feelings about Chnlove.com. I have been a member for several months and have received many letters from young and middle aged divorced women with children. Most of the letters have come through an agency in Changsha, Hunan Province. As the other commentors have stated, the photos in the profiles are lovely, but the women are heavily made-up and the pictures are professionally touched up. I have also experienced similar wording in the letters I have received. When I respond, I often receive a response in less than a day which seems to me to be logistically impossible assuming that the women are working, my letters have to be translated into Chinese, a response written and translated into English. I have had difficulty getting the women to email me directly, even after I explain that I can translate them. There are similar excuses for this which don't really make sense. All of this raises suspicions in my mind which I have shared with Chn.love. I found one woman who was happy to communicate with me directly. We have been emailing each other for a while and have exchanged current (undoctored) photos. She explained to me that her on-line photos were recent, but she was heavily made-up for the photo shoot. She seem quite legitimate and sincere to me. Perhaps she is an anomaly. All of this suggests to me that Chn.love is a mixed bag - there are some real possibilities but also some probable scams which may be generated by local agencies to milk fees. My suggestion to users is to give it a try but be cautious and discriminating. If you think you are being scammed, move on until you find someone who appears to be genuine. You may eventually find the real thing.

RussianEuro.com

David — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 07:06 +0000

Seeking to broaden my horizons and simply obtain differing opinions on love and relationships from the East, I posted a basic 'standard' profile. Within 2 days I had been contacted by three beautiful girls, two of whom I speak with on a daily basis via e-mail. Note that only girls with gold or platinum memberships can contact standard members. It's quite flattering getting so much attention from these ladies, something I had not experienced from any local dating site. I am in my 40's and I have noticed most ladies my age don't speak much English. Most below say 35 years old do, fairly well! There is also much advice on immigration for prospective couple wishing to get married. Now some weeks on, I joined for the one month as a Gold member and seriously, I am getting perhaps 8-10 ladies a day contact me. This must be what it's like to be a female on these sites with all this attention! I would give it 5 stars but quite often the instant messenger cuts out too quickly, allowing you to send a notification that you had tried to contact a lady.

BeNaughty.com

David — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 06:52 +0000

Are you kidding me? You join as a free member and the mails trickle in. Then you sign up and they stop! Yes, I was seemingly duped. Just to prove my point I joined up as a second account from the other side of the world, and you can see the girls who mailed you have suddenly changed country! Those who were in Australia were in the UK etc. Lame! The chatrooms are full of young ladies however stay long enough and they will attempt to acquire your credit card details for some cam fun. This site has put me off online dating/mating. I'm heading back to the pubs and clubs!

ChnLove.com

Bruce — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 05:51 +0000

Chinlove.com is full of make-over women trying to lure Americans to let them come over to America. Translators are the ones talking to the guys not the women. They could barely talk English. The ones I met mostly say "hehehe". It scared me. Well, I'm better with one of my kind. Why would I bring somebody to America where I have to baby sit because she doesn't know anything but use chopsticks and cook noodles?

AfroIntroductions.com

bk — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 11:12 +0000

Excuse me Barbara, you bitch, but who are you to denigrate the people posting these reviews? These individuals are simply trying to protect others from falling for scammers - scammers who might be similar to people like you. No one on this page has denigrated Africans; they are denigrating some Africans who tend to try to exploit lonely people looking for love. And talk about a non sequitur: "most of these European men on this site think that African people are slaves and should remain slaves." Well, gee, dummy, no one posting on this page said anything about slavery or about slaves; they were warning naive members about exploitative, malicious types (maybe like you). Furthermore, "losing" in love is a far cry from having someone half a world away commit fraud or try to steal from a possible suitor; stuff like that has nothing to do with "losing" in the love game and everything to do with criminal behaviour. Finally, for a pig who likes to denounce alleged generalizations about African people, you sure have no problem making generalizations about the men who use these sites; if you're bitter and lonely, "Barbara," maybe it’s the combination of your unattractive personality married to a bloated body that's the problem and not male "players." Grow the f***up; I am really sick of childlike bitches such as you.

Long-distance relationships

Raymon — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 08:25 +0000

I had a very bad experience. She acted if I was d trump, very material. Looking for a sugar daddy; she found it; by getting pregnant by another fool.

ChnLove.com

Henry Serrano — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 12:29 +0000

I do have a comment about ChnLove. The women who have kids are real. It's the girls who are single that are usually very attractive and it is very difficult to get them to correspond by regular email because they say they don't speak English well enough to communicate and they insist on using the translation service. So I went to the Chinese Kisses website and the first woman who responded to my free smile had an email address on it using a deceptive n/a/m/e a/t/ Y/a/h/o/o dot c/o/m so I contacted her on her email for free. She ended up being an intelligent woman with a 16 yr old daughter. After writing a number of emails to her over a few months she invited me to do the instant messenger and now we can turn on our cams and plug in our headsets and microphones and talk and see each other. We are really communicating now and it is all free with MSN Live so there is a way to connect. You just have to find the right woman. This woman is 44 yrs old but she looks like she is in her early 30's. She is a very smart woman, divorced and speaks fairly good English. I think there is a possibility to actually meet and have a nice friendship with one of these women. She can't wait to see me and insists on making me her Delicious dumplings when I visit. This chick is kick ass and she will make a fantastic wife, she is beautiful and sexy so don't discount these women they really are over there in China looking to get the hell out and start living the American dream. This kind of woman will probably F*** your brains out too. So good luck, I'm really happy I met her, after spending months on ChnLove trying to convince a woman to correspond with me on her regular email.

Meetic.com

Yvonneproctor — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 10:38 +0000

I needed to leave the site and had no problem at all. I rung the required number and my membership was cancelled and my profile taken off I thought it good service. Thank you Meetic.

MillionaireMate.com

gift — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 06:15 +0000

I love this site is the best of all I heard a lot of comments from my friends and they told that this place is nice.

BikerPlanet.com

Thu, 10 Sep 2009 08:12 +0000

I have signed up on this site and have paid for a premium membership. The site was working for a while but then it gave me a big problem after I had tried to fill out my profile. I filled it in per the guidelines set by the site, however, it became stuck on that same page, and no clickable links would work except for logging out. I have reported this problem several times to customer service and they refuse to remedy the problem and continue to ignore my courteous appeals to them. It is a shame that I have wasted a membership fee on something that will not work. This is similar to fraud or stealing and they are able to get away with it.

BookOfMatches.com

shelly — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 06:03 +0000

I love this site but my account gets deleted all the time and I never do anything but have fun on it. I don’t know why I get deleted. My friend list slowly disappears and my shoutouts, then boom I’m out.

ChnLove.com

Thomas — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 01:11 +0000

I'm in a state of shock at these accusations about this site, It can't be. A part of me already had some doubts, common sense. But I now can't just walk away from this, especially after how many letters I got. Well there’s only one in particular that I care about, but... I just don't know man. Haha, no I refuse to believe these rumours until I experience them first hand. Money is immaterial towards true love. It’s my dream to find my own Asian princess. And I have never let petty things deter me from my goals, ever. In my experience each Asian Lady has their own unique personality and traits… It was the subtle things that make me believe that this is a legitimate site for finding love. They also didn't make it a secret that they were using translators and their photo's show them at well... their best, Haha. But you know, what girl doesn't want to look her best? Look, either you risk it or you don't. I will do what I always have, follow my heart, follow my dreams. Wish me luck, Haha. P.S True love is worth any risk.

Muslima.com

malik ibrahim — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 10:29 +0000

I want muslim friends who are caring, have love for human, dependable and truthful. Thanks

Muslima.com

Muhammad Riyad — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 05:06 +0000

To be honest, disappointing. I signed up for Gold membership and was contacted by members advertising goods or services and also targeted by scams. The majority of the profiles were duplicate or fake, a lot of the profile pictures were also fake. Very disappointing, I expected a lot more from this site.

Dive into the Pool

Barrett — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 07:15 +0000

You can have your profile removed by visiting the Contact Us link (click here) and requesting removal. It's very easy and you're removed within 24 hours.

Match Doctor

Stan — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 12:46 +0000

MatchDoctor is just an awful excuse for a social site. A complete waste of time, and very poorly run. It does look pretty good, but that's as far as the good part goes. There have been some good people (members) there, but they are being driven away in droves by very imbalanced moderating and cliques to the extreme. Online forum discussions there are very volatile. As stated by others, membership levels now are dismal at best. Not even a fraction of several similar sites. One has to suspect when they advertise their numbers, they use all-time numbers rather than present membership. But if they can get away with that, I'm sure they figure why not? Who would know? I got no indication that any dating goes on by way of MatchDoctor. No apparent sign of that. However, you are scam-emailed daily from foreign countries, and there are indications that your email address is probably shared on email-lists, so if you happen to join anyway, use one you care nothing about. But the worst of it is that its primarily run by a very immature forum moderator, 'ForumMod', who spends his entire existence online, has huge ego issues, and who gets off on abusing the membership, simply because he believes he can if he wants to. This site is very unprofessional, and gets the lowest rating of any of its kind I've experienced.

Meetic.com

Caroline — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 04:37 +0000

Shock horror, is what I feel reading these comments as I'm having the same experience! I joined for free this site in June and forgot about it, then looked at it again, there was a special offer in my in box for £4.99 for the month, I took it. The very next day I couldn't log on again like others said it says cannot recognise username password. This site is a total scam and there are legal ways to get it shut down, I will investigate on Monday with my solicitor. I then created several other sites to see if maybe it was my computer, and one by one this happened again in 24 hours. Like most of you I tried in vain to reach a customer service person, the site is rigged to send you around in circles!! I think maybe of the people on the site are genuine but some don't realise they are being scammed. I'm very concerned about the payment situation and not being able to cancel. I'm going to try and get my fiver back but most importantly stop any payment at my bank ahead of time! Keep you posted on all fronts. I did get contacted by some very nice guys who were paying members but I think they ' meetic' delete content on private emails as it was weird no one contacted me on my private email.

AshleyMadison.com

Laura — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 02:55 +0000

I used this site....yes...I'm in a bad marriage and divorce is an even worse option. The men I met on AM seemed nice, but cheat on their affairees all the time, only really want sex, want multiple partners, and will say anything to a woman to get her to go out with him. They are married yet want perfect women who won't make any demands on them except for sex. It was a deeply disappointing experience.

ArabLounge.com

Jim — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 02:46 +0000

This site costs as much as a gym membership. 3x as much as Match.com. Once every other week you are sent an email of your matches. I asked to be sent emails only of women who live near me as they only sent me women from other countries. They did not oblige. They do not accept refunds. I was on for 90 days and never received one email. I spent 48 hours honing my profile. I think it has more to do with the engineers of the site, than women not being interested. I mean, come on, Arablounge.com should be more pro-active in trying to help desperate singles. To sum, the site is corrupt.

Afrika Dating

Angel — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 07:03 +0000

Majority of the African sites have scammers, sorry but that’s where most of the scammers are! Good luck!

Muslima.com

Ahmad — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 02:05 +0000

Assalam mua'alaikum. May Allah give you a wife that is faithful, trusted and who is hafiza, sa'imat qanita. Assalam mualaikum. Your brother in Islam ahmad muhammad ahmad.

Chemistry.com

mithral — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 01:55 +0000

Was subject to an unwanted billing renewal after I discontinued the service and they would only give half my money back. I will never use this dating site again. Good security initially. Average in all other ways. VERY expensive for what you get compared to similar services. Got lots of matches at first, but then figured out most of those matches were old and/or de-active. Once I started getting matches they were the same people I saw on the local free dating pages.

SugarDaddie.com

Sugardaddie — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 10:36 +0000

Sugardaddie is a fantastic site to meet successful beautiful women online. I agree with your comments, Why join a regular site? When you can sign up to a Millionaire Dating site instead. It just took a few minutes to register and within a few clicks, I had some hot dates lined up with beautiful women online. Another awesome place to meet beautiful women online visit UKMillionaireDating.com Good Luck..!

Plenty Of Fish

Dano — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 10:40 +0000

Dud!!!! Zip Zero! Been at the fish place for years.. Most of the Ladies are stuck up, too good for you are what not... Sorry.. It is free, so give it at try. Good luck...

Muslima.com

fattai — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 09:42 +0000

Sallam, I really appreciates you peoples effort over providing or making available this type of sites, it makes Muslims around the world to get aquatinted with their muslim sister whom have for the sake of Allah and Allah alone try to patiently wait for their brothers to get in touch with them instead of having affinities for the kufar. More power to your elbow may Allah continue to increase you in power and might (ameeeeen).

FilipinaHeart.com

heidi moncada — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 01:57 +0000

Hi I‘m Heidi, 22yrs/old.... Single...looking for a nice guy who is also single... I’m happy to be a member of filipinaheart... I want to meet a nice guy and understanding...

Meetic.com

Luciana — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 12:27 +0000

Meetic.com is a bad dating site. There is no way to remove a profile, no customer services online, I can only view a profile once, after that, I can't view anymore new profiles, unless I pay to view more.....that sucks!!! It’s funny how whatever you click it seem to take you straight to the subscribe page and it can't be return by clicking "back" button, it seem to be stuck in that page forever that is how bad it is.. I think you people should ask for your money back and dump that site for good...I'm sure there are tons of other dating sites which are better and easier to use without any complications. Save the headache really. Cheers

Muslima.com

Mujahid Bahleem — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 11:58 +0000

Assalam u allaikum to all Muslims, I want to share my thanks to muslima.com my prayers are with whole team, I’m also single. Pray for me to get someone.

SugarDaddie.com

Ronni — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 09:49 +0000

I've tried this site, Sugardaddyforme.com, Millionairematch.com, Wealthymen.com, and Seekingarrangement.com (not all at once!!) and had terrible experiences. I've been told that I look like Debra Messing from "Will & Grace" with a hotter body, so I know it's not my looks. Everyone knows that guys only look at the pretty pics. They don't really read the profiles. The guys that I got a response from just wanted to email back and forth or get "special" pics. When I brought up exchanging phone numbers, the men ceased to exist. Hey, I know they are married. Don't they have work phones?? The couple of guys that I did actually meet wanted a "test drive"! Shouldn't they be on Adultfriendfinder.com for that??!! I think it would serve the masses better if there was a site called Sugardaddyfor18-24yroldsonly.com. To all the ladies that have had great experiences on these site, kudos!!

MillionaireMate.com

ton nu kieu hanh — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 07:35 +0000

Would like to meet some good love for me. I am single mom, I am a teacher. I live in Vietnam and have a daughter she live with me. Hope to meet nice people to share love....in my life.

Dive into the Pool

roberto — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 02:43 +0000

I'm currently in this site, dive into the pool and can't get out! I cannot close my account!

LoveHorse.co.uk

Hugo — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 11:12 +0000

I have enjoyed several dates as a result of being a member of www.lovehorse.co.uk. I was a bit sceptical at first but it was easy to use and eventually I found someone suitable. It's a bit of laugh but some of my friends have now used and reported very positive results.

Love Quotes Encyclopedia

Laura — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:32 +0000

I found this website today and thought I check it out. Few hours later I found myself still going from quote to quote, each either bringing memories of things that have been, bringing hope on what's yet ahead, or simply making me chuckle. Quite a witty website and an awesome place. I'll be back.

GreenSingles.com

jj — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 12:49 +0000

Not a whole lot of traffic on this website. Some profiles of very attractive women seem to have been fabricated since these supposed real people would constantly be on the website for long stretches - I figured they were probably just friends of the site's owners. One curious thing that led to believe that some of it is not legitimate is that once my communication credits ran out I would all of a sudden receive an email from a girl supposedly wanting more information. Of course, once I had renewed I wouldn’t even received a response. I had my picture and a very detailed profile, so the msg was curious. Idiot me, I fell for that move twice- the sudden receiving of a msg for more info when my communication credits had run out. I'd guess a good portion of female profiles are not legitimate. Probably owing to a gender imbalance on these sites.

HornyMatches.com

Frank — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 02:14 +0000

It’s not a scam… there are women using the site for sure, though not so many as men. Of course no guy will join a site like this and suddenly be surrounded by thousands of horny, sex crazed girls. That’s not going to happen anywhere… But there are real girls there looking for action if you look. Contacting the chicks that look like models or porn stars is a waste of time.

Mexican Cupid

greshca2 — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 02:29 +0000

Hola deseo tener amistades y poder compartir muchas cosas juntos!!

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Marilyn — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 01:39 +0000

I sign up. I have received a lot of flirt alerts and I'm interested messages and I have responded But that is where it ends no further responses..Are these guys for real? Also it would be nice to go to a chat room.

HornyMatches.com

Graham — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 07:25 +0000

Snap, thought it looked a good site, loads of winks and messages as a standard member and then as soon as you pay up they amazingly stop. Now I’m not saying I’m Brad Pitt but can't believe in all those thousands of women out there no one wants to talk to me. 'fraid i think it's a complete scam!!!

Plenty Of Fish

joe blow — Sat, 22 Aug 2009 07:59 +0000

The whole site is a gimmic, with all the gimmics and more gimmics. I have also noticed that you get banned a little too fast on pof. I think it would be time to take Markus down, let’s make a team.

Muslima.com

AYOUB — Sat, 22 Aug 2009 12:46 +0000

Asalam alaikum,w. I just wanted to express my thanks towards Muslima.com management. Thank you for what you’re doing, and please dear brothers and sisters pray for me so that I get someone, I am still single even during this holy month of Ramadhan. It is shame full to me. Salam Alaikum.

Plenty Of Fish

steven — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 10:26 +0000

Have met 2 fantastic women on pof and both have become very close and personnel friends of mine. Would recommend pof to anyone who would like to make friends or more. These people that complain about logging on to pof should consider picking up a real computer because pof does not discriminate. Maybe they should stop being cheap. Thank you pof for improving my love life. You’re a class act.

Muslima.com

Taj Muhammad — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 04:53 +0000

It is good but not free. Muslim girls are very beautiful. I like it.

Person.com

harish — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 09:19 +0000

Hey, I have been using person.com for some time and have a lot of friends am not able to open the page for the past two months and getting an error 501. I have tried different browsers what’s wrong could someone help me out pls...

PARSHIP

Benjamin Morgan — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 04:48 +0000

Parship is a difficult site to navigate, and does not let you automatically see your intended 'date', which strikes me as monumentally counter-intuitive. Also, you cannot find people near you - just people in a geographical 'region', which may be hundreds of miles across (e.g.: the South-West, or Scotland..!). Their billing system means that you may end up paying far more than you intended, and their 'customer support' is a joke. Parship is a site to be avoided.

Mate1

anthony — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 02:09 +0000

I've rated this site but, I can't get hold of customer service to upgrade me. responses to my profile have been great.

Sex in the UK

One More — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 10:08 +0000

This site has very few genuine people. Most of the girls are either fake profiles created by the admins or are cam girls trying to get credit card numbers. Unpaid access is ultimately useless unless you get off on browsing random thumbnails and nothing more. Do not get tempted to waste your money.

Geek 2 Geek

Linda — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 10:53 +0000

Yes you are right I was ripped off by them. I tried it for a month. They do not have a very large base. But the worst was that they charged my credit card after I cancelled my subscription even though I cancelled prior to the renewal date. They’re refusing to reverse the charges. Watch out for these fly by night sites and your credit cards.

Muslima.com

fart — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 08:26 +0000

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Dominican Cupid

angelica diaz — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 08:02 +0000

hola mi nombre es angelica tengo 18 años,estoy soltera y sin compromiso y me gustaria conocerte.

ChnLove.com

Alasdair — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 07:58 +0000

Bill your log is timely. I am beginning to have real doubts about this system. The photos are a real concern to me. It’s so easy to fall in love with what looks like a very beautiful and desirable young lady but I am not sure the photos are real and really fear becoming devastated with disappointment if ever I get the chance to meet one. Thus far I have only been in contact with four and one lady I have actually committed my heart to completely and she knows it. But despite endless letters of affection from me and some from her in return she does not want me to visit her yet? The excuse being she needs even more information about my life and fidelity. Even the CIA in your great country would not want to ask me so many questions. I get the impression this is a ploy to get me to spend my entire bank account on e-mail communications. What do you think Bill? Do these ladies really exist? I am a sincere guy not too bad looking and really interested in marrying one of these Chinese beauties.

PARSHIP

Debbie — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 12:56 +0000

I joined up with Parship three months ago, and thought I would get a 25% discount which didn't happen. Didn't get told amount of money I would be parting with until received invoice and transaction already had gone through. Parship has an automatic renewal policy for subscriptions but they don't e-mail you or contact you to say that this is due to expire. Their cancellation policy (when you find it) is very confusing and you have to submit about three different pieces of information regarding your account so that they can identify who you are. I am currently disputing the amount they have invoiced me. Be warned.

Match.com

Lily Trainor — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 11:44 +0000

Looking for that someone special! I can sense that I always lead with my heart. My feelings dominate my decisions. On the other hand, when I allow intelligence to curb sentimentality and sharpen intuitive faculties, I can be unerring in my instinctive judgements.

SinglesNet.com

Joseph — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 09:36 +0000

Currently I am a paid subscriber and cannot access the site and it’s been 3 days. I have tried entering the site numerous times in the past and all I receive is a "site under construction" balloon. What’s the point again? Oh, to meet single people......oh yes I almost forgot. I think I was able to climb aboard a time or two.... In short, this site is a scam......stay away.

