iSingles UK by SarahJane

Filled with male and female predators

SarahJane | UK | July 4th, 2011 at 06:46 AM

All I can say is this site is filled with several male and female predators. I want to share my own experience with one whilst I used this site last summer around this month. Well I started to talk to a middle aged lady who's profile I looked at, and whilst getting to know each other, we told each other our personal problems, our interests, personality traits and had some great laughs, she was a lesbian but I explained I was straight and would like to form a friendship, she said that was no problem and for a few weeks she treated me like the best thing that had ever happened in her life and like I was family to her, seriously. Then by the fifth or sixth week, she started talking sexually and kept prying on me about what my sexual interests were and when we were going to meet face to face as she wanted to keep in contact outside the net too. I felt that she had a power over making my mind up and that everything was on her terms so I told her my address for us to meet. It was very naive and stupid, but it was the way she knocked into my mind about how I could have complete faith and trust in her.

However the day before we planned to meet, I got this horrible feeling about it all happening, so I went onto i-singles, and explained to her on webcam I didn't want to meet after all and why. This is where things turned dark and nasty... she started harassing me on how we had fallen for each other, I had been messing her around in her mind, and that because she was missing me, I had to keep exploiting my boobs to her because otherwise she threatened to write to my parents or travel to my door and tell them about how I had been using her, she made me feel the whole situation was my fault, and felt trapped. Even though now I realize there was alternatives as this was online and had a choice to leave the site, at the time I felt too frightened, confused, and powerless to do anything other than give into her demands as she knew where I lived right down to the last detail. The whole traumatizing experience very slowly started killing me mentally in my mind, and because of this my kind, friendly, outgoing, positive, and understanding personality started to deteriorate into a cold, mouthy, anti social, self loathing, angry, bitter one for around six or seven months now. However though, I am starting to see a small part of who I am deep down come back, and am glad to say I now partly know this wasn't my fault. The predator's prof num was 1179639, name- Carol.