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It sounds so simple when written down.
I have just spent 18months with a wonderful woman who has a little boy (6). She is a raging extrovert and I'm a night owl introvert. It's been hard from the beginning and has led to a lot of arguments and misunderstandings. As an extrovert she argues with passion and aggression (which i hate) and does not seem to pause to understand my point. But as an introvert i sulk for days on end if she doesn't listen and think she is cold and uncaring (which she is not). In the end i suppose neither of us can take anymore, or wanted to, and so she ended it (even though we are still in love). For me this is a mistake, the real problems sometimes only become clear and apparent when it's too late. Only after the split did i become really aware of how life might have been for her. I still believe that if true love is still there for both of you, then a few months is nothing - it's better to work hard together, stay calm and find out what the root of the problems are. True love is worth fighting for.