Afrika Dating

JOB — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 05:16 +0000

I’ve looked everywhere for a companion but what I get is scammers with unrealistic offers and total disappointment. I hope this site will prove actually realistic at some point. Thanks

Plenty Of Fish

Bella — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 10:02 +0000

Maybe it’s just me… I find the quality of men on POF and sites like it is extremely low - in the gutter almost. So far I’ve only come across 2 types of guys there. First are the ones too cheap to pay to get on a respectable site. Ok, I know times are tough but any guy who’s too stingy to pay $20 or $30 to get onto a real site, you have to ask “are they really worth dating”? Second are the ones who’ve got something to hide. Usually it’s an unsuspecting wife or girlfriend, or could be something worse like a con. You’ve gotta ask, “what are they doing there in the first place”? Are they there for a real reason, or are they just playing around? So far I’ve only seen the players.

Sex in the UK

singlesteve69 — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 12:23 +0000

Whatever you do in your life - don't pay these morons anything!!!! It is the biggest con on the internet today. No real members in the database, no replies to any mail you send, no response to any of the alleged "wink " function, no tech support and no benefits whatsoever to becoming a paying member. Do not join - it is utterly pathetic.

Seeking Arrangement

Melissa Chatel — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 04:16 +0000

I would like to have a real man. A nice man, with a good personality.

eHarmony

Cathy — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 03:28 +0000

To 25-year-old Priscilla: The cookie will crumble. You too will be old one day. But for your own sake, I hope you focus those young eyes on the guys who are "in [your] face all the time". Anyone who dates far younger is not looking for an equal partner - they are seeking someone to dominate. Don't believe words; watch actions and make up your own mind. Best of Luck, Cathy PS - I agree that E-Harmony is not a great place.

Brazil Cupid

eugene guadalupe — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 08:25 +0000

Hello to everyone… I’m very proud to be a member of this site. This is a very nice place to where we can meet nice people in the world that I would like to communicate with. This is a very nice site to meet people with nice attitude to gain more friends.

ChnLove.com

Bill — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 07:30 +0000

I have received about 500 admirer’s notes, and written to maybe 60, at least once. I have actually met 10, on two trips, and found two that I liked. Neither seems to have worked out, but they are real. The photos are "touched up", quite a lot, but some are pretty close to real. Most ladies seemed ok, a few less so. $ Important to about half, so I tell them nothing about income. I think it can work, as long as you are careful. Some of the agencies charge huge (for China) fees that the ladies, of course, can't afford. You will need to deal with that, if it happens, but I think it would be negotiable. Some of the ladies/agencies really press you to marry them after just a few days. Some ladies are reserved, and some not at all. About half want to roll in the hay with you quick fast.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

donna english — Sat, 08 Aug 2009 07:05 +0000

Free? I tried but cannot get into these matches because now I have to "pay" and then before I know it, the "shock wave player" is required and for some reason I cannot get it thru. I called tech support and they couldn't figure it out either after making me wait on hold back and forth for an hour!!! I will go to another dating service because of this ridiculous system they have.

ChnLove.com

Harry Blodgett — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 06:20 +0000

My comment on Chnlove is positive, very much so. I have talked with the lady by telephone, have written twice weekly for 5 months, have exchanged numerous photos, and write a full 6000 character reply to her 6000 character letter, she is very prolific. I am very pleased to say that I will visit her in early September and stay with her for the 6-8 months it takes the American Embassy to issue her a spouse visa. We will marry the first day I arrive. I have been very pleased with Chnlove and I think if you fellows out there are having trouble it is from some basic misunderstanding. My lady at the outset said she would not tolerate any misunderstanding and we have been very open and always honest with each other.

AshleyMadison.com

Kimani — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 11:55 +0000

Hi, I have heard about Ashley Madison site, however am greatly disappointed that it seems to cater only to the residents of North America (USA and Canada) and the U.K. I am an African and live in Kenya. Thank you as look forward to your potential availability in Kenya and Africa at large.

Dating a Divorced Man

Bitter — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 11:14 +0000

Unless a man wants to be bled dry both financially and emotionally, it’s better for him not to get married at all! When there are kids involved, in UK and US for that matter, a woman knows full-well that however she behaves, the court will be on her side and she can get whatever she wants from the man. After 10 years marriage, she can decide she wants someone else, the husband is kicked out, never gets to see his kids and is forced into financially subsidising the life of the “ex and her new man”. Not worth it!

Dating a Divorced Man

Deb Hansen — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 08:27 +0000

What are the outcomes of dating a man who has never had children; has lead a "Dink" life, never really shared anything with anyone and who was divorced by his wife after 25 years of financial success? I have found him to be very self centered and selfish - having no idea of what real sacrifice means in life. What does a woman who has two grown children do with a man like that? I do not need another child.

Dating a Divorced Man

sea otter — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 02:07 +0000

Why is this terrible? She's telling the truth. You as the outsider and the girlfriend will come last. There is no "empowering" the girlfriend. She's saying it like it is. I've been dating a divorced man with two teenagers and a remarried ex and it's still a nightmare sometimes. I have never felt so neglected and left out. It's not that much fun. I'm considering going back to being solo because no matter how wonderful he is, there will always be the ex, the teenager troubles (of which you have no say in), and the fact that the kids never really "leave home".

Plenty Of Fish

vizen — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 01:16 +0000

I have to say that this site frustrates me. I couldn't even get to register in the first place. The username has been taken, alright so I simply just key in it’s impossible to have another username with this 'vivivisasasasodipodi1293' but still it has been taken, like totally 'with'. This site is gonna be a thrash in the end if the person who runs this site keeps doing this way.

Geek 2 Geek

Dissapointed — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 02:58 +0000

Not worth it, really. Maybe it's just me, but I think it's expensive. For a silver membership the prices are: (1 month) $19.99 (3 months) $44.99 (6 months) $79.99 And without buying a silver or gold account, having a profile is useless because you can't contact anyone. They heavily moderate all you place in your profile so as to police it to stop information that could allow you to talk to members from being published. A great idea, yes, but not worth the cost.

AshleyMadison.com

chris kannenniet — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 11:58 +0000

Ashley Madison is a glorified chat room at best and probably run and operated by chatters. Women looking for men are swamped with e-mails almost immediately. If you’re a good chatter you can rise above the ranks and chat with a lonely women posting 10 year old pictures of herself when she was 30 lbs thinner. Some genius ex chatter came up with the idea of how to get chatters to pay for chatting, the men get to bid for the attention of women and the women get to be put on a pedestal and dotted upon by grovelling males and both parties get to pay for it…..pure genius.

Meetic.com

cohen — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 10:29 +0000

I subscribed for one month only at the special rate of £4.99. I spoke to advisor on the phone, & I had an email confirming there would be no automatic renewal. They have taken my money £44.97 and I’m off the site.

IranianPersonals.com

isaac salakian — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 04:23 +0000

I am loking for persian single women between 39 to 49 years old.

eChemistry.com

Jim — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 04:52 +0000

The personality profile seemed to be an accurate depiction of me. The profile glowed with compliments, but I haven't had a match yet! I joined in May 2009. Customer service is non-existent with this outfit.

JustChat

isaacharding — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 12:02 +0000

Cool friends always on this web. Helps to get in contact to other people around the globe.

ChnLove.com

John — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 08:45 +0000

I first started out with Chnlove a year and a half ago. I received over one thousand five hundred admirers. I am finding out, that is quite a bit compared to most. I'm from the U.S. and a legal professional and made the mistake of putting my yearly income at over $150,000.00. Well you could imagine why I received all the emails. The women are just beautiful and they came and they came. The expense of the emails was not my concern, but simply that I was in this to find a CHINESE WIFE. I eventually chose one and everything seem great, for a year and a half we exchanged emails, she was very beautiful, but when it came to meeting her, she gave every excuse in the book, why she can't. Finally she told me that she was afraid of what her county (local city) would think. Here I am, a grown man opening up to this beautiful lady and she is afraid of a Western Man. I was wondering why she joined chnlove in the first place, other than be a pretty face and get paid for it. Needless to say it was a year and half of wasted time and emotions. Would not recommend this site to anyone, you've heard the old cliché: "Buyer Beware" it was not the money that I spent, for me, it was the "Dishonesty and Deceit," Chnlove plays out, by having their translator responding to my emails the I sent to my special lady and this does not include a man's emotions, that was the most difficult. I was ready to fly 5,000-6,000 miles to see her and marry her. I, in the alternative, will soon travel to CHINA see the beautiful country and date Chinese women while there through a legitimate site and see what transpires. For those of you who have had success on this site, I envy you, for those of you who want to join...."Buyer Beware". John

ChnLove.com

giraud — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 08:36 +0000

In June, I am going to Changsha to meet a lady. I have had conversations with this lady during 8 months regularly and we were in very good terms. Yes, the lady was very beautiful. But at the agency with her translator and the manager it was only question of my income which is good but, not enough for the lady. I think that there is an intendment between chnlove staff and the lady. I have made a complaint and I have generously received 6 free mails in compensation. May I say that I was coming from Europe to meet this lady? I want to say that I have never received a smile from this lady. For those who do not understand, I think that these ladies are first interested by your money. Perhaps that there are sincere ladies but please be careful and try to take some warranties.

ChnLove.com

Alfred Green jr. — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 01:29 +0000

Well, I must say I am shocked to read these comments. I have been writing a lady for about a year now and her letters were always different. Chnlove seems to be on the up & up. My lady has sent me real time photos, a number of them. I also have photos of her with gifts I have sent. As a matter of fact, I am leaving on Friday for China to meet her for the first time. I have read comments in the forums of people who have visited and married these ladies and there are also many photos. Yes, a fee is charged for the translation but they have to make money somehow to exist. Thank you!

ArabLounge.com

jamila — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 07:29 +0000

I am looking to make friendship with Arabs. I like to meet someone from Egypt or anywhere in the ME, as long as it is an Arab country, I’d like to learn Arab. I would like to visit the Middle East one day.

Mingle2.com

Ronnie — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 05:10 +0000

I think this is a very good site and need to keep it up just a little better where it gets slow ever once in a while. Mostly to far away places. Have gotten very good service so far and thanks a lot.

KelloNaseeb.com

يوسف — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 08:11 +0000

I really wanna real girlfriend. I hope to find one has feeling , beautiful and sensitive.

eChemistry.com

Michelle — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 06:06 +0000

5 stars for the accuracy of the personality test. 1 star for everything else. I've sent two e-mails that have not been responded to. I get an error message every time I try to upload my pictures, even though I have successfully uploaded the same pictures to other dating sites and the file size and format are correct. I'm in California and I got matched with a guy in New York and a guy in England. I'm glad I saw Ellis' comment above. I thought I was the only one with no matches. Until they improve their tech support and customer service, I'm not giving them any of my money.

AfroIntroductions.com

barbara — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 12:15 +0000

I am very disappointed with the comments people made about African people. Don't forget all of you who have commented are as bad as the scammer you say they are. They might be scammers, but it isn't as bad as lying. Most of these European men on this site think that African people are slaves and should remain slaves. If you not lying about be honest or trustworthy the whole of men here have emotional problems. Don't blame the Africans, blame the game. Sometimes you lose and sometimes you win. Stop complaining because at the end, you guys are here to play games. So just get on with it. Losers.

SugarDaddie.com

sugarsweet — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 10:11 +0000

I found that, while the premise itself is a great idea, that the site lacks many of the other wonderful qualities of some of the other dating sites for influential men and the woman that enjoy them. They do no verification at all of a man’s photo. I had one man tell me he was a little overweight, when I flew across the country to meet with him I found that instead of being a little overweight, he was in approx the 450 pound range. They do not verify their incomes; they do not verify work, or anything for that matter, as compared to sites such as Wealthy Men, Seeking Arrangement or Millionaire Match. I had one gentleman that contacted me, brought up what would be a suitable arrangement, and when I did end up doing an IP reversal with a satellite imagery display found that this man was living in a trailer. Not all of us "sugar babes" are as uninformed or as stupid as some of these gents think we might be. I also think that the site should enforce that it strictly be a SD/SB dating site and that those seeking marriage should not be part of the site as many of the ladies that I spoke with complained of receiving emails from some of the members calling them whores, that they should pray to God for forgiveness and that their parents would be contacted and told what they are doing. The women did report the abuse to the web site and yet the gentleman's profile was not removed even though they were reported for being abusive. The idea behind the site is wonderful, but in this day and age, with the verification now being done on other sites, it is a shame that this site is not doing the same thing and is behind the current curve of some sort of verification so that the woman on the site has some assurances as to the realness of the gentlemen.

Catholic Match

Jay — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 09:16 +0000

Catholicmatch.com was a major disappointment to me. This site has extremely restrictive policies which in my opinion are very deceptive. You can only send and receive messages if you pay to get a full account. If you sign up for a free account, you can't send messages or reply to messages, so although you have a profile on there, for all essential purposes it's meaningless to full members because you can't be contacted. So you pay to sign up because you see lots of profiles in their area, thinking they are people you can contact. Unfortunately, once they have your money, you realize they are just free accounts and there is no way to contact them, meaning there are actually far fewer people who can be contacted than you'd originally thought. That just seems wrong to me. To make matters worse, I wanted to be considerate and let people know that because I signed up for a free account, I couldn't be contacted, but the site specifically says you aren't allowed to include that info in your profile! That means they know that they are tricking people and want to perpetuate it! Then I decided that to be fair to other people, I'd just delete my profile, but there is no way to do that on the site! They really want to perpetuate this deception any way they can. Even if it's legal, I think it's unethical. At least in my area, it also seems like most of the people on there aren't even that serious about their faith, disagreeing with lots of church teachings. Seriously, why bother joining a Catholic dating site if you're not that into your faith? At the end of the day you'd be better off just using a free dating site like okcupid.com, plentyoffish.com or even Craigslist.org, just being sure to mention that you're looking for other serious Catholics.

Melindas Penpals

MaYsaBelle — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 05:23 +0000

Melindaspenpals is one of the most decent dating sites I have ever encountered. I also love blogging and the topics in the Forum section are very interesting and suited to developing Fil-Am relationships. You learn a lot about cultural differences and the how to's and problems encountered while getting a visa for your fiancée. Their support group is simply great! Mabuhay ang MP!

Melindas Penpals

Michael — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 04:24 +0000

I found my wife at Melindaspenpals. Great debates, entertainment, friends and it continues to inspire LDR for many.

Seeking Arrangement

Bonnie — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 07:10 +0000

A bunch of wanna be SDs who are looking for free sex. Sad group of men...they each need to understand the concept of the site. I am worn out of having wasted so much time with these guys who state an allowance and then back down when their bluff is called...must be a site for REAL SD somewhere. Would love to find it.

Table for Six

Margaret Pierce — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 04:22 +0000

WOW, Table for Six is so good! What a great evening, and what a great group of people. We all had a wonderful time talking and laughing and we all had great things in common. We were there until practically 11pm. It was such a beautiful night out, our table was outside and it was so lovely out. I could've hung out there all night. The restaurant took very good care of us and the food was excellent. Service likewise. The table we sat at was in the best location. It was rather nice sitting at a round table so everyone can chat and carry on conversations without interrupting each other. We all got along very well. I really connected with Roger. He has great energy, he is very funny, and he's a real gentleman. He is also really fun and interesting and has really great qualities. We agreed after the date that we would meet again sometime in the near future. I think this event was a real pleasure and I’m very happy with the Table for Six service.

HornyMatches.com

Tony B. — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 09:39 +0000

I was one of these men that thought this would really be an easy way to meet horny women ... but to my surprise not one woman that I contacted answered back ...so my belief is that all these sexy sites are a blow job!!!!

LovingBBW.com

foxy ladie — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 07:39 +0000

Looking for a mature man that's stable and loving.

Muslima.com

Ahmed — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 10:02 +0000

It is good, but better if it was free. Please try to make it free to reach those that can't afford.

PinkSofa.com

scary clairy — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 05:34 +0000

Dedicated aesthete, enjoys good wine, good art, and looking for someone with depth.

Millionaire Match

sussan sussan — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 06:54 +0000

I will like to meet my right hand man a real soul mate responsible caring loving trustworthy and romantic.

Geek 2 Geek

Gk2GkEnthusiast — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 07:42 +0000

After being a member of the site for just a couple of weeks, I found the guy of my dreams. Well, actually, he surpassed anything I could ever dream of. After almost three months together, I am crazy happy and have found the person I want to be with for all time. I would recommend the site to anyone that is looking for someone that appreciates geekery and its subsidiaries.

Asian Dating Cafe

Joseph — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 03:09 +0000

For sure this is good site, many good beautiful women here on this Asian dating cafe. I have been member for short time and already met online some good ladies, maybe one is my future wife. This site not like others with bullshit profiles and scammers, this is honest good site, for the men you should get here stop wasting your time on others.

Millionaire Match

maryjane — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 03:29 +0000

I need somebody who can truly love me, wealth is emptiness if you are not together with the one you love.

Life Mates Canada

Jordan Watkins — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 06:57 +0000

Joining the beautiful family of Lifemates was the best decision of mine. I always go out with such great women and always have a great time. I’m actually dating Haley now. I met her about two months ago. We were set up by our matchmaker. We went out a few times before we decided that we’re obviously meant to be. Haley is finishing her master’s in music therapy which is the only thing that’s keeping me from asking the big question. So far, they have not let me down at all and everything I wanted and asked for from them, I got. I think that they know how to run a business very well and it’s no secret that they have the world’s best matchmakers on their team. It would definitely by a smart move to sign up.

FilipinaHeart.com

michelle — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 05:23 +0000

Hi, I’m happy to be a member of filipinaheart. coz I want to meet many guys out there most specially white people of any country! mabuhay....

Elite Personal Search

Dorothy Quentin — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 08:12 +0000

I wasn’t so happy at first. Paying the fee was actually to my surprise only because I thought it was going to be MUCH more expensive. That was nice but what I didn’t like (only at first) was that it took a while for them to find me the right one. After eight months of dating different guys who I liked very much and fit my criteria pretty well but still weren’t for me, I got kind of impatient. Thanks to my best friend who I grew up with, I learned to have faith. She basically told me that sometimes a person needs to be mature and wait a little longer. Her exact words were “a little patience goes a long way”. I can’t even begin to explain how right she was because a month later, I was set up with the most intelligent, grounded, hard working and honest man ever. His name was Gerald and I looked at him like my gift from G-D. We dated for about six months till we eventually married. I know six months isn’t so long, but when you know, you know. I guess what I’m trying to say is that this company DEFINITELY gave me my money’s worth and the fact that I wasn’t happy at first was just something I had to work on. Two thumbs up for this service.

eHarmony

/b/tard — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 08:51 +0000

If you're not Christian, don't bother. They will reject you.

Muslima.com

Imran Hassan — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 01:33 +0000

Salam this is very beautiful site for Muslims. I want to marry with beautiful and Hafiza Girl. I am Student of M.A. Economics and doing job in Mobilink as a CSR.

Amoureux.com

hamris — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 07:56 +0000

Amoureux is an excellent programme. First it is available to all freely. However, the programme should improve itself by checking that it should not send male to male profiles.

AsianEuro.com

rosalinda — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 03:22 +0000

Asian euro is reliable for seeking a foreign relationship.

Muslima.com

mirza shehzad shouket — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 07:56 +0000

Good site. I am looking for muslim sunni girl, who can give me true love, also good looking and smart.

FilipinaHeart.com

bhic — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 06:57 +0000

I love chatting. Filipinaheart.com is a better way to find life time partner, in an easy and convenient way, with no hassle and with full time search....

Geek 2 Geek

Not telling — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 12:36 +0000

This site sucks, first they charge too much for crap service. The matches suck and when you put in 25-30, they give you 40 yr olds. They are all about the money and couldn’t care less about you finding fun people. If you get a free profile its fine but you will never get past winking which sucks. They like to delete anything they want. Any complainers get deleted. Save money and stay on the free site, but it still isn’t worth wasting the time for.

Afrika Dating

Carol Jeannette — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 07:19 +0000

Looking for marriage, and long term relationship resulting in marriage. I have tried everywhere else, now am trying this one. I hope and pray there are not scammers on this site.

ChineseLoveLinks.com

Llewellyn Gruel — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 10:14 +0000

I have experienced that many women use edited photo's and when I arrange a meeting, I find a completely different person to the attractive woman I saw on CLL. This is a waste of time and it's deceitful, to say the least. The second point is a photo of an attractive woman of, say 45....when I request a recent photo, she is truly 45 but the CLL photo was when she was 25....misleading and poor judgement. If this type of conduct can be controlled, then I would gladly renew my platinum membership...I'm still looking for that special one. Llewellyn.

Why do people cheat?

maria — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 01:36 +0000

I think you are right about it because it makes you want to feel something from somewhere when your partners is not trying.

