ChnLove.com by James

Well, I think I have to thank Chnlove helping me find my true love. I've tried many websites only to be disappointed. Too many scammers, direct contact does not help, communication moved nowhere, no one is serious for a committed relationship. I was so hopeless until I found Chnlove. Their translation services were excellent, which helped ease the communication gap, which I believe expedited our first meeting and, eventually, marriage. I've met my perfect lady and will no longer need their services, but I'll surely recommend them to my friends who wish to find a Chinese wife.

I have made contact with several apparently lovely ladies via the Chnlove web site, trouble is it can take forever to establish direct contact with them, supposedly because Chnlove want to derive as much income as possible and therefore will not pass on my contact details. But my biggest gripe is that many of the ladies I have been interested in corresponding with, bear little resemblance to the photos displayed on the Chnlove website. In my view this lack of photo honesty and refusal to allow direct contact amounts to scam. The above comments are not always representative however, but in my experience, mostly so.

My Chnlove experience is mostly positive. I joined Chnlove in Nov 2009. Agencies ignored my profile preferences & tried to introduce unsuitable ladies. So I set my profile as 'hidden' & did my own browsing. I put any woman of interest on Favorites list & this alerted her agency. Most contacts went nowhere and some translators no good. After 7 months I saw profile of 'L' and really liked her. Translator 'V' was great & exchange of long emails steadily warmed up. We had two video calls with V's help then direct phone calls via Skype. In late Dec 2010 I flew to China; for over 5 weeks L & I shared apartment she'd found. L is attractive, smart, affectionate, sexy & very caring. Language was difficult at times, L learning English, but we coped and translator V gave phone help. I met some of L's family and got on well with them. Finally I proposed marriage and L accepted. In all my contact with L there has not been anything inconsistent about her. Yes we have a lot of work ahead with visas etc but she's worth it.

I have been a member on ChnLove as well for a long time and been cheated, note that there are SOME real ladies but often a bit older but the chances are quite big you end up talking with the translator instead.

Secondly the agencies behind ChnLove are to various degrees dodgy and leeching customers and make up fabricated letters, there's quite much to say about ChnLove and I would urge people to check out the following link which has become a hub on centralised scam information on ChnLove with further links to other sites with more information in the matter.

Unfortunately I discovered that link too late, but I hope it can help others from being scammed!

James and Mark are both correct. It is the agencies who are promoting the girls. Most of the girls will have one basic letter which was written for them by the agency and this letter is sent out to many prospective men - yes it's impersonal but you have to remember these girls speak little if any English and they have don't have access to the internet like we are all used to here in the West. They are not in a position to write personal letters to every man that might be interested in them.

alan :

Clearly a scam. I joined for a year and got lots of letters saying they hoped one day I would visit them in China. Yet my profile clearly stated I lived in China. Once I try to meet they make excuses. Cannot meet cannot phone only send expensive letters!

Greetings, Mark is correct! I have been a member for 2 years and have been to china twice, and so for the third time..... the women are real . Understand that these girls are being marketed by their prospective agency... It is their job to present these ladies in the best possible light... the mail assures them of this and keeps control of the process....It works pretty well, and they are helpful to the male clients as well, very much so.... Things do not happen overnight, it is on their terms not yours and if you contain yourself and are willing to spend a few bucks (me 3200.00 so far) you just might end up with the woman of your dreams, I have.... Or perhaps you should just go to the bar or biker weekend to meet your dream girl....... remember, it's all about what you want in life and what you're willing to do to achieve it!!!! Cheers my friends.

Clearly a scam. I joined for a year and got lots of letters saying they hoped one day I would visit them in China. Yet my profile clearly stated I lived in China. Once I try to meet they make excuses. Cannot meet cannot phone only send expensive letters!

Comments by: Wayne On: 04/01/2009. Reply: Hello Can U give me those 16 credits Wayne? I believe and have come to the conclusion, that Chnlove is a scam. I have been there for 2 years now. She told me that she spoke only little English, okay? She gave me her email address...I send here some letter there with translation. Got some replies there yes. Even got some photos of her in her real life. She was very beautiful.. But now..her email address is dysfunctional. I can't send here emails anymore...strange right? Perhaps it's scam..But I will ask custom service for help maybe...

There is one thing we need to be aware about China, there are many scammers out there. But I don't believe Chnlove is one of them. Chnlove does not provide the service, we are actually talking with the ladies through the agencies. Love is blind, but we can use some common sense. I live and conduct business in Shanghai, China. And I have dated some ladies through Chnlove. The ladies are real and I have met them personally. Asian ladies are reluctant to talk about personal info and have direct contact even if they do speak English. They thought the translators can give them professional advices on dating. Also, not all the girls have computers at home like we do. There are however, many internet cafes there, but it's mostly with teenagers playing online games. I went to these cafes once when I first came to China. You can't even find a single girl there. Here in Shanghai, I've met a lot of ladies in China and most are looking for someone sincere. But one thing I do realize is, some of the ladies are not interested in foreigners who stay in China. Like they say, there are plenty of choices and temptations here, a relationship tends not to be stable and they are afraid we are only looking for a quick romance. There can be black sheep among us?