Dating a Divorced Man

Rob — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 08:17 +0000

Being divorced is hard enough. I know that I would never put my ex ahead of a new woman. My kids will always be important, but I still can balance another woman in my life with them. I'd actually want that. I'd welcome her into my life with open arms. I got burned pretty bad in my marriage. But I wouldn't want her to suffer for it. I do however need someone who actually cares enough about me, to help me through some of it, i.e. trusting again. I got played, cheated on you name it. I know there has to be good women out there, since she was my first physically, I have distorted views of what women think about men sexually. I feel like they just want to use sex to get what they want, and that it doesn't mean anything to them emotionally. This can't be true, but it is my battle. I don't see how I can get this out of me without being shown the opposite. I have yet to find that, therefore I continue to struggle with these thoughts. Everything else is just theoretical. I know I'm a great man though, and if a lady would be willing to do a little work, I would make her very happy. Problem is today's women want Mr. perfect on a platter, nothing less. Sorry I can't help you there, ever. I'll never be perfect, but I could be perfect for you in your imperfectness. Humble yourselves, and you just might be surprised. There is no way a young single kid fresh out of college could hold a candle to me when it comes to learning lessons in life. If you think that's where it's at then you’re asking for what you get. I am ten times the man I was 10 years ago. SOOOO much wiser. I know I am what a real woman would want. As a matter of fact, I am probably too much for most. I am a very deep thinker, and have learned a lot from being in the superficial world. I know what it means to be young and dumb, whereas these young dudes have no clue. Oh well it's all good, and to God be the glory through it all. I am a better man for it in the end. Now if you really want to know what I think.... ; )

AfroIntroductions.com

rodney lewis — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 02:59 +0000

Without fail, every woman I have talked to on this site has begged me for money. Either their mother is sick or they don't have food or they want you to buy them a calling card or web cam, etc. I have had women send me their picture and 2 days later another woman sends me the same picture. Even after I tell them that I am here looking for a soul mate and that I am not going to ever send money to someone that I have not met before, they still beg me for money. Their favorite line is, "Do you trust me.? Then the begging starts. Be careful not to fall for it when they tell you that they love you after talking to them sometimes only 2 times. If you tell them that you love them, then they expect you to start sending them money. I like African women but I am through with this site. I have also had women tell me that they have sold gold dust and they need you to pay a $2500 fee to get the millions of dollars released. Your best bet is to go there yourself, because you cannot trust anyone on this site. even the woman that I was interested in and talking to for a couple of weeks, I saw her profile under a different name claiming to be from a another country. Always ask them to go on web cam so that you can be sure that they are the woman in the pictures that they sent to you. Many either found a way to avoid web cam or they stopped talking to me. Sometimes they send you a picture of a beautiful woman but when you talk to them on the phone, they sound like an old woman or worst they sound like a man disguising his voice. Be afraid, be very afraid.

PARSHIP

sara saint — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 01:36 +0000

This is one of the most useless dating websites ever. For 100% certain at least the last three people who contacted me were totally fraudulent. I traced their IP addresses to Ghana. In fact two of them had the same IP address. One of them even used a mobile with a Ghanaian number. He claimed to be a jewellery designer from Manchester who grew up in Belgium or Italy depending on which one it was. I have e-mailed them several times to report this and got no reply. Next time I’ll try German to see of that gets a better response. Do not join this agency.

PARSHIP

SD — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 12:43 +0000

I joined Parship for 1 month and was approached by several people who were clearly scamming (1 asked me to phone a high-price 07031 mobile) and was also sent 2 different profiles with the same photo on! Now Parship seems to be refusing to cancel my membership and have just taken money from my credit card again. Beware!

eChemistry.com

Annie — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 04:33 +0000

I have tried several times to take the personality test and log into the site to try it, but I consistently get error messages. I have emailed customer service for help, but no one ever responds. Their matching system sounds intriguing, but I guess I will never know since it's impossible to log in.

Mate1

hospitality — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 12:27 +0000

Mate 1 is a scam, and basically lures men with fake female members and should you cancel your trial membership, they will attempt to try and charge you for the next month.

ChnLove.com

Derek — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 08:46 +0000

Throwing money out the window, that is what chnlove is all about. In my case I did manage to get some pictures of the lady in her “daily life” although she is always alone on them. Furthermore, I suggested many times that we should at least make contact on webcam but was always given excuses as to why it was not possible. So I suggested she hand writes a letter that I would get translated by an independent translator (obviously the goal was to trace the address back to where in China it came from) and the answer I got was word for word "I never sent mail abroad and do not know where the post office is ". Really? That was it for me, I decided one last try, I sent her a last message relating to many reviews (negative ones) I had read on various websites, the answer I got was "I do not know these websites and feel ashamed of my poor English". Seriously, do yourselves a favor and avoid chnlove.com and chinesekisses.com for that matter!

SugarDaddie.com

Susan — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 06:07 +0000

When I first discovered the site I was very excited. I loved the concept of such complete honesty for both parties involved. No reasons for lies or deceptions between either party. I was on the site for several months, and dated several different men when I started noticing a trend. I thought maybe it was just me that was noticing this particular disturbing characteristic of the men on the site so I contacted many other different ladies only to discover that they had also noticed it. The majority of the men on this site are arrogant, emotionally disturbed, and in general very abusive. They seem to think that because they are spending money on someone that it automatically gives them the right to treat their "sugar babes" in degrading, abusive manners that are incredibly cruel. They tend to think that because the ladies are being "spoiled" that then they can just basically treat them like dirt. They seem to forget that the life of the sugar babe is not all fun and games and shopping and trips and that the life of the sugar babe life is a very lonely one, when he goes home to his wife that the sugar babe is alone. That all of those Friday nights and holidays alone are very hard. That having someone in their life that they cannot really share their life with fully is very hard on the sugar babe, which is one of the reasons that the sugar baby is being taken care of so well. They forget this and instead choose to think it means that they can emotionally abuse and batter their sugar babes. Maybe that is part of the problem. They look at their sugar babes as sugar babes instead of being their mistress. There is a difference between the two. I have been a mistress to wealthy men most of my life, and I can honestly say that the majority of the men on this site do not have the emotional maturity to understand what it truly means to have a mistress. I do not recommend this site at all for finding men of quality and that is too bad because the concept behind it is quite refreshing.

Muslima.com

muhammad — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 12:11 +0000

It is timely and out of this world. Muslims of today need to use technology while within the precincts of Islam. This is it!

AshleyMadison.com

anonymous — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 09:40 +0000

Men and women who shamelessly leave your marriage beds to sleep with other married women and men, where is your morality? Do you think of the pain you cause the children of the men and the poor wives back at home? It’s time to reconsider your values because what you are looking for here, you will not find it, it is all vanity, waste of time money, dignity and causing pain to most of all yourselves. Stop looking to fill your emotional voids at the wrong place, Jesus is the answer whether you accept it or you don’t!

Sex in the UK

hippnk — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 08:53 +0000

The site has been down for 2 days and counting....... I was in the middle of getting to know a few women and now I feel so frustrated......

Dating a Divorced Man

Nvad — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 06:01 +0000

@KidJhb That is terrible advice, saying that the current girlfriends come last. It defeats the purpose of the article to help empower the girlfriend. I think there is a constant struggle, but the divorced man has no loyalties to his ex wife. That's like saying a guy who didn't marry a woman has loyalties to an ex girlfriend.

Plenty Of Fish

Mon, 29 Jun 2009 12:17 +0000

Terrible site. Poorly run and managed. It's down quite often and it will delete your profile w/o (something that I found out the hard way) warning and you'll be unable to use the same email address to re-register or register another profile. Frankly, I keep three or four free email address handy in case I am booted. You can get back on the site within minutes if you do that... Same text...same picture...everything. It is good if you like casual encounters... But anything serious is better left to a pay site. This site is a joke...luckily it's a free one.

GirlsDateforFree.com

Scott — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 02:09 +0000

I joined this site over 2 years ago and would say that there is a major flaw - because women do not have to pay to use the site there is a massive proportion (around 80% from my own experience) who are there simply because they have nothing better to do or are simply using it as a sex contact site. I'm not saying that it is all one sided but for the genuine guy looking to meet someone special, I would suggest you look elsewhere.

FilipinaHeart.com

lory panes — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 08:54 +0000

Filipinaheart.com is enjoyable to any one that is looking friends around the world. For me I might meet a person here. I’m looking for true chatting.

OKCupid.com

Xiurxe — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 03:39 +0000

OKCupid is not an attractive name. It's a mystery why the owners chose such a dumbening name to their website. As if less known sites such as AstrologDate or Single2.com better, but I'd say it's all fair games as long as not a scam.

SugarDaddie.com

Alison — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 10:39 +0000

It's a pretty cool site. I've met some shallow people but at the same time, I've met some great people I will never forget. Still looking for the one. I wonder where he is ...

Senior Friend Finder

Aurora Punzalan — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 10:10 +0000

I hope by being a member of the Senior Friend Finder site, I can meet someone who is as matured as I am to be my friend. I'm 63 years old and had been legally separated many years ago.

FilipinaHeart.com

Carmen B. Alvia — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 05:45 +0000

I love chatting. Having many friends is an honourable activity meaning you are a good person. For me Filipina heart .com is manna from heaven - so thanks. Many people find many friends here. I met a loving partner, touring around the world through chatting, learning customs and traditions of different races.

Qiran.com

newmember — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 01:56 +0000

I just joined this site a couple of days ago after visiting it for some time. I thought it had a good bit of marriageable material men on there after browsing it. There are some pros such as the search options, and it's very user friendly. I'm sure there are many guys I'd be compatible with on there. However, now that I've joined I got the impression that it's not too different than the other online matrimonial sites out there. The vast majority of them who've contacted me are much older than I am (like over 10 years). Many of them are not even residents of the US or Canada but live overseas. I've also been contacted by a couple of married men looking for wife #2 (or maybe just that girl on the side). I'm not swearing the site off yet, it's still early. Maybe the higher quality guys are just not as not active as the more desperate seekers.

TallFriends.com

Sandy — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 11:25 +0000

The site required me to fill out a profile in great detail before I could see the type of people on the site. After I did that, the site blocked information about the most recent date on the profile so I couldn't tell if these were active posts or not. Every time I tried to view detail on a profile, a new window popped up looking for payment for a Gold Membership. YUCK. I couldn't determine if the site was worthwhile based on the little bit of stuff I could see so I didn't pay for a membership. Also, most of the men's profiles did not have pictures. Hmmm....

Millionaire Match

Kelsea Rae — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 10:21 +0000

I'm really excited about creating my profile and getting started! I'll be 21 in 2 months and can’t wait to find my ''Fairy Tale''! I'm a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets!

Mate1

Lady — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 01:50 +0000

If you’re looking to meet new people from all around the world mate1 is a great site. But if you’re looking for something real, long term, I don't think mate1 has it. I’ve been an active member the past 2 months and all I’ve come in contact with are sex crazed men who only have one thing on the brain sex, sex, and more sex.

AshleyMadison.com

Ralph — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 10:18 +0000

Ashley Madison is great for women. Women receive, by far, more emails than men. Some women I have spoken to get about 100 emails a day. I averaged about two per day, despite sending out over 20 each day to various women. Guys normally foot the bill to message the women. Chatting can be expensive and you only have 24 hours to use the minutes you've purchased. I've spent almost $200 hundred dollars already and have yet to even meet anyone. If you have a lot of money to waste it may be worth it for you. In my opinion, it is expensive and not worth it.

Dating a Divorced Man

KidJhb — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 03:16 +0000

Dating a divorced man with kids can be very tricky. More often than not he is not sure where his loyalties lie and is often torn between the kids, the ex and the current girlfriend. Being the current girlfriend you are almost always last in line when it comes to loyalties. Can you deal with that? Know that the kids come first, then the ex-wife - the kids' mother - and then finally you and your needs.

GE Dating.com

Beth — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 10:42 +0000

I have had a great time meeting people through GE. The staff is always very helpful. I have also done a lot of business through contacts I have met through the service. I believe they know what they are doing. It is all about knowing what works for you and what doens't and always let member services know they are like my personal little shoppers or helpers. Shannon is the one I love the most she really knows her stuff! I would recommend checking into this avenue to anyone. Thanks so much!

Singles Canada

Gail & Jordan M - Calgary — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 07:57 +0000

We met on Singles Canada in 2007 and got married. He lived in Calgary and I was in Toronto. Long distance relationships do work, it was hard but we finally moved in together and got married not long after. Singles Canada is not free, but you can post your profile for free and for the cost of the service it was worth it. We both tried free online dating and the people we met there...well it was not worth it. Sometimes you have to pay to get quality and Jordan was worth paying for ;)

ChnLove.com

Jack — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 06:26 +0000

I am convinced that this site is committing fraud. The women never send photos of themselves in their natural environment. They refuse to send photos of themselves with family or friends. I received many short emails also. While I made every attempt to utilize their character limit, the ladies sent frequent short emails. Even long emails contained very few revealing details about the women. I also suspect that half of the emails, or more, were sent by an agency person. Frequently, the emails discussed the weather or asked how I was doing. Many of the ladies profiles contained the same sayings, e.g. love is like a pair of chopsticks. One lady's profile also changed during correspondence with her. I made plans to travel to China to visit her, and then she found a means to abort the process. I am pretty convinced at this point that the site is fraudulent.

ChnLove.com

Dale — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 11:47 +0000

I found this site to be not honest too. The letters I receive from the ladies are very short and letters from different ladies are all about the same. Seems they are trying to get us to write more and pay more to have them translated. I have asked for the original letters from the ladies so I can translate myself and they do not respond. I do not trust them at all! Save your money!

Muslima.com

mohamed shiyam — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 07:11 +0000

It's a wonderful site, a good way of meeting Muslims.

Dating BBW UK

Tinpusher — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 09:58 +0000

Rubbish, out-of-date, horribly java-ridden pages that inhibit any right-clicking (preventing you from opening links in a new window/page... unless you turn Java off). No facility to hide your online status. Keeps timing out your sign-in (about 10 mins). My view? If that's the kind of girl you like, go to match.com and do a search for "Fuller Figured".

Muslima.com

Kalifa — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 08:56 +0000

It's a wonderful site good communication ideal way of meeting different people in Islam salams.

Plenty Of Fish

Margie — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 12:49 +0000

I have used this website for well over a year and never had any trouble until the past few days. However, it seems to be working just fine now. I am dismayed that they have eliminated the chat portion as I found it very helpful. Does anyone know anything about that?

AfroRomance.com

Newton Sylvester — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 03:41 +0000

I like to have friends in this site, because I believe I can get thorough friends here.

SinglesNet.com

Kelly — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 01:02 +0000

After joining to mail those I was interested in, the majority of responses were scams. They would reply to my letter saying to email them at another website or on IM. That is s sure sign of a scam. That is how they operate on the other personals sites that I have been within the past. Further proof of that, is getting email notices from profiles that either don’t exist, or disappear after they reply to you one time. A lot of time and energy wasted for nothing but scams. I don’t drink, but maybe the bars are still a better place to meet real people.

SugarDaddie.com

Bert Lundblad — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 11:18 +0000

Disgusting idea! It's prostitution for Gods sake ! It's money for sex and sex for money!

Muslima.com

Mazharul Islam Mohsin — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 08:34 +0000

This is the wonderful site to make friend share and exchange ideas, muslim faiths and their values.

Plenty Of Fish

Wade — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 05:57 +0000

This site needs a customer service menu where questions and comments can be forwarded. It is essential to any business model today to have such a service. This site has a posted question - answer section which is good for common issues, but it does not allow for customer feedback for improvement. Questions and answers are only permitted in the format of a history of common issues. Because it is a free site, it does not mean that it should operate with cheesy, substandard methods. They make plenty of money from advertising. Also, if their site is going to be down, they need to have the brains and where-with-all to blanket email all their customers and inform them. I will say that 90% of the women I have seen on here don't have a healthy clue as to what a relationship is, or even how to start one. Most are shopping for toys and clothes and whatever debate they can get out of emails.

ChnLove.com

Vincent — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 08:25 +0000

It is a scam. I got many ladies sending out identical messages to all the men. It is the agencies, not the ladies, doing the communication. The scam is to get the men to engage at USD 6.25 per message sent or received. It is USD 25 for 4 coupons. Some discount for buying more. I found faked lady profiles. A lowly educated woman was touted as a professional. The photos are faked or taken long time ago. I have evidence too. The ladies look very much better in the published profiles, but subsequent photos show they are much older like their mothers. Translation is a joke in China. Many ladies are paying 20 months of their earnings hoping to trap a foreigner for a good life. They will do everything with the agencies to achieve their goal. I found some agencies parading the ladies without even the ladies know about. The website and the agencies are working hand in glove. The men are cheated to pay up good money thinking they are in contact with their chosen girls. It is the agency doing the job. "Chatting" with the lady does not mean you are talking to the right lady. Very likely they are fake. The website did not even face my complaint over the fake!

Senior Friend Finder

Veria — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 04:43 +0000

Very nice and enjoyable. I am an avid member of the Senior Friend Finder site. I loved this site compared to any other sites.

BlackSingles.com

Lungile — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 09:33 +0000

I would like to chat with other people and possibly make friends and probably meet my destiny.

SugarDaddie.com

Tina — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 08:12 +0000

I think that it is great that there is a place that people can be honest about what they are looking for both men and women alike.

More to Love

Anthony — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 12:08 +0000

Looking for nice warm bubbly lady, to love and to cherish.

Plenty Of Fish

Cheryl — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 07:10 +0000

I have used this site for months now and there are weirdoes on here... I see why most of the men are on this site; half the profiles are full of lies and the other half just wants to get sex… How disgusting is that? But I guess you get what you DONT pay for, and since it’s FREE I continue to use it just for entertainment, hoping the quality of people will change... Anyway does anyone know if the site is down for maintenance? Every time I try to go to the website it doesn’t connect… I can’t even get to the actual website. Would be nice if the error message said “down for maintenance" that way people would know what was up.

eChemistry.com

Ellis — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 05:08 +0000

I found eChemistry after a TV advertisement. The best part for me was the personality profile. Answered the 200 or so questions, and somehow they worked up a personality profile that was 100 percent me.... unbelievably so... I learned stuff about myself. However, I was matched only with 1 person from somewhere in Canada. So either I'm some weird un-matchable personality or there are too few persons in their database yet.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Sophie — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:07 +0000

I have been on the site for 10 days and have received about 75 "views" and 25 "flirts." None of them appear to be bogus (or dangerous). The only thing I dislike is that members are alerted each time they are viewed. So...you receive a flirt and (naturally) you refer to the profile of the sender. He is dreadfully unsuitable, but because you visited his profile page, he is encouraged. My few contacts have been with very nice, legitimate local men who are not likely to ask for money. Always ask for a photo, though. That separates the serious seekers from those who want to operate on your dime. Watch your profile info -- no "lonely widow" verbiage. The scammers prey on the most vulnerable.

Travel In Love

biplob chowdhury — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 10:31 +0000

Travelinlove is the best site for finding a travel partner even life partner at times. It’s my view hope I am right and most of the member who uses this site will be agreed with me. Biplob Chowdhury

FastCupid.com

Kristin Jones — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 07:29 +0000

Fast Cupid is a RIP OFF. You get one week free and then if after that week you choose not to pay them- they keep your photo and profile on line (though you have no access to it) but others do...like you're actually an active member. Talk about identity theft. BUT, I did pay (like a moron). I bought the Premium membership so that I could write people. Then it happened, I had to change my email address on my profile and I was never able to access my account again. Is my picture and profile still there? Yes. Can I get to it to see who has tried to contact me? No. Fast Cupid charged me $54.00 and I was only on it for three weeks before I lost contact with my own account. Did I write Customer Service? You bet I did! Not less than 6 times and never heard back from them once. Did I ask them to just match up my username, password, and email address on their end? Yes. Did they? NO. Fast Cupid is a scam. Go elsewhere.

eHarmony

Danna — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 01:18 +0000

I am in my mid 20s and I was sent no one older than 28 and no one matching close to someone I'd choose. I didn't even limit the search to my area! All unmotivated men and all far away from me! I live in New York City! The test was way off in my opinion. Everyone on there wants children and I make no apologies for wanting a career and not wanting a nanny raise my kids. I am so unhappy with eHarmony in every single aspect of it. I wish they'd let me rate it '0' stars!

SugarDaddie.com

Laura — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 09:52 +0000

Wonderful site, I have been on it for 3 days and have had nearly 70 responses!

Elite Personal Search

Sarah Murphy — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 07:00 +0000

Here’s my story. After my divorce three years ago, I wasn’t at all quick to get married again and was very unhappy. I tried to forget about it and move on but I was still lonely. For two years I was just trying to get back to my single life in the most mature painless way. I got over it pretty well but still wasn’t too thrilled about the possibility of me being alone forever. With that, I checked out this company after hearing from my friend about just how successful they are in setting people up with the right person. Lesa in the San Francisco office was extremely welcoming and sweet. Not in the way that gives you the impression that she was only interested in your money. That alone gave the will to sign up and pay the fee. I spoke with her for about three hours during a very comfortable interview. I told her all about my divorce, about my ex-husband and about the guy I wanted to meet. I told her about my childhood and about how I grew up. I was very surprised on how she made me feel comfortable enough to make me tell her my whole life. She even offered me coffee, cake, and other really good snacks. As I left, she patted me on the shoulder and said “I’ll find you someone whether you like it or not”. I left with a huge smile on my face. About a week or so later, Lesa called me with a whole list of guys she found on her records that fitted my requirements pretty well. She told me about all of them and sounded very excited for me. The first guy, Brian was great. He was smart, tall, dark skinned and very good looking. We had a great time but still, we weren’t for each other. Lesa called me literally the next day ready to hear the feedback. I didn’t have to hunt her down, she called me. Now that’s good service. Anyway, she set me up with three more great guys who also weren’t for me, but she was still great at finding me so many guys who were the kind of men I wanted. She did her job very well. I went out with the next guy (Gary) two weeks later and he was perfect. The date lasted seven hours. Lesa called me again the next day with great news. Apparently, he really liked me and wanted a second date. Lesa set us up again a week later. Well, the second date led to our wedding. Now I have my soul mate because of this company and Lesa.

ArabLounge.com

Ahmed — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 01:00 +0000

I am an Egyptian working in Saudi Arabia as a sales manager, my hope is to find an attractive woman with a nice soul , I will give her all my passion, protect & respect her.

AshleyMadison.com

oooocanada — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 05:40 +0000

I am amazed that betrayal is now officially institutionalized and socially accepted as a norm of conduct. Isn't this world screwed up? WTF??

OKCupid.com

David Boarx — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 04:36 +0000

First of all as soon as I signed up I was hit by a premium text scam - I was lucky I caught it I got hit for three astrology texts for $9.99 each I blocked them quickly or it could have been over $100 easily. Then I spent what seemed like hours answering stupid... and I mean really stupid questions (I now call it OK stupid!) and really at the end of the day nothing has even come close to enticing me to message the so called matches. All in all... OK Cupid is OK stupid!

AfroRomance.com

diana26 — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 12:48 +0000

Hi afroromance. I am very proud of this site I will be very happy to get connected to afroromance thank to all of your good work and I am wishing to meet someone special.

SugarDaddyForMe.com

adrianbabie — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 06:11 +0000

I like the site, its good, and i would be glad to have a rich sugar daddy, who will care for me.

FastCupid.com

JNR — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 03:45 +0000

Once good, now awful. Site is severely crippled until you upgrade to "premium." Member numbers grossly inflated by inactive profiles.

Mingle2.com

Lori — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 01:59 +0000

I've been on this site since it was JustSayHi, and it's a wonderful place to be. The forums are well-moderated so you don't have to be afraid to post. The Administrators actually answer questions! I've watched this site grow, and I'm impressed with the way it's handled itself. New features are constantly added, and the interface improved. And heck, it's free!

WealthyMen.com

Singleguy — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 08:39 +0000

Problem No. 1 - The web site claims the Following: "Verify any item (photo, profession or income) and get a Free Gold Membership." got my profession verified, but no Gold Membership. Problem No. 2 - Can only search by Country, not by Province or state. Don't know about you guys and girls, but I would like to be able to narrow it down to State or Province and Postal Codes in Canada. Would be nice. Problem No. 3 - Turns out these people think Canada and California are the same place. You can use the Browse Members and select Women, then Canada and click search, and you will get 5,511 results all listing user names and Canada Below their name. Yet when you click on the user name for more info you get where they are actually from example "bexxxx, Canada". Click on the picture and you get "bexxxx, 23 year old WOMAN, Miami Beach CA". Then I tried the user name "CanadianClass, Canada". Surely with the word Canadian in her user name, she’d be from Canada, wrong again, once you click the name you get "CanadianClass, 38 year old WOMAN, Miami Beach CA". Then I tried the name "aliesh, Canada" clicked the name and got the following "aliesh, 35 year old WOMAN, Miami Beach CA, I am an attractive female living in Calgary, AB. I am fit and energetic. I am pretty easy going. most of the time.... :). I like..., Looking for Marriage". It says Miami Beach CA, but they got it a bit better living in Calgary Alberta. Let’s try a few more, Tried "Penny27, Canada" clicked on the name and got "Penny27, 27 year old woman, Miami Beach CA, I am a hard working woman that likes to try new things and have fun. I like to go camping, fishing, movies(scary), anything to ..., Looking for Just Experimenting, Penny27 has 3 pics: Last time I checked, Miami Beach CA was not in Canada, Anyhow, I think you get the picture. Sent them an e-mail about this, and they have not responded to it and have not responded to the Gold Member question for having verified by profession. Best of luck with these guys.

ChnLove.com

Frank — Sun, 31 May 2009 03:53 +0000

It’s no fake. The woman I chat with , her messages to me are not the same as other guys get. It’s her message to me translated by a translator and then sent to me. There are a number of women that have listed their email address, phone number, address. most of them just post their address. It’s 5.00 USD to send a message to a lady and only 10.00 USD to view a woman’s address. To do a search, use CHnLove.

When to give-up on a relationship

Thabi — Sat, 30 May 2009 04:09 +0000

I’m in a relationship for 2 years and we had fights then and there but we got over them. In February we both moved to Johannesburg and things were wonderful, until suddenly my boyfriend started changing. He drinks every weekend. He isn’t the type of person who fights, but now a month doesn’t pass by before he is in a fight. I don’t mind when he goes out with his friends but I really don’t like it when he fights. Now we haven’t spoken to each other for a week and I really don’t know what is going on between us. I think it’s about time we call it a quits but I love him dearly and I can’t imagine life without him.

Muslima.com

Kamrul Hasan — Thu, 28 May 2009 02:05 +0000

I think this site help us to know about muslim girls and boys.

WomanSavers.com

Carrie — Wed, 27 May 2009 09:20 +0000

Ya, you gotta remember...these men end up on these sites cos they are complete louses in life to begin with and women want to alert other women about them. I agree that these men have children that may read these sites but if these men weren't such pathetic, womanizing, drug and alcoholic sociopaths to begin with then they would not be there at all. Kids should not be on this site anyways. Womansavers is not indulging in spreading hate.. The real reason is for women to alert other women who have been victimized by these scoundrels. Are you one of them that are up there? Interesting, hmmmmm...

SugarDaddie.com

Rob Roy — Wed, 27 May 2009 10:34 +0000

A serious thought! I'm a 43 y.o. male in excellent shape and at least 'cute.’ I am a pipefitter by trade. So, I do make over 6 figures a year? On the average dating site, the unrealistic expectations held by most women in the West almost ensure that they will never meet their ideal person. Not everyone is Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie. I’m not looking for a fling, but a potential wife and mother. This site merely focuses both the males and females minds' to a certain reality. If you want to go out to the wider meat-marked, good luck. A site that, though the name is somewhat provocative, helps people who know what they want out of life, and serves a good purpose. Viva la difference!

Person.com

Solqueen — Wed, 27 May 2009 06:16 +0000

Ok.. I used to enjoy this Person.com but it’s just gone beyond a joke now. The site freezes, picks up the latest viruses, and just starts being a major chore to get up and running! I actually met my partner on this site, so it’s not as though everyone on the site is fake. I hope the site gets updated or at least improves as I for one won’t be looking on person.com for a while. It’s a shame because it is good entertainment, it really is. Come on guys, sort it out!

Online Dating Ukraine.com

Cathy — Tue, 26 May 2009 08:33 +0000

I found your post informative and helpful to me in my serious online seeking of special someone.

KelloNaseeb.com

Mona — Tue, 26 May 2009 06:43 +0000

Hehhee, this is the best arab dating site and free! Like it :)

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Sue — Mon, 25 May 2009 05:34 +0000

Is this site a scam? Has anyone out there met anyone? Says it's free; I guess that means to browse. When you want to connect with someone, that's when they ask for money to join. Thank you for any assistance.

QuickFlirt.com

Nichola — Mon, 25 May 2009 12:09 +0000

New to this site so bear with me lol. Hoping to make new friends, chat first take things slow and who knows where it will lead to. I am quiet, down to earth kinda girl, so if u wana chat to me send me a txt.. Thanks 4 reading xx.

HyeSingles.com

Anahit — Mon, 25 May 2009 12:15 +0000

You might want to try Armenian Match, I had a good experience there and I'm in a relationship now for 2 months from someone from ArmenianMatch.com.

RSVP.com.au

Bravosmith — Sun, 24 May 2009 10:50 +0000

Hello, I like RSVP.com.au dating site. RSVP does most things right, from how the dating site is organized, to the email and messaging tools they offer for communication.

Plenty Of Fish

Ally912 — Sun, 24 May 2009 09:48 +0000

I like POF. But.... every time I get off and try to log back on to check my mail it won’t let me.. It says my cookies are set to high on my computer. So I tried setting them to low. Still no luck of getting on. Can anyone help?

Mingle2.com

Kristi — Sun, 24 May 2009 03:18 +0000

I've been a member since the time it was JustSayHi and have never seen or heard of anyone being banned unjustifiably from the site. It is one site that you have to really cross that line in order to get banned. Not many sites can you send Admin or the Mods an e-mail and actually get a reply within a timely manner.

Mingle2.com

Mike — Sun, 24 May 2009 11:38 +0000

Whoever changed this site sucks - should have left it the way it was it was… It was so much better before it would have been 4 stars but I’ll give it one now.

Elite Personal Search

Barry Winter — Sun, 24 May 2009 09:01 +0000

I was actually happy with the price of this service. I thought it was going to cost me much more. Anyway, I signed up with them a little less than a year ago and I kid you not, the first girl they set me up with was the one. We dated for eight and a half months before deciding to get married. Before I signed up with them I dated tons of different girls for six years. This service changed my life instantly. My wife and I tell people all the time how amazing and successful they are.

SinglesNet.com

Michael — Sat, 23 May 2009 12:45 +0000

Met not only my soul mate, but my true twin soul two years ago. Couldn't have met someone more compatible! We are now planning our June 20 Summer Solstice wedding! A+++++

UkraineDate.com

BL — Sat, 23 May 2009 08:58 +0000

I just joined this Agency Website maybe a few weeks ago. I am happy to give my humble opinion about this dating service. I want to say a big, big "Thank You" for letting me use this website:- 1) It is free to join, no need to pay, to be a Standard Member, 2) To join as Gold or Platinum member is quite cheap, and I can write as many emails, do as many IMs as I like without extra charge. Plus friendly staffers and good customer support. A 5-star entity! I recommend to anyone searching for true love to try!:))

Mate1

Randal Judkins — Sat, 23 May 2009 12:31 +0000

I've been in Las Vegas a little over 2 months. I'm looking for a 1 on 1 relationship with someone who is looking for the same! I was in Fort Collins Co. for 2 years before moving here. Before that I lived in Flagstaff Az. for 14 years. I'm currently waiting for a job in Kauai to start. I'm a 30 year carpenter. If I find the right person would consider taking her with me. I'm not a player nor do i want to hook up with one. Looking for the real deal!

Muslima.com

Shanavas — Thu, 21 May 2009 07:12 +0000

It is interesting to see there are women who have good characters.

Yahoo Personals

Julia — Thu, 21 May 2009 04:22 +0000

I had only positive experiences with yahoo personals. I met my partner there! 5 stars...

Elite Personal Search

Panguin — Wed, 20 May 2009 04:10 +0000

Highly recommended. They have a great reputation in Los Angeles amongst my social circle. AQ lot of my friends are completely dov dov about their great service.

MyPoppet.com

John — Wed, 20 May 2009 03:45 +0000

I tried this service and was satisfied. I met a beautiful honest and smart Russian lady on mypoppet.com website.

SugarDaddyForMe.com

Liz — Tue, 19 May 2009 07:24 +0000

BBW looking for that special someone,who can change my life.

PerfectMatch.com

Heather Trimble RN — Mon, 18 May 2009 10:17 +0000

I would love to submit a success story, with wedding photo included! As well as a heart felt thank-you. Please tell me how to submit the information. Sincerely, Former Member Heather Trimble Indianapolis Indiana

SugarDaddie.com

Cassie — Mon, 18 May 2009 06:30 +0000

I just signed up to this site and paid money and it's not letting me in. I'm quite worried. I have activated my account by pressing the link I got, and then it says my username or password is wrong. Does anyone know how to contact anyone there? I found an e-mail but it was not valid and didn't let me send anything? Please help.

SugarDaddie.com

Carole — Sun, 17 May 2009 10:49 +0000

What I find funny is, I was on the site and I even e-mailed a few men, but then I got to some page I thought I wanted to be, and when it did not happen I came back. Now it will not let me log back in or let me get my mail. Does anyone know what’s up with it? I think the name speaks for itself. I chose a different life and now I want a better one, and who knows, I could find Mr. Right. lol I guess it depends on what you’re into. Different strokes for different folks right? Thanks for any ones help Carole.

WildMatch.com

the1thing — Sun, 17 May 2009 11:47 +0000

I would love to meet a beautiful lady, and spoil her so good.

Person.com

Ann Jones — Sun, 17 May 2009 01:42 +0000

I would stay away from this site. There are thousands of weirdoes, perverts and sick people. They ban you for no reason. Treat free members like they are nothing. The staff never answers and there are no moderators. Too much favoritism to paying members.

AshleyMadison.com

Betty Lamprd — Fri, 15 May 2009 02:08 +0000

I guess it’s cool have to register in this chat site. Just hope I find want am looking for. Real love not just likeness you know.

SugarDaddyForMe.com

Peter Dann — Fri, 15 May 2009 02:30 +0000

I Travel a lot and need company to go with me. I am looking for someone exciting who knows how to take care of a man. I am a gentle man and am looking for a real lady.

Qiran.com

Amani — Wed, 13 May 2009 04:08 +0000

I think that most men at Qiran just want friendship. Some say it frankly, others dont!

WildMatch.com

Parshuram — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:20 +0000

I will take it for granted that this site is nice if I get a wild match with their help. Let me see the outcome, then and only then will I submit a comment on this site. At first, the site seems like a good place to contact a wild bitch for sex.

Mingle2.com

be2.net — Mon, 11 May 2009 08:05 +0000

Mingle2 is a great site and Matt was a SEO genius. However, after they got bought by JustSayHi in 2007, the site has started losing popularity. Matt's idea on how to turn clicks into conversions was completely destroyed.

Be2.net

be2.net — Mon, 11 May 2009 07:58 +0000

Sheila, you keep leaving comments all over without any substantial knowledge! You are once again referring to be2.com and not be2.net. Be2.net has nothing to do with the .com site. I understand that the resemblance is huge, but they are two different sites. I suggest you read, before you post!

Singles Canada

Patsy — Mon, 11 May 2009 05:54 +0000

This site was started in 1998. There are over 21 millions singles world wide. Join for a free trial.

Asian Dating Cafe

Camille — Fri, 08 May 2009 10:49 +0000

I have a profile on Asian Dating Cafe and I must say it is the safest way of meeting REAL people. The people at the site take the time to get rid of phony and false profiles. I now met the guy I think I will marry. He is kind, loving, and funny. Thanks Asian Dating Café.

Senior Friend Finder

Olga Pisano — Fri, 08 May 2009 06:44 +0000

I hope I can meet someone local on this site. I am a 62 year old widow who enjoys movies, dining out, concerts and the beach in the summer, like to travel and I enjoy visiting with my family and I love spending time with my grandchildren. I hope to meet someone who is outgoing as I am a bit on the quiet side. Hopefully, he would also be kind, honest and down to earth.

Senior Friend Finder

olga pisano — Fri, 08 May 2009 06:31 +0000

this seems like a site to be able to meet someone interesting.

Cupid Junction

Phyllis L Ciocca — Thu, 07 May 2009 09:28 +0000

I AM AN OLD MEMBER THAT WOULD LIKE TO RETURN MY USER NAME Busybee my password is Active

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Mark — Wed, 06 May 2009 08:56 +0000

Beware! This site has scammers from Ghana, Africa. Search Google for "Ghana scams" to a read U.S. Embassy report. Be careful! I have had two attempts made. They want you to buy Ghana air time phone cards and send them money! Don't get taken! I don't believe the entire site is a scam, but there are predators lurking. They will invite you to chat and then want you to go to Yahoo messenger. Don't do it!

AshleyMadison.com

Greg Monte — Wed, 06 May 2009 03:10 +0000

I am a 35 year old Italian American Male looking for a discreet relationship.

Millionaire Match

Kiamin — Tue, 05 May 2009 06:09 +0000

I hope I can create a profile here so I can find the right man and my future husband here.....

Muslima.com

Yusuf — Tue, 05 May 2009 12:19 +0000

This is a one in a million site, its the best site for muslim dating.

FreeDating24.com

Laura — Mon, 04 May 2009 08:50 +0000

I have singed up this FreeDating24.com and its pretty good you know! Not millons of members, but very nice people on there....x

Muslima.com

Ejaz Hussain Tabassum — Mon, 04 May 2009 06:40 +0000

I would like to say that this site is great work of all Muslims boys and girls. Khuda Hafiz.

Millionaire Match

Trizah — Mon, 04 May 2009 06:24 +0000

Hi, hope to meet you soon and I hope to meet my millionaire.

Flirtomatic.com

Bedonydracula — Sun, 03 May 2009 11:12 +0000

I love this website but I cant login. I didn't use my Flirtomatic for 1 month because of my work and now its not working. Pls give attention to this. This site is helping me communicate with my partner.

AshleyMadison.com

Open Minded — Sat, 02 May 2009 11:27 +0000

Disgusted :
Isn't the world screwed up enough without having help from a disgraceful "dating site" in which people can look forward to having affairs. This is a disgrace to the true meaning of marriage and love between two people.

If you take a careful look at the site, you see that they don’t encourage infidelity at all and actually recommend that if you are having relationship difficulties that you should visit a councillor as a first step. This is good advice, but for many people this is not an option. I was in an abusive marriage for 9 years. I felt trapped and lonely and had almost no opportunities to meet anyone else. I rarely went out, and in my normal day to day life I had little hope of finding a better relationship prospect. Many other dating sites actually bar those people who are married or already in a relationship - not only that, even criminally prosecuting them with fraud in some cases. So for me AM was my only escape and chance to get out of a relationship I couldn’t cope with. Sure it’s true that some people (mostly men) there are just looking for a “bit on the side”, but just take a look at any other dating site... those people are there too. That’s human nature I’m afraid...

Muslima.com

Raou — Sat, 02 May 2009 05:23 +0000

I like to know a Muslim girl and the good of the Arab world.

Yahoo Personals

Shahzad Parekh — Sat, 02 May 2009 01:36 +0000

I am Shahzad from Pakistan. I am a student and banker. I search for a good partner and good friend. I hope this site helps.

Mingle2.com

Robert — Fri, 01 May 2009 11:00 +0000

I was surprised how good a dating site this turned out to be. It's well-kept, as I have had very few scammers contact me. It's too bad about the lady above, but the forums were run fairly from my limited time there. There's plenty of negative talk about religion going on, as well as plenty of dissenting views.

MerryLife.eu

Hannes — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 11:20 +0000

Merrylife.eu is a 100% Free website where singles in the rest of the globe can enjoy flirting online and benefit from online dating features such as email, chatroom free online dating search and more. This online flirting site offers a free registration to all visitors and allows them to become online dating members by completing a quick form.

Be2.net

Sheila — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 01:33 +0000

There is a trick, you can not cancel be2 on line. I'm in USA and they asked me to send a fax to UK with all my information, including my address and sign.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Liz — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 10:46 +0000

I'm new to the site, less than 2 weeks and the few men I have chatted with seem to have the same background, history and similar work. Is this legit? Just thought it was too many to be a coincidence. They speak the same broken English, but are supposed to be from the USA, they all have lost both of their parents and they just happen to be only children. Does the site have any safeguards to make sure this is legit? I even had one guy ask for money; believe me I wasn't born yesterday. I ended the chat with him. I'm a little disappointed with the site right now.

eHarmony

Priscilla — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 08:28 +0000

You old women had 50 years to figure it out, and if you haven't by now, maybe you should get a cat. Maybe you are crazy, fat, boring, wrinkled, or just plain out ugly. You may think that you look better than you actually do. If you are in your 40's, nobody wants you but a 60 year old man, if not 70. I am 25 and I have "40 year old" men in my face all the time.

ArabLounge.com

Muhammed — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 07:55 +0000

I am an engineer from Iraq seeking a girl freind to share with me my hopes and give me a new meaning for friendship.

SingleMuslim.com

Ali — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 12:07 +0000

Not a very nice site to be a member of. People are so stuck up. People are just out for making friends more then finding a potential partner

ChnLove.com

Peter Drucker — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 01:18 +0000

I’m afraid it is fake. The ladies replies are the same for all men. All its "member agencies" display no contact details, e.g. telephone and e-mail. Online searches all yield no information. Paying over USD 6 for sending a message out and another USD 6 for receiving, is one of the highest I’ve ever know. I do not believe it’s over USD 12 to buy the lady's address. Probably it is a common address at the agency's control.

Ro mantic.com

Florian — Sat, 25 Apr 2009 04:34 +0000

Cool Site for Romanian girls and dating in east europe, I found my wife there...

PARSHIP

Sarah — Sat, 25 Apr 2009 08:44 +0000

Parship is potentially a really good system. I like the way that the photos are not visible until you release them. And of course you can see whether you're going to be compatible with each potential partner, and where potential friction may arise. Great idea. The main problem is that the website is really slow. Pages take up to two minutes to load! As each potential partner has four pages to look through, this is just mind blowingly slow and it's impossible to enjoy the process. I hope they improve this, as I'd like to give it a proper chance to find me my Mr Right!

AfroIntroductions.com

Lena — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 11:11 +0000

My ex boyfriend abandoned me for one of the girls on this site while I was pregnant. She told him that she did not care that he was in a relationship with me and that she loved him and wanted to be with him.. She got what she wanted and didn't care about hurting someone else in the process. All so that she could get to the US. What goes around will come back around for this disrespectful whore from Tanzania.

GE Dating.com

Jim Palazzolo — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 08:08 +0000

I've been a GE member for over a year and spent more money on this useless site then I ever have on any other dating site. I've sent numerous e-mails to my sponsor and received not one response. I will never recommend this site to anyone and will be sure to report GE to the better business bureau. One thing I hate is being ignored when I feel I spend good money for a service. Apparently from other reviews I've read on the web about GE, this is no surprise to you. I will be sure to bash GE on every GE review here on forward. An unhappy sponsor!! Jim

OKCupid.com

Val — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 11:28 +0000

There are no chat rooms. Which I don't miss. I tried a couple different chat rooms on true.com. Maybe it was a bad night but I didn't find the conversations engaging. Of course they do profile matching. That's what the match button is for. And they also give you 3 quiver matches daily as well. The match/friend/enemy percentages are a way to assess people as well. OKCupid does let you post journal articles. They encourage you as a matter of fact. And what's this nonsense about the age range being from 25-34? I'm 54 and found many people around my age. And one guy 60 as well.

Plenty Of Fish

Nikki — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 05:25 +0000

@Bob Parker. Hey Bob you sound a little bitter. It sounds like you have been shot down just one too many times. Sounds like you need to grow a little and release your negative energy.

SingleMuslim.com

Khan — Sun, 19 Apr 2009 03:37 +0000

I personally came across this site a few years ago and signed up. The membership fees are very high. I remember them going from £21 per month to £29, within a month after I joined. When I questioned why, I was told it was put up to keep the site running and if I didn't like it I could leave.. So I copy and pasted this e-mail into my profile for all to see and they must have seen it and banned me, surprise surprise. But they were still charging my Visa card months after. It took numerous e-mails for them to put a stop to it. And even then it was me in the wrong, apparently and I never got a penny back. I came across lots of fake profiles, and messages in my in box from people selling drugs on-online. Was a waste of my time and wouldn't recommend the site to anyone. Unless you wish to find out how to pick up pills on the cheap but yet pay £29 a month for about 6 months to do so.

SouthAfricanCupid.com

Nandy — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 11:21 +0000

Nice dating game and finding new friends without hustle in an exciting network.

Person.com

Mike — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 06:52 +0000

After being a member for 1 week only I now get a error message when trying to login...The message reads: "cannot connect due to a technical problem, try again tomorrow". Well this been happening now for 4 days and still no login. I have submitted a ticket on the 1st time of this happening but still no response. What is happening with this site? Do they want satisfied members or people to just leave and find another site that does not have these difficulties? Come on person pull your finger out and do something. Many are getting fed up with this login problem.

Meetic.com

Jean Haimovitch — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 02:54 +0000

I have a monthly withdraw of 279 crowns from Meetic.com since 2 years ago but didn´t realise that it was from them. I was a member 3 years ago but have cancelled my subscription. I cannot reach Meetic. I get always: wrong e-mail like info. Can somebody help me with this problem thank you?

IndonesianCupid.com

UU — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 12:28 +0000

I have to try this site... maybe I can find a good white guy here.. ;D

Dream Marriage

Mark — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 04:40 +0000

Completely efficient site full of scammers and in my opinion very dangerous to your bank balance. It will suck you in full of beautiful girls that want to do nothing but promise you the earth in order to extract money from you.

PerfectMatch.com

Alex — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 03:46 +0000

Totally agree with Christine's comment: "This site is terrible!". And everything she says about matches. The "perfect matches" in no way reflect what I say I'm looking for, the site and its matching functions are extremely limited. What a waste of money! I, too, have found just about any other site better - free or pay - than perfectmatch.com. Don't waste your time or money. Note to Dr. Pepper: wow you've no clue what you're doing (or is being done in your name)!

Youand.me

David — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 08:47 +0000

This is the best free online dating site. Really user-friendly. I've already had a few dates with one serious candidate. Great site and you can tell a lot of vision went into its development. Also I read where the founders come from multiple countries - really a nice story. Group of friends start this site and it grows. It's not run but some big conglomerate. These people had a dream, worked hard, and now they are making the dreams of singles like me come true. Wish Youandme all the best!

Qiran.com

Silverman — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 05:35 +0000

I want to comment on a previous comment made by Trasjha. It's a dating site, what do you expect when you complain that men ask too many personal questions. They all have the right to ask you the most intimate questions if you respond to their messages. Otherwise get out and hit the "bars" the old fashion way. What are you doing there in the first place?

SingleMuslim.com

SingleMuslim — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 09:09 +0000

A way to meet single Muslims. A very good idea on reflection, especially for people considering looking for a potential partner. On the set of the home page, it looks promising, with testimonials, pictures of members and models promoting the site. A good way to lure you in. But once you sign up, it's a completely different story. Firstly, particularly in the west, Islam conveys an inaccurate stereotype that women should be treated as "below" men. This is very untrue, in fact, Islam teaches equality of the sexes. But is this true when it comes to the site? No. The first main difference of the site is that women have a complimentary gold membership meaning that they can read and send personalised messages as they please. Men on the other hand, have to pay for such a privilege (and it's not cheap either). Call that equality? I call it exploitation. The site has clearly found a niche of single Muslim men and exploited them out of their hard earned cash only to get rejected, humiliated and made to feel like dirt from the comfort of their own homes. Why do I say this. The site is not monitored as strictly as it could be. There are far too many profiles that are fake (particularly female ones). A lot of the female profiles do not contain hardly any information about the person, and do not have pictures. Another problem (amongst both sexes) is the need to treat the site like a photo gallery. Being a dating / matrimonial site, you would expect some type of communication to take place. With most, it doesn’t seem to be the case. There only seems to be a request to look at pictures and nothing more. I have found the mentality of the site users is to send a request to look at your picture and play the line "I would like to see who I am talking to" once you show them your picture, they refuse to show you their picture and restrict contact from you. A very vain, shallow and pathetic mannerism. There also seems to be a need to only meet people from a specific background or culture. With the site consisting mainly of Pakistani and Bengali people, a lot of the requirements are that the person who initiates contact must be of such cultural background. I never realised the site was pragmatically called SingleCulturedIndivual.com. Maybe the exploiters of the site should make a "SinglePakistani.com" or "SingleBengali.com" website. It would surely make some peoples searches a lot easier. The site isn't all bad though, but probably stick to normal life to meet someone!

Long-distance relationships

Russian Love — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 04:52 +0000

I also agree with this article but I think it will be very hard for me. I think I can’t do it. I mean, I haven't tried a long distance relationship. And thinking about it makes me sick. lol.. But I salute those couples who made it, who made it that far like Bella on her first relationship. It’s actually same of the successful love stories of Ukrainian Girls.

Sex in the UK

C. Adam — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 03:36 +0000

I've been a member twice, just signed up again and this time it is so obvious that there are so many false accounts on there - set up by the company which really hacks me off when you pay £60+ for 3 months. They're so poor that they even use the same photo for girls supposedly in different areas; plus they obviously target areas; there are about 2 dozen girls on there from Fort William.

Youand.me

Sara — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:04 +0000

Yes I also love youand.me, it is simply the best free dating site out there - it is not strange they are growing so fast. I think if they can keep up the high quality they will become one of the top dating sites within 1 year.

SingleParentMeet.com

Brenda — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 06:27 +0000

I would like to cancel this and cannot figure out how! They changed the site a few months ago and it sucks. Also had a guy from Nigeria contact me asking for money. Another one did the same thing last week. They all say they are widowed and prey on your sympathy.

SinglesNet.com

Leaandrea — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 06:40 +0000

I have found this site has the weirdest spookiest profiles and people. Just my experience.

Youand.me

Mellissa — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 06:24 +0000

This site is completely free and International. It has more features than any other online dating site - IM, chat, 3D chat, blogs, journals, widgets - and there is zero charge - completely free. The site launched not in 2008, but on Feb 14, 2009 - and already has over 25,000 members. It's the best dating site on the web. IMHO, and I've joined 4 other sites.

Seeking Arrangement

Giggles — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 01:40 +0000

I'm looking for a way older man that’s interested in a 19 year old sexy Hispanic to please and make happy.

French FriendFinder

Boediger — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 09:20 +0000

FrenchFriendFinder.com is a site for not only French singles but those who truly appreciate French culture. Members can personalize profiles, join an onsite group and even earn a free month long membership by getting others to sign up and join. Language options allow the site to be translated in English or French.

Qiran.com

Trasjha — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 08:52 +0000

Seems like the men are very desperate on there. I tried it and after10 minutes onto the website I had 100 hits most of which they wanted to meet me the same week, they gave me their personal info and asked too many personal questions. I wouldn’t advise it.

FilipinaEyes.com

Jack Michaells — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 01:54 +0000

Great place at least for me I found my wife here. She was a Philippino woman who was a member and we hit it off right away.

SinglesNet.com

Mel — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 06:29 +0000

It is not user friendly. If you want to hide your profile for a while you can't. You have to resign and remove it. Then if you want to put another profile on you have to make a long-distance call during work hours. They say to put up a profile, and call them to put a new profile on, but it won’t let you, because it says there’s already a profile using that e-mail address. Tried to email them and they are down - it is a nightmare!

Match Doctor

John Clark — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 02:13 +0000

Very bad dating site. More like junior/middle school for the idiots who are trying to relive their teens. Do NOT participate until you read the forums, blogs and enter the chatrooms for a couple days. Watch and learn how they act and react. No normal, well adjusted or respectable person lasts long on there. I've witnessed many, many nice people being bashed and trashed for no apparent reason. If you are new, you are trashed. If you speak out against the bullies, you are trashed. If you put anyone in the chatroom on ignore, you are trashed. If you speak of fun, creative, positive and enlightening things, you are trashed. I hope this site goes away with all of the idiots with it. Only problem, they live online all the time, so they will follow each other to another place and ruin it. The chatters got expelled from American Singles (which use to have a free chatroom until those idiots ruined it). If you want to witness a bunch of over-the-hill jerks and porkers with no apparent life outside of their virtual world and friends, then take a peek. But do not give them one cent! Maybe have fun with the real jerks and fight back, write fake blogs and troll the forums picking on the most vocal. Payback is a bitch. I gave this one star because that was the lowest it goes. If it went negative 100 stars, I would have picked that.

SingleParentMeet.com

Jenny — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 06:58 +0000

I would not recommend any one who is looking for a serious relationship to go to this site. Two reasons: To join, the webpage I went to stated that a special monthly fee as of 3/26/09 is $14.95 but after I entered my pay information, the fee turned into $18.90 and the transaction was complete already. No way for you to change. The other reason is that it appears many spies are there sending you fake messages. I feel like it's a spam site.

Colombian Cupid

Miguel — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 12:32 +0000

Una consulta. Desdeo saber como manejan Ustedes el tramite de el ingreso a cupido, y sobre los contactos. Una mujer de Europa, me contactó, y ahora estamos en conversaciones electronicas, por eso deseo saber como han sido los logros de las personas que han solicitado el servicio. Deseo me informen como hacer, como hacer para aplacar la incertidumbre de ella que viene de otro pais de europa, con otr5as costumbres Cuales son las caracteristicas que ha percibidos Uds de las mujeres de EU, de España y Rusia... Mil gracias. Miguel

Person.com

Chana — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 03:51 +0000

I found this site very useful and made many friends here to whom I miss always because there is a problem. I myself am having nothing but problems with logging in and using Person.com! I have been having these problems now for the last couple of weeks. It was fine before that. This is most annoying and it is about time that this site was put right as I like to use it regularly.

Person.com

Rocky — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 10:17 +0000

Person.com was a very reliable site, for those users who are addicted with it. They can get acquainted with new friends, colleagues, and reliable people. I have made many of my friends through this socio economical site but it's now not opening. If these problems are not rectified soon, then this site will bear a great loss of their users.

SinglesNet.com

Xristal — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 05:22 +0000

I have a friend who suggested that I go to this site. So I am curious to give it a try. If I can, maybe I find my true love and my lifetime partner to be.

Rejected by the In laws

Jon — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 06:24 +0000

This is an extremely tricky one. Children are loyal to their parents, but at the same time they chose you! If you know that your in-law has been trying to talk your spouse into divorce, then you need to have a serious talk with your partner.

Person.com

Marion — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 11:44 +0000

This site is more offline then online. Pity though!

Youand.me

Monique — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 11:52 +0000

Youand.me is the most personalized and safest site. It’s a really nice online dating site. Just hope they provide the same personalized service as they grow and they will. This is just what singles looking for partners want in a site with all these features and totally free. I really like the "rate-a-date" feature and the video chat and IM.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com

Ladyrose2009 — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 01:02 +0000

I really like this dating service, they don't try to match a tall lady with a short man (5'8"), which is wrong. Have some common sense and match people in height also. I'm tall and would never date a man under 6'2" because I am big, beautiful and statuesque.

eHarmony

Kimberly — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 10:27 +0000

I've had no problems with eHarmony.

AshleyMadison.com

Kevin Johnson — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 08:09 +0000

Poor site. Customer emails are not responded to. Chats paid for in advanced are 'timed out (technical difficulties) as soon as they are started but you are still charged for the 30 minutes to an hour you already paid for. Collect messages are sent asking you to chat, but after you pay for the message, noone responds to when they are online. In fact no one responds to any collect message they send. You pay for the messages for someone who says they are interested and after the payment, nothing more is heard. Promises to be a good site but there is nothing there.

SugarDaddie.com

Claire — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 11:16 +0000

I have been on this site, for thirteen months and it has been the best site yet. The support is great. This site has taught me how to go on any dating website. I would like to meet a sugar daddy, is the title of my profile, my username is shandel. Honest loving, with family inner values. Thanks the person who started this site. Someday soon I hope I will meet my match through this site, and then if things work out you can come to my Wedding. I do believe that being honest and determined, I will have success on this and it should give me a few months free, thanks sincerely Claire.

Mingle2.com

Olivia — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 07:54 +0000

I think Mingle2 is a wonderful website that anyone would enjoy being in.

PerfectMatch.com

Christine — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 06:04 +0000

This site is terrible! The 'perfect matches' they send through to me do not, in any way, reflect the profile I spent much time filling out in the beginning. I hardly ever receive new matches and they are always much older than I requested or much further away than requested. I have participated in match.com, yahoo, eHarmony and plenty of fish over the years. I have to say hands down Plenty of Fish has the best options and is good because it is completely free. Plenty of Fish is the best dating site I have been on.

Plenty Of Fish

David — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 03:36 +0000

I have been on this site, for some time. I have had no problems, other than when there are more people on at one time, than the system seems to be able to handle. I know there are good women on this site, but for me, chemistry is a must. BMTG1945

Plenty Of Fish

Josh — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 02:30 +0000

I really liked the site but it won’t let me log on to the web site now. I don’t know what the problem could be. It has never happened before. Today was the first time; I can’t even get on to reply to someone that I thought was special. What a drag. I hope they get it back running soon.

Plenty Of Fish

Sweetjane53 — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 02:12 +0000

I am wondering what happened to the site Plentyoffish? I had an email saying that I had mail on there and when I clicked on the link and then typed in my pass code, it took me completely out of plenty of fish and now it will not come up and says webpage cannot be found. Is the site deleted or is it having problems or what is going on? I had someone I was interested in and he was interested in me, but now we cannot make a connection and I really would like to find him...

Plenty Of Fish

Karen — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 10:16 +0000

I just got done reviewing all the comments and I see there is a problem with getting booted off, and apparently these people feel there is no reason behind this. It kind of frightens me. I love the website. I have only been a member on the site for approximately 3 weeks, and I found that the men are just like they are in real life, but that is so on any website. I think we should be able to contact someone about the people doing others wrong on POF and that those people should be booted off. People come to internet dating to get away from childish degrading behavior and they are ruining great websites such as Plentyoffish. Please get those people off so we can have fun and feel good about ourselves. People should be thankful that there are websites such as this that can accommodate people for free.

CuteOnly.com

Robert — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 03:11 +0000

Great, inexpensive online dating service to meet Russian women. All Russian girls are real! Contact as many Russian brides as you want. There are no limits! Feel free to exchange any contacts!

eHarmony

Laura — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 01:12 +0000

I am a good-looking, fit woman of 52. I have been using eHarmony for 2 weeks. I get at least 10 matches a day, and half are good matches, but: the guys don't contact me, and if I try to contact them with an "Icebreaker" or "Questions", they block or ignore me. I have even rewritten my profile to sound more welcoming, and have good pictures. What is happening?

AfroIntroductions.com

Wyatt — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 10:44 +0000

Be very careful when chatting with people from this website. Many of them are scammers looking to swindle inncoent people out of their hard earned money. In particular, the countries of Nigeria, Ghana, Cote D'Ivorie, and Senegal. Read and look at the ads very carefuly and their photographs. Some of them don't match. There had been problems with people who were scammed or being scammed by some people online. Please beware and be watchful of these crooks and thieves!

Yahoo Personals

Ven — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 10:19 +0000

Yahoo Personals though popular is very unproductive. Even though there are lots of members on the site, they are all not active or just don't use it any more. High number of members would give you the impression that it is a good service. In fact, high number of members is actually bad in this case. Before you signup and pay for the service be warned that: -Yahoo cancellation is a fraud -Yahoo steals your money by charging even after cancelling -Yahoo makes it difficult to cancel Searching the internet you would find many pages users complaining about their service especially about their cancellation and fraudulent charges. Previously you could only cancel by calling billing. Now, you can cancel online but only after finding the page to cancel the service. Users who are not internet savvy, would give up just trying to cancel. If you are already charged, dealing with their billing care is a hassle. They sound polite at first. But are very rude. They intentionally have a phone system that makes it difficult to hear even after asking them to raise the volume. Contacting Yahoo corporate is also a hassle. Yahoo! which was so popular with many has lost market share and now bogged down by low employee morale. You can sense it by just talking to anyone in the company. Try reaching their corporate office, the lack of standards is even evident from the way the operator talks to you. So, if you don't want to waste your time and money tread carefully. If you really want to check it out for yourself, take a test drive. You would more likely to come to the same conclusion as me.

YouCanGetMe.com

P Scholefield — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 01:51 +0000

Warning, do not become a member of this dating company as they rip you off. I joined for one month only and I paid a fee of £19.99 then the next month they had taken another payment without my consent. I asked them to return the payment and they have just ignored me. Now I have had to get the credit card company to investigate them for fraud. Please be warned, would not like this to be done to another person.

BookOfMatches.com

Karen Graves — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 06:35 +0000

I'm a member of boM and absolute adore the site! I have met many personalities and wonderful people that truly have become great friends. I am seeking more than friendship, but I feel that with this website, it’s a true possibility. Nothing but wonderful comments about Bookofmatches! Thegenuinegem ~ Member of boM.

Person.com

Emily — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 02:58 +0000

When using person.com, I keep loosing my internet connection. When I go into messages, it also comes up at times that my account has been suspended.

Bharatmatrimony.com

Raj — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 11:05 +0000

They are extremely unprofessional and unscrupulous. Before joining the website, they had a watch which they were offering as a promotion. They promised us that the watch would be delivered to our home within a week of us making our payment. However the watch never got to us. We called to remind that after about a month. They promised that it would be taken care of and apologized. Yet again, no watch was delivered. We called again to remind them; however, to no avail. It’s been 6 months now, and they still have not delivered the watch. When they realized that our membership was expiring in a few days, they called us to renew it. When we mentioned about the watch, they said that if we renew our membership, they would send someone home with the watch at the time of renewal! It is nothing short of blackmail and extremely cheap and unethical on the part of Bharatmatrimony.com. For us, it is absolutely not the question of a simple watch - it’s the question of unethical and unscrupulous practices on the part of Bharatmatrimony.com. Their customer service is horrible as well. If you require something, in regards to questions about your profile, membership, etc. (once you have already paid, that is), they are absolutely not responsive and ignore any help you may need. However they are extra sweet and polite at the time of taking membership - that is, before you have paid your money. I would strongly recommend other matrimonial websites over these guys. Stay away...it’s almost like a bad omen to go with Bhartmatrimony.com. It’s definitely not worth it.

PARSHIP

Amy — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 12:27 +0000

I agree with Pauline, Parship.co.uk is one of the worst sites around (along with eHarmony apparently). I'm currently a member with Parship, signed up for 3-months because it looked and sounded good. Bravo on their marketing team, who use media, i.e. trusted newspapers, TV advertising etc to market their company. It’s been about 2 weeks now and so far haven't had any new recommended matches than the ones displayed for me when I first joined. And the blurry pictures stay blurry until the other user decides to release it for your viewing, really doesn't help, as you can't see who you're talking to. I'm basically wasting my £57 for a 3-month membership. What’s worse is that I checked my bank statement and I’ve been charged twice for the subscription. I had started to use my credit card to pay but then realised they had this thing called "One click" I think it’s called, which is a faster way to pay really, after keying in my info, it took me back to the same page as the credit card. Thinking I had to go onto that page to get to the completed payment stage, I clicked to register. I thought it odd that I got 2 emails one from one click and another from Parship... then I checked my bank account and yup, I've been charged twice. They're only form of contact is via e-mail form and I have yet to hear from them regarding my partial refund for not giving me the service that's suppose to be there, and refunding the extra charge they took out. Beware of this site! My tip would be to do a bit of research and digging before joining any dating site, and be sure to take note of what other members of the site have said and not the marketing people giving glowing reviews.

Catholic Match

Evelyn — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 05:18 +0000

It cost $75 for the first 6 months to join. It is only free to sign up, but to respond and send messages you have to pay. I joined, paid, and was very dissatisfied, partly because there were not a lot of members in my area, and I realize that is not CMs fault. The forum area, which is stressed as a way to meet people, is extremely clique-ish, and as a new person it was hard to join in on thread topics. There is a high female to male ratio, and most of the guys I was matched with were older gentlemen, and that’s Ok, but I had a 58-year-old man tell me he only wanted a virgin. I found out, in the forums, some of the people are married and/or in relationship, but still hang around to post in the forums, and I thought that was weird. Forum topics are good, ranging from religion to more personal things. Air in the forums is extremely conservative, and other opinions are not welcome. So if you didn’t vote for McCain, you’re in for a real treat. I’m not planning to renew my membership.

SinglesNet.com

Athena Mae — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 01:56 +0000

Singlesnet.com is good. I want to find the right guy in this net.

SugarDaddie.com

Nichole — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 12:03 +0000

I absolutely love this website...I joined about 2 weeks ago and I’ve met lots of great guys. I love to be spoiled and taken care of and these guys want to do it. But I have found one guy who blows me away and not just because he’s a millionaire but because he’s just amazing in every way! Hopefully it goes well... we'll see!

Mingle2.com

Jennifer — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 02:45 +0000

I am a 36 year old female member that was recently permanently banned from the Mingle2 website. This was done without warning, explanation or further notice. The only reason that I am aware of is that I predominantly posted in the "General Religion" forum and has been accused of "Christian bashing". If possible I would like to launch a complaint for discrimination based on my religious views. I wish this were possible but probably there is nothing I can do.

SugarDaddie.com

RK — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 10:55 +0000

A large number of women never return after registering and posting their photos. And then there are those who never open their emails. I would say only 1 out of 12 of the emails I've sent out ever get read.

SugarDaddyMeet.com

Sophie — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 10:30 +0000

I'm looking forward to an entertaining and fun time.

SinglesNet.com

Jo Ann — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 12:09 +0000

I just found and started using SinglesNet.com this week 2/9/09. I have already met a really nice man and we are going to meet next Monday evening. I am on several other dating sites, and have not received as many responses from interested parties in months, as I have on SinglesNet in a week. So far I think it is a fantastic site! I think everyone should give it a try. Good Luck to all of you in your search!

Plenty Of Fish

Countrychicklet — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 09:47 +0000

Good site no gimmicies!

Muslima.com

Osman — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 11:24 +0000

Very good.

Muslima.com

Ahmedaahh — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 02:16 +0000

Good site. Ask help from Allah.

Be2.net

Valentino — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 01:03 +0000

I think this site has a huge potential. It's not only for members from Eastern Europe. it has members from all over the World. Better search would be a plus. Quality is great, improvement on design might be beneficial. Looking forward to see where they go in the future.

AllSinglesMeet.com

Millicent — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 05:22 +0000

I have been on Allsinglesmeet.com for about 2 months. I have met one guy and chatted with quite a few. I have never seen a dating site with so many features. I don't pay for dating sites and love the fact that this site is free. Very nice quality site. The only one that compares is Plenty of Fish.

Person.com

Aidan — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 01:08 +0000

I have been using Person.com for a while now and have rarely had trouble, but since my computer was updated the other day I can’t get into the IMS window to view my messages etc. If anyone knows if there’s a way to fix it, let me know. Thanks.

AshleyMadison.com

Disgusted — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 06:30 +0000

Isn't the world screwed up enough without having help from a disgraceful "dating site" in which people can look forward to having affairs. This is a disgrace to the true meaning of marriage and love between two people.

Long-distance relationships

Bella — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 04:30 +0000

I completely agree with this article. I have not only been in one, but two long-distance relationships. You would think I would have learnt my lesson the first time around. The first one lasted for 2 years and was the hardest and the most expensive thing I had to do. Eventually I called it quits because I needed someone closer to me. The second time around it wasn’t worth it. I will never do it again! It’s a waste of time unless you are trying to move, or if he is trying to move. But it was a Good article.

Hook Up

Tim — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 01:28 +0000

Reaches 11,000 members per month. Monthly fee $29.00. Completely fake site. Use of large data base (sometimes years old) for photos and profiles. Sends members fake emails from other "supposed" members. The only thing that is real is the pornographic pictures which are sold and cybersex for credit card numbers. Do not consider this site or let a friend consider it!

eHarmony

Veronica Adams — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 11:30 +0000

My limited experience with e-harmony was off-putting. I'm a hot, youthful late 40's woman, but they kept sending my profiles to "old" guys in their 60's, because they insisted it "works out better statistically." It didn't matter what I wanted; a still hot guy my age or slightly younger. Actually, statistically, older woman/younger man pairings work well. But my guess is that the company wanted to cater to their pool of older men, who want younger women. And the initial cyber meeting question menu we could select from to ask one another were very limited and trite. Nothing in them I would want to know about someone right off the bat. Since then, I've heard some other negative things about the limited boxes they put people in, or reject them by.

eChemistry.com

Veronica Adams — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 11:20 +0000

I'm amazed at how bad their customer service is. It's as if they have a staff of three. I put up a profile, but had some specific questions before I paid them. The best rate requires six months pre-pay. So, I wanted to know their cancellation policy if I'm not happy with the match quality, along with a couple of other things I wanted to know. I've gotten several "auto-replies" that said if my question hasn't been answered, to respond to the message. I have, each time. Or, that someone will call me, and what's the best number. That was over a week ago. And now, they say that if I'm not getting the answers I need, to call their 800 number. I've gotten messages of interest from a few men, but I can't even get a reply from echemistry about hiding my profile until when/if I pay them - so these guys may think I'm blowing them off. And if that's how they treat a serious prospect - it doesn't look very promising to me as far as the rest of their service.

SugarDaddie.com

Sisi — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 04:38 +0000

Well am new to this online dating, so I did't really know much about dating sites and I will like to know more about it.

SinglesNet.com

Rebie Lopez — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 01:18 +0000

I'm interested in this site, many of my friends recommended it to me and it caught my curiousity.

SinglesNet.com

Greg Alan — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 05:25 +0000

While the number of profiles and the usually quick response to profile updates and the posting of pictures is great, access to their site is more often than not a nightmare. Its either not accessible and returns as under maintenance or their server fails to recognize your password, in either instance you may as well just quit for the day, because nothing will get you in, and that may go on for days at a time. When the forgotten password option was used, I have never received a response back, yet the next day my old one worked again, as though it hadn't happened.

LatinAmericanCupid.com

George m. w.g — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 12:48 +0000

Very nice place to navigate.

Person.com

Rene — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 07:59 +0000

My favorite site now.

PARSHIP

Pauline — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 05:12 +0000

I would not recommend Parship. I initially found the site difficult to navigate, so wrote asking for help three times, there was no response, this was within the eight day cooling-off period. As I was unable to contact any members on the site, I decided to apply for a refund. There's no easy explanation on how to get a refund if you wish to cancel your subscription before eight days, even though I wrote asking them how to do this, again no reply, so I forfeited my £20 subscription for no service whatsoever. A waste of money. The only transaction that was speedy was them taking my money out.

Millionaire Match

Kayeth — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 11:42 +0000

I'm searching for a guy who will love me.

MegaFriends.com

Marcus — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 10:50 +0000

Really nice and friendly site with a good user interface and nice people.

Cherry Blossoms

Felipa — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 12:32 +0000

Nice to to have dating men in cherry blossom.

Plenty Of Fish

Ann — Sat, 31 Jan 2009 03:32 +0000

I joined this site tentatively a few months ago. However I gave it my best shot, and I was on approximately 115 members' favourites before I was deleted, cut off, blocked etc. In fact I probably made a few bob for these Plentyoffish guys! I seem to have been deleted or something else mysterious. I say mysterious because no matter how much I try to contact customer care, I seem to be e-mailing outer space… I would at this stage discourage anybody from joining this site. It may be 'free' but I'd prefer to pay and have a dependable service. Having to write this comment has made me feel a little pathetic, which I thought these online dating sites where attempting to diminish.

Millionaire Match

Jane — Sat, 31 Jan 2009 07:58 +0000

I would like to join millionaire.com.

Qiran.com

Arabman — Fri, 30 Jan 2009 08:41 +0000

Good quality site, lots of members and easy to search. I have met many nice people on the site and I am happy with my membership.

Indian FriendFinder

Chris Bradley — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 02:56 +0000

I am a professional who is financially, physically, and spiritually stable. I am seeking a beautiful (inside and out) indian woman who may be interested in a long term relationship and marriage.

PinkCupid.com

Augustina Coleman — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 04:09 +0000

Hei, I will like to meet a cute sexy girl for a lovely friendship.

FilipinaHeart.com

Mel_naga — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 12:36 +0000

Filipina heart com. As a member of your popular site I'm very thankful. I hope I can also meet the right man.. More power.

NudistFriends.com

Steve W — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 08:30 +0000

Having looked at a few sites, this one is the only real option for those seeking likeminded souls. Not only does it have a fairly large membership, but useful features that Match.com doesn't even have.

SugarDaddie.com

Sexycelma — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 07:28 +0000

I am a lonely young good looking brazilian girl yet to be exploited. Interested daddy should come get me before others do.

Plenty Of Fish

Jean — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 02:32 +0000

I have the same problem with Plentyoffish. Have to keep re-registering only to find I'm booted off within minutes. Totally frustrating. I emailed POF several times about this but I never get a reply.

SinglesofFaith.com

Christah — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 01:28 +0000

l like shairing the word of god with ny fellow believers, and l would wish to change those who are non religious to join the religion.

PrimeSingles.net

Amazin1980 — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 09:19 +0000

This is great.

MerryLife.eu

Alfred — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 12:57 +0000

Nice site.

Senior Friend Finder

Patricia Holt — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 05:14 +0000

Hoping this helps me to meet some new friends.

Match Doctor

Lady — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 07:52 +0000

I was a gold member of this site for a year... All I ever received from this site was watching a group that the moderators favored and inner-acted with, beat and terrorize everyone that got in their way or they did not like. If you wish to join this site, please don't talk up for yourself or you will get deleted. The forums are a place that you do not want to enter. For those that like to blog, be careful of what you say or you will get the worse bashing that you have ever had... Until the owners change things it is not a good place to be.

Match Doctor

Cathy — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 07:32 +0000

I was on this site from when it started. When they introduced blogging it seemed to be a good idea but after time many of these people formed a clique and if you stood up for yourself the Mods took the side of the harassers. I was also a gold member which means I paid for the site. I am no longer a member and I do not go there anymore but I've heard it has only gotten worse and the membership is so bad that the clique is writing good reviews to try and boost it. I personally hope it continues to operate as the malcontents running it will be looking for a place to continue their harassment. So if you like being a follower and being censored for your honest opinion, are a bit depressed and have to air it daily, I'm sure you will enjoy the abuse. There is plenty of it. And most of the rest of the members are scammers. It is a scammer’s paradise. Have fun!

Match Doctor

Jane — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 10:27 +0000

Stay away... Be afraid! Cliquishness, fighting, nastiness and did I mention these people are married or in a relationship, but want to ruin it for us single people. There are blogs and comments targeting other people. If you have a weight problem, don’t even try it… they are just mean. Attention seeking adult children.

WomanSavers.com

Concerned2 — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 09:38 +0000

Womansavers.com is extremely pathetic. There's a person on there named Alan Sides, aka Alan G. Sides, aka Alan Gregory Sides, from Houlton, ME, Caribou, ME, Trenton, MI, Willard, OH, and anywhere else anyone will let him live, who has made up 3 profiles on a MAN, mind you, a MAN. By the way, Alan Sides is also a drug-addicted felon. Alan Sides is pissed off because this man's mother won't date him, and he's slandering this man, his mother and their entire family on Womansavers. They’ve been contacted and have chosen to do nothing about all these lies. It's really pathetic that this site is allowing such sick lies and pathetic behavior. Womansavers is indulging in and spreading hate. It's really sad that Stephaney Alexander, creator of this site must be a very miserable and sick person to have sat around and thought of doing such. These men have children who are reading horrible things about their fathers that most likely, many are untrue, just that of a scorned mate. It appears to me that she falls into that category of Narcissistic Personality Disorder to be thinking she's doing this country any justice by her sick website.

Qiran.com

Mperson — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 08:10 +0000

Good site, my brother found his wife on Qiran, they got married in 2008 and are now expecting a child in Sept 2009. alhamdulillah!

Plenty Of Fish

Aida Rosado — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 05:18 +0000

At first I thought this was finally the best ever... but then I started to get these ugly, disgusting kinds of people emailing me, and I thought this cannot be - I mean you all can see my photo. I know I’m not the best, but I'm also not the worst person in the world looks wise anyway. The men that would try to get me to go out, I’m sorry but I could not see myself with. They were either way too young or way, way too old for me. I not only look my age, but I also do not feel my age. So I have not yet found anyone that I would consider meeting yet. So you have to look really good at a profile and photos before you contact anyone. Thank you. Besides that I love this site.

eHarmony

John Wolfe — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 05:10 +0000

This site has judged me unfit to take part in the matching services it offers. I followed their test, and completed all the questions, and was told they cannot (will not) help me. The test is more like a psych exam than questions for dating. Complete waste of time.

Dating BBW UK

Moh — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 01:01 +0000

Good amazing website that may enable me to find my bbw.

Person.com

Nikka — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 05:13 +0000

I like person.com because I meet a lot of friendly people. More power!

DiscreetAdventures.com

MisterJones — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 07:42 +0000

Looking for white, asian, hispanic women in my area for a discrete affair.

Meetic.de

Robert — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 06:51 +0000

I have a membership with Meetic Germany that I want to cancel. I was just charged Euro 16.65 I suppose for a year membership. I received no emails saying that Meetic was going to bill me. I want to cancel the membership immediately. Any help you can provide here would be appreciated. Again, I want no membership, please cancel immediately!

Mate1

Elvy — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 06:50 +0000

Looking forward to it.

Match Doctor

HappyMDer — Mon, 19 Jan 2009 02:35 +0000

MatchDoctor is a wonderful, free site. Emails (100 per day), searches, blogs, chat, forums...all 100% free! I have found my match, but continue to frequent the forums and blogs sections because of all the wonderful friends I've made at the site. As with any online community, there are a few bad apples, but they are easily avoided. The moderation of the site is incredibly fair-handed, with no favouritism to speak of. I love MD and the wonderful community there!

FilipinaHeart.com

Annehaze — Mon, 19 Jan 2009 06:06 +0000

Just trying to have new friends on this site... I hope you welcome me here guys.

AshleyMadison.com

Pete Messina — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 02:59 +0000

Worth a try.

AshleyMadison.com

Irey — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 05:28 +0000

Looking to have discreet relationship.

SinglesNet.com

Kay — Sat, 17 Jan 2009 11:29 +0000

I am trying to become a member because all of my friends are.

Match Doctor

Canny — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 06:28 +0000

I would not recommend this site to anyone. It’s been taken over by a choice few who make it unbearable for the ones they don't like or want there. The mods are friends of theirs and continue to let them get away with it. I was a Gold member, but had to leave because of all the harassment towards me. They have lost more than half their members because of this. When I was first there they had over 1400 members and it is now down to even less than half that. That should tell you something about this site.

Plenty Of Fish

rexx1974 — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 04:34 +0000

The only real 100% free site I know. And it`s actually better than several pay sites :)

AshleyMadison.com

Stella — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 08:32 +0000

Good site for women, this site was recommended to me by a friend and I wasn’t sure at first but after signing up I found it pretty good fun. Ashley Madison is tastefully done, profiles are decent with nothing too shocking, unlike some other sites of this kind where guys just after one thing only, and who think displaying all in their profile is going to turn some woman on! It’s easy to sign up and use and best of all as a woman you can more or less use the site for free, because you can ask the other person to pay for messaging. I had a lot of responses to my profile (which wasn’t’ even that great to be honest, because I didn’t post photos). I met some very interesting men here.

IndonesianCupid.com

Aisyah — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 07:44 +0000

Good, I made a lot of friends. More interactive for the mission to have a relationship.

MerryLife.eu

Jaan — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 05:34 +0000

Very good site.... All free.

SugarDaddie.com

Eric — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 03:26 +0000

The thing that makes this site useless for me is that it can't narrow a search to an area less than a whole state. I live in California with is about 700 miles by 200 miles, containing nearly 34 million people, most of whom live in the vast Los Angeles, San Diego, San Francisco, San Jose and Sacramento areas, where I don't. So, the vast majority of my "matches" live hundreds of miles away, with no way to determine locality without sending all of them an email asking them where they're located. Don't waste your money unless you live in Rhode Island.

Muslima.com

Mohammed — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 12:50 +0000

I would like to communicate with females that are lonely and sad. Age is not a problem. Friendship is strength.

AshleyMadison.com

John Mazzitelli — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 09:30 +0000

I'm willing to try this as a method to meet new women.

Person.com

Baloch — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 04:49 +0000

I found this site very useful and made many friends here to whom I miss always becuase I cannot log on to the site. My computer will not access it? Do not know why.

SinglesNet.com

rexrudi — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 10:57 +0000

Singlesnet.com is a well known scam. Do an internet search on the matter. They tap your bank account no matter what you do if you are stupid enough to give them your credit card number. It doesn`t help to cancel your account. They have lots and lots of fake female profiles and some fake male to. They use dirty methods, like sending fake flirts, and messengers to members to attract more customers to pay for full membership. Don`t take my word for this, do an internet search...

AshleyMadison.com

Kumar — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 06:18 +0000

Simply superb.

SinglesNet.com

rexx1974 — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 02:34 +0000

Warning singlesnet.com is a scam, they send false e-mails, flirts and similar things in YOUR name to random people to make them join this site. They have also been known to tap your bank account for money. Google it...

HornyMatches.com

David Stott — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 09:17 +0000

Keep your money this site is totally rubbish, just like the last review I thought I was the only user of this site.

Does she see me as a friend or lover?

Fred — Wed, 31 Dec 2008 09:57 +0000

nice comment

WildMatch.com

Ogonna Nwabuobi — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 06:03 +0000

I am a 25 year old girl from Nigeria and would like to meet a man from any part of the world.

Plenty Of Fish

Anastasiatg — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 01:04 +0000

Hello to all, it has been interesting to read the comments here. Same thing happened to me as well. I had a bit of trouble with Markus at first, I think because I advertise as a tranny, but after my first two deletions (more than a year ago) he left me alone. Then... poof.... deleted again a few days ago for no reason. He claims he is no longer involved in "customer service", must have hired someone of the same calibre. There's probably no point in wasting time trying to get back on POF, there are other places to go. However, for those who are into using the Personals, Kijiji is another one to watch out for. I can no longer place an ad on the site, despite the fact that I carefully crafted my ads to stay within their rules. And I just wish I could meet the Kijiji police face to face and have them explain why I am banned and yet there are many advertisers who are WAY outside their so called rules. Someone here said earlier, and quite accurately, that it's very easy to hide behind an email address. Take care all.

SugarDaddie.com

Shirl — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 09:44 +0000

I registered on the site 3 separate times and never received the email that confirms so I can get on the site. It says it has sent me an email to my email box to confirm registering. And I cannot find any email, phone no. or anything to find out why it's not sending me the email. I checked my web mail to see if it went into junk, but nothing appeared. Does anyone know a phone number or email to find out why I'm not receiving the email?

FreeDating.co.uk

Kelvin Carol — Sun, 14 Dec 2008 09:58 +0000

Your posting is very nice. Truedate4u.com is also a free dating site for singles living in the United Kingdom. It’s a free and easy to join UK dating services, just register post your profile and start interacting with other members. This dating service is exclusively for the United Kingdom. Joining takes about thirty seconds and is absolutely 100% free of any charge. Once you sign on, you take a couple of minutes to create a personal profile to let all those other hot UK singles out there know what you’re all about, and then you’re free to begin browsing and contacting anyone that might catch your eye. Sign up for free today and get to stepping; you won’t regret it one bit.

Yahoo Personals

John — Sat, 13 Dec 2008 03:55 +0000

It’s worthless you can’t communicate beyond stupid "smiley" type messages or one-liners that don’t say anything. Most of the profiles you’ll see are other free members whom you can’t say anything of substance unless they pony up and give Yahoo money. You’re better off on a real free site or trying some dating forums for cripes sake. I’m sure some of the profiles on there are Yahoo made to promote their site. Several members were on the site for almost a year or so and somehow had not met anyone, and yeah I buy that.

HornyMatches.com

W.V. — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 11:05 +0000

The reviewer who mentioned the wink-and-hook tactic hit the nail on the head. Shortly after creating a Standard Account, I received a wink from an attractive girl. But, of course, you can't communicate with any of the paying members until you shell out some cash, too. I figured it'd be worth $30 to give it a shot. A couple weeks later, I'm wishing I'd saved that money for flushing down the toilet, because that would have been more interactive than this site. Maybe I'm just not familiar with the way online hook-up sites work, but I thought the members here would at least be somewhat talkative; yet nobody says anything. No winks exchanged after signing either. I'm not saying it's a total scam, because I assume there must be *some* women who sign up, but I'm very skeptical about the huge member database that Horny Matches boasts. Miraculously, hundreds of thousands of women in my state are supposedly "currently online" or were online "today," but none of them will write back or even "wink." If you don't mind shelling out $30, give it a shot. But you're definitely rolling the dice on this one.

Meetic.es

anton — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 01:01 +0000

Can anyone with a paid membership please flag up my profile as junk or fake? That’s the only way I can seem to get it removed quickly as they don’t respond and just send out automated generic replies. There is NO LINK on the Spanish version of the site to remove your profile just sends you repeatedly back to page to join full membership my photo has been removed but I want the profile off there. Thanks for anyone who can do this the name is “mestizoman” on Meetic.es.

Meetic.com

anton — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 10:22 +0000

I did not actually join the paid membership so never met anyone but got lots of hopeless emails from people they thought I would be interested in - which I usually deleted. I joined as I thought I was going to spend some time living in Europe, and joined the Spanish site in 2006 (but never signed up for a paid subscription and forgot all about it). I cannot find a link to remove the profile and my photo which I want off there immediately. I think I will try writing to the head office as emails don’t seem to work. Frustrating.

Plenty Of Fish

Kristal_Rose — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 06:22 +0000

I just had the same repeat deleted experience at plentyoffish, with a profile which said digendered up front. I've been thinking to build a better dating / activist networking / forum site anyhow, and now I'm thinking to do so just to take Markus down.

Meetic.com

Eugene Lee — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 12:15 +0000

I am very disappointed that the automatic renewal kicked in even before the expiration date of my Meetic pass. This is ridiculous! I sent emails to meetic@meetic.com but there was no reply. I am going to post my complaints in my profile. From Singapore

Plenty Of Fish

D.A — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 12:12 +0000

My profile was deleted for no reason, tried to set up a new profile but that was gone within few hours as well. I have never been rude to anybody and had normal pictures.

Plenty Of Fish

Jen — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 12:08 +0000

I no longer exist on POF either! I did nothing wrong, tried to recreate 5 or 6 times, got the confirmation, then "this email is not registered in our database". Well, maybe someone needs to tweak that program that keeps deleting us regular folks who did nothing wrong. I am bummed as I was having some really great connections which were all local and now they are wondering if I am living in an alternative universe! I am trying some paid sites and will try the above mentioned freebie as well. Why does it keep deleting some people and not others? I have friends who have been on for months..... Quite frustrating indeed!

Plenty Of Fish

Evan — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 01:52 +0000

I joined plentyoffish.com nearly 2 weeks ago and was doing fantastic with the ladies - it was amazing. Until I woke up a few mornings ago went to check my messages on POF and guess what? Gone, vanished deleted finished! I tried to re register and it accepts then after 2 min that’s deleted as well. This is really doing my head in. I’ve been told that maybe you can’t create more than 1 profile on the computer that I had originally registered with. So I went to an internet cafe registered and it was working. I was wrapped so happy. Then I got home and guess what? NOTHING again! I hope this pathetic human being loses his business.

Person.com

Dave — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 09:08 +0000

I love this site ..... but unfortunately can't get on.

Plenty Of Fish

Daisy J — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 02:06 +0000

That idiot Markus is under the impression that he is an expert on who is undateable. The only complaints he listens to are when other members have a disagreement with you. One member whose handle is womanfortouching emailed me first. She seemed interested but when I told her I was transgendered, she blocked me and and afterwards I was deleted. She ratted on me. Markus considers Transgendered people undateable. He doesn't reason, he just deletes. Will somebody tell womanfortouching that she had no reason to rat on me. I have tried many times to re register but I belive Markus has my IP address blocked or flagged as trouble. I swear, I never treated anybody rude or sent threatening emails .

Meetic.com

Patricia — Sat, 20 Sep 2008 01:01 +0000

Please ! How can I cancel my membership? Always try try try, but the website says "Oops! This username / account ID or password is incorrect!" BUT I'm there... waz up! My nickname in Meetic.com is Palimaco..... Please! I need help for that... help me to cancel my account.

Meetic.com

Lorraine — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 05:02 +0000

I put in a profile that they wouldn't let me cancel and tried to contact them repeatedly. They've cancelled my account. That seemed to work.

Meetic.com

Lorraine — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 07:46 +0000

Try filing a complaint at FTC Complaint Assistant.

Meetic.com

Lorraine — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 07:20 +0000

I'm having the same problem. Shouldn't there be a way to file a complaint to have the website shut down?

Plenty Of Fish

Brian — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 12:46 +0000

If everyone is tired of POF then why not try a new 100% free site called SpecialSome1.com. It is much better and much easier to use.

Plenty Of Fish

Katie Foxx — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 05:52 +0000

I agree with the majority. I joined over 3 years ago and never encountered any problems, then a few months ago I went to log in and I couldn't - my profile had inexplicably been deleted. I hadn't broken any of the 'rules' and had just come out of a serious relationship with someone (who I incidentally met on another much better 'paying' dating site). I tried to set up a new profile and was booted off again. The moderators are akin to nazis and as for the wonderful Markus - you STINK! Yeah we all believe that you run POF single-handedly. Single we maybe, but stupid we are not. This site is an insult to any decent, intelligent person and you folk who are smug saying ohhhhh what a wonderful site I've met a great guy/girl of there. Beware - you too can be booted off at any time for no reason whatsoever. Please steer clear of this site. After all you get what you pay for and I guess I shouldn't have expected much more from a free site.

Dating Direct

Caroline — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 06:42 +0000

Too late for me! Paid £60 and found out the next day I couldn't get on the site all day, same problem this morning. Fed up getting winks from profiles with no pics who live in Peru! etc..... Have emailed them but not hopeful of a response, but told them I have contacted Trading Standards, which I have. In case you don't have it, here is the address: This website is owned and operated by DatingDirect.com Limited Dating Direct (c) an English registered company (number 03850701). Their registered office is at: 27 OLD GLOUCESTER STREET, LONDON, WC1N 3XX. You can contact them at the following postal address: BCM DATING DIRECT, LONDON, W1CN 3XX. Thier VAT number is 747 4270 19.

Plenty Of Fish

Cece — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 12:06 +0000

I have had a great experience on plenty of fish. I met a wonderful guy on there, never thought I would have but I did. The only problem I had with this site is the messenger plane rarely works. Sometime its a miracle to talk to someone through that. But besides that it was worth it. I can say there are some decent men online.

SugarDaddie.com

Julie — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 10:41 +0000

Angela :
I cannot even get to register on the site. It says that it will send me an email and then nothing happens. Does anyone know why this is the case?

I believe this site only accepts people living in USA, Canada, Australia or United Kingdom. Could that be the problem maybe? Even if you manage to get your profile approved, their site isn't really set up for people living outside of those locations, that's why they usually reject them. Try sugardaddyforme.com since they allow anyone!

SugarDaddie.com

Angela — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 08:34 +0000

I cannot even get to register on the site. It says that it will send me an email and then nothing happens. Does anyone know why this is the case?

Meetic.com

Emma — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 09:27 +0000

Meetic is full of weirdoes who are very impolite. I just merely said to an English man that he was not courteous and had no education. I was banned from the site three days ago. I do not care for it was just not interesting.

Meetic.com

Ian — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 10:24 +0000

Quote: "These people need to be stopped. Like everyone else here, I looked on their site for a place to contact without success except for the email from a non-member, which they tell you, is not a priority! Guess I'll call my bank first thing in the morning." Unfortunately that isn't enough. My credit card company has just informed me that even if I cancel my card I will still be liable for any charges applied to it as a result of subscriptions I have entered into. Therefore it is my responsibility to ensure that any such subscriptions are cancelled. I have cancelled my subscription using the option on the site, but have little faith in that, so have also requested a written confirmation from them.

Meetic.com

Beth — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 02:18 +0000

Please could you tell me how to unsubscribe to meetic. I am not paying anything but have searched the site on how to unsubscribe and cant find anything. HELP I can't find an email address for them either.

Meetic.com

Steven — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 10:15 +0000

Yes, Me too. I can't cancel my membership nor even ask them why/when my photos will be posted. Who has successfully contacted them via email? Thanks in advance. Steven

Meetic.com

Robin — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 11:15 +0000

Today (24th Aug. 2008), I looked at my bank statement online and there are three charges from Meetic (8/21 - $39.99, 8/21 - $119.94, 8/22 - $39.99). I had never even heard of Meetic. I've never been a member of their site or authorized any payment to them for anything! They've obviously stolen my Visa Check Card number from somewhere and are posting bogus charges to my account. These people need to be stopped. Like everyone else here, I looked on their site for a place to contact without success except for the email from a non-member, which they tell you, is not a priority! Guess I'll call my bank first thing in the morning.

Plenty Of Fish

Sam — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 03:51 +0000

I will have to agree with Frank. I recently opened an account on plentyoffish. I was happy with a few of my matches and we were holding great conversations, so I already had a couple of candidates. I came to log in today only to find that my account was deleted. I never received an email as to why. I read the agreement and nothing on there indicates that I breached it. I tried to create the account again with another name and email to see what happens, I get the same result. It really sucks, I was having such a good time. Guess that's why there are paid sites.

SugarDaddie.com

Jessica — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 02:52 +0000

I would love to be the one being taken care of for once. And if that means getting a sugar daddy then so be it. I am just so sick of being taken for granted. I need some romance in my life. I want someone who would rather be with me, than always doing stuff for and with his friends.

Plenty Of Fish

Bob Parker — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 04:43 +0000

I've been on Plenty of Fish for a few months on and off, met a couple of people but I find if you are not a male super model or drop dead gorgeous, or making over $100,000 per year the girls don't want to look at you. Now for you girls, even you hot ones, your life span for being sexy and beautiful comes to an end after 40. For most of you, after you have kids, you never look that good!! So one thing more ladies, give the average Joe a chance for once.

Plenty Of Fish

Ann — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 11:21 +0000

I have to agree with all the above. What a nice time I had for 1 day. That was the use I had, so switched to another site (Christian). This one doesn't have nude pop-ups that are spelled so close to this one. Shame!

Meetic.com

Kel — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 02:54 +0000

Good news! I got a refund and cancelled my membership on Meetic. I have written to the head office and complained. At the same time I created a lot of bogus profiles on the site, and in the description area I pasted my complaint letter. Sometimes they check what you post and an automatic e-mail comes back saying my description was not accepted. But they don't always check, and I found my complaint letter was posted on to some of my bogus profiles. So anyway I checked my account and out from nowhere it happened. I was able to cancel my membership and demand a refund which I have now received. I suggest to anyone that you write a letter to the head office the address is: 27 Old Gloucester Street, London, WC1N 3XX If that does not work, try posting your complaint letter in the description of your profile. Staff usually check what is written before its posted. If they don't respond to your letter then keep opening different bogus accounts until they do. They don't want the bad publicity and as I say they don't always monitor changes to every profile. Good luck!

Plenty Of Fish

Frank — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 09:13 +0000

What kind of website screws their customers over? Do they not want more people using their webpage, and registering? I could not even register. Apparently after typing in about 15 variations of my name, including 14-character long 'jerhgvoiengine886' type user names, all of them were said to be taken. That's right! Every single user name I could think of was taken. Plentyoffish.com to me, is a disgrace. I must really apologise for my language. Plenty of fish? More like plenty of trash! I have never had the misfortune of encountering something so user-hating. It's almost like a holocaust for people trying to date online, with profiles being deleted, people not being able to register - and not even a courteous reply as to why such things have happened. I give this website a -10 out of 0.

Plenty Of Fish

Amanda — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 05:43 +0000

I had the same problem. I had my account open for three days and meet several great guys. Then my profile was deleted for no reason, no warning or anything. I did everything they said to fix the problem - created my profile again and again nothing happened. If this is their customer service it sucks. I won't be surprised if the company bombs soon. I thought it was great to have a free website until this happened. If anyone knows how to fix the problem, please help. I also sent several emails but had no response.

Plenty Of Fish

Plentyoffish — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 05:16 +0000

Woh, this free dating site is simple and makes tons of money. He is so smart in marketing.

Meetic.com

Vickie — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 08:54 +0000

I agree. I was reading the terms and conditions of meetic and when I tried to back out, the screen froze for a few seconds. Two days later, my bank account had been hit for a 6 month subscription. I don't even know how that can happen as I didn't provide any banking information at all. I was asked to verify the monetary path, which I did and now they have blocked my email and won't receive questions from me. I got hold of Marc Simoncini (owner of site) email address and have been blocked there also after I sent two communications to him. I am now faxing Marc each day and have also faxed to the Mayor of France in order to get someone to tell me who I can contact to get my money back. I am assuming I'll have to close my bank account and reopen a new one before they strike again at the end of six months. The best part is, when they first were responding to my email, they admitted they didn't even have me in their system. And yet when it was proven they had taken my money, they blocked me.

Meetic.com

Kel — Sat, 31 May 2008 05:04 +0000

I'm going through the same thing - I subscribed for one month and within a day, I was unable to get into my account. So I created a bogus account to see if my original subscribed account is still on the site. It's vanished! I input my profile name via the search options which allow you to search by name, but it does not exist. They have deleted my profile. I can't even contact them via the bogus profile - it just takes you to the upgrade page. Has anyone got a telephone number or contact details for Meetic please? I really don't want to be charged monthly for a service I have never used.

eChemistry.com

Dorothy Parish — Sat, 03 May 2008 02:18 +0000

I am trying to find out if the site has finally become live. I am an original member and was supposed to have 1-year free access. A friend of mine never received notification either.

SugarDaddie.com

George — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 11:33 +0000

I love this site - I put my profile up on sugardaddie.com, and within 1-week I'd received several contacts from some very beautiful women. This was totally different to my experience of other online dating sites, of which I tried several including yahoo where I was sending out emails to women on the site without getting a single reply. If you're a successful guy, and have the money then why waste your time on a regular site where you're just one among a million other guys?

Plenty Of Fish

Maria Cocozza — Fri, 25 Apr 2008 02:56 +0000

I had a profile on Plenty of Fish for many months, made many friends of whom I stayed in contact with. I logged on one Sunday afternoon and things were working fine, logged on again on a Monday evening, only to find my whole profile had been lost. I have been trying ever since to re-create my profile. I've done nothing wrong but still fail to create my profile again. I get as far a loading my Pictures, I do a search send some emails then hey presto its gone again. I've sent numerous emails to their customer services but not once had a reply. What's the point in having a customer services desk if you are not going to respond? This man who runs this website by himself will find himself out of a job before long if this continues and he does not respond to people who are having problems with the website. My overall description of plentyoffish.com is , I'm disgusted that someone can run a dating site this way, all people want to do is meet others and possibly romance, how can one do that if there are problems. This man who runs this site is a little harsh to say the least.

Dating Direct

Joethefool — Thu, 17 Apr 2008 03:07 +0000

I agree with everything that's been written on here. I was a subscriber for about 2 months and got totally annoyed with sending emails to someone that I thought lived within 50 miles, to find out that they lived 2,000 miles away! One person I emailed lived in London but her profile said Aberdeen, (she tried to change it but couldn't) emailed the site and got an automated email back about something completely different!.. Keep well clear from Dating Direct. Don't be put off by internet dating sites though. Just Google it before you subscribe, and see what people think. Hopefully it will save people from throwing their money and hearts away.

Dating Direct

Amanda — Thu, 17 Apr 2008 10:16 +0000

I've been unable to log on for past 2 days. Each time I'm told my ID/password is not recognised which is rubbish because they've sent me the same details I trying to log on with! Can someone tell me what is going on?

Dating Direct

Sails — Wed, 16 Apr 2008 11:26 +0000

Thanks you very much.........this unsubscribe link was gr8.. u are the champion... :) www.datingdirect.com/myaccount/myunsubscription.php

SugarDaddie.com

2Mighty — Wed, 02 Apr 2008 01:18 +0000

This site is running a major banner ad campaign on MySpace, but cannot even answer their customer service requests via email. How sad is that? My login is not working and they do not recognize my email, although I have the confirmation welcome email from them. I've attempted to contact them several times with no avail. I am a successful sugarbabe, looking for a younger stud to enjoy life with. (Not looking for an older rich fart with cash.)

Meetic.com

Sam — Tue, 01 Apr 2008 11:02 +0000

I have to say it is the same story here, they sent me an email with an offer of a trial for £1 - which turns into full membership during this period. After two days I realized the site was shockingly bad, however could I cancel? Ooh could I ever, it was impossible to cancel automatic renewal or to contact their team. The cancel automatic renewal option was conveniently removed. I am considering sending them a summons now to get a refund of the £45 that I didn't agree to pay for.

Dating Direct

Veryannoyed — Wed, 26 Mar 2008 04:23 +0000

I went to the link that Dickie said to delete my account on Datingdirect, but on that page I enter my username and password (which are obviously correct because I logged in to the site) it says they are incorrect. What do I do? Please help!

Meetic.com

Jeff — Wed, 26 Mar 2008 03:52 +0000

I wanted to delete the information in my personal ad, and MEETIC customer support either misconstrued my emails or something, I have no idea, but within 5 days of making a paid membership I have no access to my account, and no email is being sent to me to acknowledge this. I cannot access it and there is no link to customer support or email box to resolve this. This is unbelievable... that's it, I'm done, they got my money and give me no service, no resolution, no nothing. I never saw the scam in the beginning. Somebody tell me how you make contact please. This cannot be truly how it works.

Meetic.com

Rob S. — Sun, 23 Mar 2008 01:46 +0000

Meetic.com takes payment by PayPal as well now. Anyone can set up a PayPal account. It's pretty easy, and the advantage is that when you pay you don't release your credit card details to potentially unscrupulous sellers. Plus you can cancel the subscription at any time, unlike a credit card, which you usually have to cancel when this happens.

Dating Direct

Annored — Fri, 29 Feb 2008 06:18 +0000

Thanks Dickie! I have now deleted my account! Any one else looking to do so should scroll up and use the link from Dickie's comment. My message to anyone is also steer well clear of this site, for that matter ANY site that you have to pay a fee to but doesn't have a phone number to contact them on in case of problems. I had trouble paying and now realize that that was a blessing. My advice to anyone out there who was put off online dating; don't be - there are many reputable sites out there, you can find them no trouble and use this experience as a learning one. Also from the comments here there are many like minded people out there.

Meetic.com

Will — Wed, 13 Feb 2008 02:41 +0000

Meetic is definately among the worst - in the gutter. Meetic continues to employ unethical means in order to bilk unsuspecting 'members' out of vast sums of monthly 'membership' fees by applying their 'automatic renewal' feature to all who join - and then by providing NO MEANS by which to cancel. It's like checking into Hotel California - you can sign in any time you like, 'but you can never leave'. Attempts at online help receive only automated responses which direct the 'member' to either non-existant or non-funtional links to resolve the problem. Unless you want to resort to cancelling your credit cards to stop neverending 'automatic' renewals, join one of the numerous LEGITIMATE sites.

Meetic.com

Meetic member — Mon, 11 Feb 2008 09:15 +0000

DatingDirect.com, a UK dating site, was taken over by Meetic last year. Now it seems that since this has happened a lot of people cannot cancel their subscription anymore and there is no way to access a customer support line yet. Sounds familiar? Is Meetic really a bad dating site, or have they just not got their act together yet?

Dating Direct

Cheetah — Mon, 11 Feb 2008 01:04 +0000

In spite of not having paid for a subscription, and trying to delete my profile by entering my details, I get a message saying profile name and password have been entered incorrectly - a blatant lie. I'm relieved it's not just me...

Meetic.com

Will — Mon, 11 Feb 2008 04:38 +0000

Marc Simoncini is the greasy pimp running the site. It's a pure scam gauged only to screw you with no means to cancel membership - he hides behide the shady regs of different EU countries and no one controls the practices of such cyber-maggots in the EU - you may need to cancel your credit cards to stop this worm from sucking you dry...

Yahoo Personals

Murray — Fri, 08 Feb 2008 08:40 +0000

Yahoo Personals just stole $90 from my account and will not refund my money. Do not give them your credit card information, they will take advantage of it. The $90 was for a renewal of a 6 month subscription. I signed up 6 months ago. The site was not that good, I met someone on another site shortly after and eventually canceled all my other profiles. Now 6 months later I get a charge on my visa for another $90. I asked for refund and they say they will only refund if I contact them within 3 days of the billing. This is fraudulent as far as I am concerned.

Person.com

Gill — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 04:37 +0000

I have made a lot of friends on person.com but cannot seem to log on as it always says that the site is down due to modifications. Come on guys sort it out please.

Person.com

Karen — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 06:44 +0000

I myself am having nothing but problems with logging in and using Person.com! I have been having these problems now for the last couple of weeks. It was fine before that. This is most annoying and it is about time that this site was put right as I like to use it regularly.

SugarDaddie.com

Eddie — Wed, 30 Jan 2008 02:12 +0000

Sugar Daddy seems to be particularly aggressive in locating and removing inappropriate and bogus profiles. Although this does maintain the quality of their site, it does mean that genuine profiles are sometimes caught up in this. I found this out as well, as the first profile I put up was removed due to it not containing enough information. If your profile is already detailed enough, it could be that it contains something which might seem totally harmless but which is triggering alarm bells with their customer relations. Also, if you have registered 5 times (with the same email), it might be they've blocked you in which case it might be easier to try with another site.

Plenty Of Fish

Paula — Mon, 28 Jan 2008 08:19 +0000

After having a profile on plentyoffish.com for a couple of months, I was deleted as I was trying to answer mail. It deleted my profile for no reason and I can't get back in under a new profile. I checked all the rules. I broke none of them. I was talking to someone I liked, but don't have his last name or email. Emailed POF two days ago. No response. His business is gonna fail if he runs it like that. Doesn't matter how many hits he gets per day!

SugarDaddie.com

Natasha — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 05:13 +0000

I regret to say this, but my experience is negative. I have made 5 attempts to register on Sugar Daddie and on each occasion my profile was rejected under the pretext that I provided insufficient information about myself. The description I entered was very detailed and well balanced covering my background, interests, aspirations etc. I feel that I have been treated unfairly and shocked by the rudeness of customer relations team. I am going to complain about this site to DTI and E-commerce Regulating Authority.

Meetic.com

Jason — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 03:08 +0000

I am having a lot of problems contacting Meetic. I am also stuck in the same scenario in regards to canceling with them. Has anyone got a hold of Meetic?

Plenty Of Fish

Vincent Gold — Mon, 21 Jan 2008 01:17 +0000

There is a sense of anonymity on the internet which is why any crook or predator can sign up for one of these free or paid dating sites. One should really be careful and perform all due diligence before going and seeing anyone they met on the internet. One good tool to help make internet dating easier is this site http://www.theDateLog.com where you can find the history of your potential date and see what others had to say about him/her.

eChemistry.com

Brendan — Wed, 16 Jan 2008 10:01 +0000

I've never seen a site so devoted to quality. At echemistry.com I get fewer matches, but they're actually good! I know that any person that eChemistry matches me with is worth getting to know. It's simply, the best!

Meetic.com

Elsie — Wed, 16 Jan 2008 02:38 +0000

I could not cancel my subscription either! I think I will have to cancel my credit card.

Dating Direct

Honey_a_553 — Thu, 10 Jan 2008 06:51 +0000

The postal address for Dating Direct can be found here. If my opinion matters why are they not doing any thing to improve their service. With so many unhappy people on it, I am sure if they sorted the problems out it would be a good site.

Dating Direct

Honey_a_553 — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 09:39 +0000

Can someone help, i have paid my money but can not get onto the site, i have to be on the site to e-mail them of any problems.

Dating Direct

Robyn — Tue, 01 Jan 2008 11:04 +0000

DatingDirect.com has no possible means of contacting anyone. It's just a website and you cannot email, phone or get a message to anyone who runs it. I have replied to their standard emails 3 times asking them to delete my details and my profile as I am now in a relationship. They are ignored. I am very reluctant to part with money to an organization that you are unable to speak to or contact.

Dating Direct

Alistair — Thu, 13 Dec 2007 07:33 +0000

Thanks Dickie! I only think I like the idea of online dating then, straight away loose patience and think narrr. I look for the beloved unsubscribe button to cleanly finish the nonsense, and low and behold Dating Direct don't have one - there's a scam. This is singly the most important button to me on the whole site. Has any one ever thought about starting a dating agency for the likes of me who love unsubscribing from them.. Probably best not for it to be internet based?

Dating Direct

Jeni — Sat, 08 Dec 2007 03:13 +0000

I am absolutely disgusted at how difficult they make it to be able to contact Dating Direct and to delete my profile from their site. I guess the reason for that is so that they can continue to keep lots of active profiles and make as much money as possible. I am still trying to delete my profile from this site. Can anyone advise how this is done?

Meetic.com

Henry — Mon, 03 Dec 2007 11:05 +0000

I need help too, I can't cancel, does anyone know how?

Yahoo Personals

Marty — Sat, 24 Nov 2007 07:11 +0000

Yahoo personals will only allow paying members to have a dialog with other paying members, but not with the thousands of non-paying members who have profiles on their site. If you see a profile you like, but the member only has a free profile, you can message them but yahoo will delete any contact info you include in your message. The only way that person can respond to you is if they buy a membership. Most people will not do this so you just think the person is not interested. Yahoo uses the thousands of non-paying members as shills to make the site look more popular than it is.

Meetic.com

Nella — Wed, 21 Nov 2007 01:21 +0000

Meetic is very very bad site. Once you have a profile on the site it's impossible to clean (remove) your profile and photo. I wrote to the management, but my request to remove my profile was ignored. I still cannot and I do not know how to remove my profile. The impression I have is that Meetic is only interested in having as many profiles and photos on their site as possible, and they don't care if the photos are genuine or not.

SugarDaddie.com

Sugar Daddy — Tue, 20 Nov 2007 01:11 +0000

Well, I would agree with you Sharon, but then again, sites like SeekingArrangement.com cater to Sugar Daddies looking for Sugar Babies. The nature of Sugar Daddy dating is such that it is for older, wealthy men, looking for younger women - usually in a mutually beneficial relationship.

Meetic.com

Julie — Sun, 21 Oct 2007 04:19 +0000

I joined for one month They have deducted a second subscription even though I have cancelled. What to do? Julie. I can not contact them.

Meetic.com

Julie — Sun, 14 Oct 2007 04:13 +0000

Nicaribe, please send a valid e-mail address and I will send you the address for Meetic. The e-Mail you provided does not seem to work!

Meetic.com

Nicaribe — Sat, 13 Oct 2007 11:44 +0000

Please people! Tell me what to do to cancel my membership. I can not access to my account on Meetic, but I am paying for it. My nickname in Meetic is Nicaribe. Please, help me to cancel this membership!

Meetic.com

Nicaribe — Fri, 12 Oct 2007 07:35 +0000

I took a package for 3 months and I became a member on June, 2007. I sent the cancellation before it expired and another one on October, 2007. Meetic.com continue to charge me $ 29.70 dollars, but I can not get access to my account anymore, but Meetic are still charging me. I have been trying so many channels until someone can hear me. I really thought that getting into the dating service will be safe and fun, but I was wrong, and to cancel a membership it is so hard and difficult. Please help to put an end on this.

SugarDaddie.com

Julie — Sat, 06 Oct 2007 05:44 +0000

@Sharon, perhaps you would be more suited to MillionaireMatch.com. As you found, the idea with Sugar Daddy (or Sugar Mommy) sites is that they are for wealthy, established individuals, both men and women, who want to share their success with a young, glamorous person. It tends to be for those seeking a mutually beneficial arrangement, rather than those looking for a deep and meaningful relationship, which seems to be what you are looking for. Anyway I think it's difficult to get a good idea about a site in just 1-week. For instance, I don't think it is that case that most of the men are married!

SugarDaddie.com

Sharon — Sat, 06 Oct 2007 01:44 +0000

Only a week on the site it is very clear that the majority of wealthy men are looking for a glamourous mistress approx 15-20 years their junior. Pretty sad that so many men are unhappy in their marital situation that they have to resort to this. But more alarmingly that they think they can buy a young glamourous lady for fun - is there not another word for that? Some ladies should be ashamed of themselves!! I am an attractive solvent professional lady looking for similiar in a man - I feel this is not the right site for me!

Dating Direct

Nicola — Thu, 04 Oct 2007 03:30 +0000

I have just found this review site as I was also getting very frustrated with not being able to cancel my account! I am surprised to find that so many other people have had the same problem. Tried e-mailing their customer service several times and just get an automated response which is no use atall. I was a member on DD before it changed and it was a good site then. Thanks to Dicky I have now cancelled my account..phew! Have tried Match.com who are very good and have a phone number so you can contact them directly with any problems. Good luck to everyone else out there...

Dating Direct

Ely — Tue, 02 Oct 2007 12:00 +0000

Not being able to delete our profiles on this site has started to ruin the relationship we have, we did meet through the old site. I want to get in contact with Dating Direct to discuss this before we take it further!

Dating Direct

Lesley L — Sat, 29 Sep 2007 01:58 +0000

This is a diabolical website. Notwithstanding all the previous comments about being unable to subscribe, it is overloaded with fake profiles placed there by romance scammers from Nigeria, so now you know where their millions of members are made up from. Believe me, I know, I had first hand experience and was left out of pocket, broken hearted and now suffering with depression. I know many more who have had the same experience there. My advice is to be very careful or better still.. avoid the site altogether.

Dating Direct

Nicholas Honeybun — Sun, 23 Sep 2007 03:33 +0000

They should put an unsubscribe button on the site on the homepage. Thanks a lot Dicky for the link to cancel. Websites like this should be banned. I joined, which was fine and then upgraded to premier plus or something and that was another £60. The old website was much clearer and concise. Now you get bamboozled with "someone has looked at you" every day in emails. I would recommend not joining this site - maybe try mysinglefriend.com.

Senior Friend Finder

Carol — Wed, 19 Sep 2007 05:42 +0000

How else does a senior meet a friend near them, I know this the way to go, of course be careful till one is sure of whom they are corresponding. I would like to meet a friend not far away or even a penpal .

Meetic.com

Meetic member — Tue, 18 Sep 2007 05:11 +0000

It is impossible to cancel your membership. I have been trying since june. They promise to send an email which you click on, to cancel, but it never does work. There is no facility to contact them within the site to discuss this issue. I am considering cancelling my credit card, as a last resort to stopping them taking the monthly payment. BE WARNED.

Person.com

Nic — Sun, 16 Sep 2007 01:19 +0000

Great stuff, very entertaining, plesantly surprised with site, and results good. Only log in problem, that need to be resolved.

Dating Direct

Dating Direct — Thu, 23 Aug 2007 06:45 +0000

Steer clear of this site! Once you have set up a profile it is almost impossible to remove it (thanks to Dicky, above, for the tip on how to remove - finally!). You will not find an unsubscribe button anywhere on the site. This is how the site manages to retain such a high number of subscribers. Furthermore, the site is set up to automatically take money from your account once your membership lapses. You are not given the choice when you set up your membership. If you have already joined, visit your account details and remove the option for a payment to be taken automatically. It's a long-winded process but worth it. This is a highly unethical site that uses bad business practice and is probably breaking the law in several places.

Dating Direct

Nick — Wed, 22 Aug 2007 01:43 +0000

I subscribed to Dating Direct today. Went for the one month option. Once I realised they'd automatically re-bill me the following month, I began looking for the option to cancel it (the rebilling). I then discovered that there is no such option, even though they give directions to it in their help section. After about 15 minutes of frustrating searching, I clicked on a box that I thought might take me to the desired section, but no... it got me billed instantly for another 6 months! I phoned my bank, but they couldn't stop the payments, although they did find me an address to write to. It is possible to contact them via the site as long as you're not signed in. They give you two options in a drop-down menu, neither to do with what I wanted.

Dating Direct

Mo — Wed, 22 Aug 2007 12:29 +0000

There is a way to contact them but I think it has only recently appeared. Go into the "Help" section and the "My Active Pass" part. In blue there is a link for problems the FAQ does not answer. This takes you to a page you can send an email on.

Dating Direct

Barbara — Wed, 22 Aug 2007 08:42 +0000

I was a member and inadvertently deleted my membership number and couldn't remember my password and email address created specifically for Dating Direct and not used for any other purpose. I contacted them on their old site and was told that for security purposes they couldn't send me my membership number and that I should rejoin. As I only had around 15 days membership left, I rejoined and paid for a further 6 months. Since then they have continued to collect £9.99 per month for my old account which they know I cannot use! Now the site has changed there is no email address or anyway of contacting them to get my money back. Is is legal for them to have no way of conatacting them?

Person.com

Person — Sat, 18 Aug 2007 02:48 +0000

Person.com is a really entertaining and exploratory site. It is vast and covers the whole gamut of life. But it should be made easier to log in.

Plenty Of Fish

Marg — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 09:24 +0000

Well I think it just goes to show, if you're earning half Million dollars a month from adverts on your site, you don't need to worry about little things like user support. See Big Check! It's a pity because otherwise I think it's a good site and was one of first to offer free dating.

Plenty Of Fish

Amy — Wed, 01 Aug 2007 06:05 +0000

I don't know who manages this site. It's pathetic. I can't log-in or register into this site and there's no reason why it is not registering me. No contact and proper user support for this site. This way soon this site will be a thrash box.

Dating Direct

Tue, 31 Jul 2007 03:42 +0000

I have just had a similar problem, two payments in one month from my credit card, is there a whistle blower we can contact? I am going to cancel my credit card to prevent them doing this again. Isn't it illegal to not have customer service on such a large site?

Dating Direct

Elizabeth — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 01:17 +0000

I am so angry with datingdirect! Just as I was getting into the idea of online dating, I receive an email saying that my username was offensive so they had closed my account! The last time I checked the name elizabeth wasn't highly offensive or risque! When I tried to contact them I found absolutely no email address anywhere! The FAQ section doesn't load on a mac. I have ended up feeling extremely frustrated and proven right that online dating isn't the way for me!

Dating Direct

Jane — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 12:00 +0000

Everything seemed to be ok with the site until I tried to pay, then it refused all methods. As others have commented, there is no contact number or email and no link on the questions page so as a last resort, I altered my message on my profile to ask if anyone else had this problem and, guess what, they have thrown me out!! Don't they want my money? How strange for such a huge organisation, taking enormous amounts of money (or should be) to have no point of contact. Very dodgy I say.

Plenty Of Fish

Amy — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 10:02 +0000

I was very skeptical of dating sites because of past experiences, but when a friend recommended POF I figured I had nothing to lose. It turns out I had much to gain! I met an incredible man and we have been dating for the past six weeks. I would recommend this site to anyone who is sick of the other dating sites, or even to those who haven't tried online dating.

Person.com

Marichu Canadido — Sun, 29 Jul 2007 10:24 +0000

Person.com may help me find my dream date or maybe my man hope to catch me.

Dating Direct

Mark — Sat, 28 Jul 2007 05:38 +0000

Thanks for the link above will be using it immediately to cancel my membership - agree with all comments this site is a scam and while I used to reccommend it I now warn people about it! I have just joined mysinglefriend.com so much better and really good value.

Dating Direct

Emma — Thu, 26 Jul 2007 02:08 +0000

Thank you so much Dicky, someone just registered an account using my email address and as there's no way of contacting anyone to rectify or report it to, I've been searching for a way to delete the account. You're a star!

Person.com

Alita — Wed, 25 Jul 2007 07:27 +0000

Person.com does act up quite a bit. Sometimes you can't post in blog or check out cams etc. Would be fine otherwise.

Dating Direct

Dicky — Sat, 21 Jul 2007 01:53 +0000

For everyone who wants to delete their account, here's how! Log into your account and then paste this link into your browser http://www.datingdirect.com/myaccount/myunsubscription.php Hope that has helped you out!

Dating Direct

Duncan — Fri, 20 Jul 2007 12:08 +0000

Was once an excellent site. Now steer well clear. You cannot leave once joined. You cannot contact them.

Dating Direct

Tom — Tue, 17 Jul 2007 09:10 +0000

I agree with all of the above comments! There are a substantial number of negative comments about Dating Direct on other review sites. All of the comments are since Dating Direct "revamped" the site in June 2007 The site has no "contact us" option although the T&C's say there is. There is no option to cancel membership and withdraw your profile. A considerable number of the people I have looked at have not visited the site in excess of 3 months. Some have stated their age in their written profile but the system auto updates people's ages.....many are from 3 years ago. I am having huge difficulties in cancelling the auto-renew and will probably have to cancel my credit card to avoid further payments being made. This is a problem I have read about on other review sites of Dating Direct. The search options do not work accurately, I have discovered people by modifying my options who should have appeared in other searchs. When writing emails to people the site does not always accept keystrokes and it takes ages to write an email. The keys often have to be pressed 5,6,7 times before the letter appears on the screen. I would STRONGLY urge anyone considering joining Dating Direct to look elsewhere.

Plenty Of Fish

Lisa — Sat, 14 Jul 2007 07:48 +0000

Christy, I can't give you any help. I sent emails to POF telling them of my problem. To date (weeks), still no reply, and I highly doubt I will get one. Good luck to you in figuring out what the problem is.

Plenty Of Fish

Christy — Sat, 14 Jul 2007 05:49 +0000

Hiya .. really having trouble here loggong onto this site. I have never had any problems before. It just won't let me log into the web page please help... and by the way this site is fantastic

Plenty Of Fish

Lisa — Sat, 14 Jul 2007 04:13 +0000

I have the same exact problem with POF. Have to keep re-registering only to find I'm booted off within minutes. Totally frustrating. I emailed POF several times about this. Never have received a reply.

Dating Direct

Dating Direct — Thu, 12 Jul 2007 04:23 +0000

Since the site has moved over to the new look I can't put in my personal details correctly, as far as height goes it is still giving the old option (i.e. 5ft5 - 5ft8) which is what I fall into (I'm actually 5ft7) but a woman recently asked me if I'm 5ft4 and told me that is the height my profile is saying and I have no way to change it. This is seriously having an affect on the amount of emails I'm getting and there is nothing I can do about it as there is no way to contact them. With a website a complex as DD it is obvious there are going to be problems and what good is it when there is no customer service email at all. Very frustrated and upset with this terrible service. I would avoid DD if I were somebody considering joining.

Dating Direct

Stuart — Thu, 12 Jul 2007 03:33 +0000

I wanted to sign up for 1 month. I decided to pay with Paypal. At no point in the procedure was I given the choice of 1,3 or 6 months and I unwittingly ended up paying for 6 months. I could not contact them as there is no email. I wrote a letter to the one address on the site - no response. I contacted Paypal to stop any further payments - OK no problem there. I have just received an email from DD saying that as I have stopped future payments, they have closed my account! This is after 1 week of a supposedly 6 month contract!!! I'm finding it very hard to retain my composure, I understand fully why there are no contact details. Do not use this website, they want your money and care about nothing else. it is a scam.

Dating Direct

Isobel — Sat, 30 Jun 2007 01:48 +0000

It is pretty much impossible to find out how to contact them if there is a problem. The premier plus service also isnt what they advertise.

Plenty Of Fish

Steven — Sat, 30 Jun 2007 11:51 +0000

I was cut off from Plentyoffish.com for no reason or explanation given. Now I am unable to contact someone that I believe was special. How painful!

Dating Direct

Dan — Thu, 28 Jun 2007 03:26 +0000

How on earth does one terminate being a member on DatingDirect? This is not good. They should have a simple un subscribe button. One can't email them either.

Person.com

Adeyinka — Wed, 27 Jun 2007 06:55 +0000

What is happining with Person.com? It's the one and only reliable site I have ever seen before. Is it not functioning again or what? They should find the solution to it sooner if they do not want to loose more members.

Dating Direct

danni — Tue, 26 Jun 2007 05:10 +0000

I think that DatingDirect.com might have more members subscribe if they can have access to a customer service. There is no contact on the site and when I have gone to FAQs to contact them that way, I discovered that you first have to subscribe. Since I am having trouble paying a subscription and wanted to know if it is possible to take card payments over the phone as I have used this payment method with another dating site.

Dating Direct

Colin — Sat, 23 Jun 2007 10:46 +0000

Since the change over of the site to the new better facility I have lost all ability to search. It says that there are no matches yet I have tried to search with an extensive match and with an open match setting. If this is improving the service then I think I need to change. It also says that you can contact them but there is no link, so how do I tell them of the problem?

Plenty Of Fish

Sunshine — Fri, 15 Jun 2007 11:17 +0000

True, it's easy to get up with a profile, and I had a very satisfying number of responses....BUT, and this is a big one...after being online with the profile for one day, my username and password wouldn't work the next. Thus I stopped having any "hits" because my profile was deleted. I re-signed on and recreated my profile 5 or 6 times but have given up in disgust. I have contacted the site designer and moderator who boasts that he does all the work himself from his apartment. Hey, better to hire someone so that you can keep things running better and offer some customer service. I've received no response from my letters to the site owner. What a disappointment!

Person.com

KP — Wed, 13 Jun 2007 01:50 +0000

Person.com is a very useful and entertaining site. Thanks to them for making it fully free. But it is difficult to login from my office computer. I wish they would do something in this regard as soon as possible.

Person.com

Adam — Sun, 10 Jun 2007 11:56 +0000

I have been using person.com for a year now and have made some wonderful friends. But in the last two days, have been denied access. 502 Bad Gateway is the message. Can they please rectify this? Or maybe it's a problem with my net connection.

Person.com

Marg — Sun, 10 Jun 2007 11:25 +0000

I think this site is great for meeting people but I have a lot of trouble logging in..... and or staying on. I have broadband so I would have thought it not a problem.

Person.com

Ron — Sun, 10 Jun 2007 11:18 +0000

I have found so many friends on this site but it seems I'm gonna loose them. I could no longer get in the site. Please help me to save them by making the site accessible.

Meetic.com

Bruno — Sat, 02 Jun 2007 02:57 +0000

I really don't understand why it's necessary for Meetic to be so expensive, considering that they're supposed to have more than 1 million active members. I'm sure their income is well beyond their expenses, so it ought to be possible to lower the prices and still have a reasonable income?

Person.com

Helen — Fri, 01 Jun 2007 02:00 +0000

When using Person.com, I keep loosing my internet connection when I go into messages. I am with the next G wireless broadband. Sometimes I fluke and get in and when I go to get back in it comes up - lost connection or server is not reachable. It is most annoying as I have several contacts that I can not get back to. It also comes up at times that my account has been suspended.

Plenty Of Fish

Colin — Sun, 27 May 2007 12:50 +0000

Your site is on the nose... When I go to Plentyofish.com it says your username and password is invalid. then the damn site gives a few stupid word letters and then throws the applicant off and keeps repeating you must agree yadda yadda..well how can anyone agree when this stupid things pops up continually and it is absolutely frustrating to say the least. plenty of fish? I think the fish has gone off. Better try and bring in a fresh salmon.

Person.com

Fred Esterhuizen — Fri, 25 May 2007 12:23 +0000

I try to get into Person.com's website but nothing happened. I experienced a lot of problems getting into this site. I have an ADSL line and all the other websites I can access, but not this one. What is the problem? It is a disaster. Anyone else had these problems?

Person.com

Sharon — Thu, 24 May 2007 10:35 +0000

Whats going on guys? Cannot get into Person.com site, just keeps saying 404 error.

Person.com

Tina — Wed, 25 Apr 2007 11:15 +0000

Sorry Ronaldo, best to check directly with the support team at Person.com.

Person.com

Ronaldo27 — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 02:12 +0000

I like this site very much and have made many friends but I am constantly having problems with the server and so are many of my friends, so please sort it out as soon as possible. At the time of writing this the site server was off again.

Plenty Of Fish

A.Soreefan — Fri, 13 Apr 2007 06:42 +0000

Its just great. What a fantastic thought. This world need more people like you. Thanks.

Yahoo Personals

Chicgurl — Sun, 21 Jan 2007 04:12 +0000

I tried to sign up and it was disasterous. Their signup program had bugs in it, but not buggy to keep my credit card info. Every month they charge me for services I can't get into. Their customer service is elusive, too. When I finally got them, they apologized and promptly refunded me. However the next month they were back on my credit statement again. Once again I contacted them once again they apologized and removed it. They did this a few more times. A quick search on the web and I discovered numerous complaints about their billing. They are uunder the atty generals scrutiny now. Buyer beware. I had to cancel my credit card.