AshleyMadison.com - Dating Site Review

@Louise Yes, I know exactly how you feel. Life's too short and both of ended up with sexduds. What gives??? ~Maxx

@E Gato del Florida You've got a great marriage, and a great wife and you're cheating on her? What the hell is wrong with this picture?

I am in a sexless marriage, but besides that it's good. I joined AM because I crave sex and my husband is no longer interested in having sex with me. What else can I do? If I am not getting it at home! I am not dead yet. Sex is healthy. A great way to relieve stress, etc. All my friends are still having sex and brag about it. This bothers me, as I feel like there is something wrong with us as a married couple. I don't want to die not ever having sex again. It's in all the movie's I watch. It seems everyone around me is having sex, but me. So I am not apologizing for doing something to make me feel good, when my husband won't help me in that way. It's because of men and women like that, who hold sex back that we both (men and women) have to resort to cheating.

@Female Customer 350 messages in 1 day sound a bit ridiculous to me... I had less than that number in total after 3 months membership on the site. I totally agree there are idiots on there but I absolutely never reply to anyone if I am not interested in them. Cruel? Maybe.. But experience has taught me to regret doing so... I was thinking I was being polite sending a reply but in fact you just get into a pointless dialog that can turn ugly when the guy sees you don't want them.

@April I'm sorry, but how is it the fault of the website that your husband is on there? I'm not condoning his behavior. But maybe you should address HIM cheating and not the "cold hearted idiots out there who only care about themselves." Sounds like your husband belongs to that categorization. Stop playing the pathetic victim and stand up for yourself... AND your baby! Weak women only facilitate men acting like jerks.

Do you have any people in Peru? I think i need your service, but i live in Peru, I have fluent English, in fact i grew up in US, but live in Peru now.

@Ziara I agree...I found out my husband was on the site...and its sad how the cold hearted idiots out there just don't care about anyone but themselves.. We have a 5-month old baby girl..and just got married in july of 10' I just couldn't believe it, it's a pain that will always stay with me...

@Mike Well I am one of those women who signed up for Ashley Madison. I had 350 messages in 24 hours. I had to weed them down somehow, so I eliminated everyone that was more than 500 miles away from me (that was most). Then I decided I would reply to everyone that actually took the time to send me a message, not just ask for nude pictures. You would not believe the messages I got back. I was called the worst names imaginable, just for a simple "no thank you". The few decent seeming guys I did find were complete flakes. I just cancelled my membership because of too many nasty people, pic collectors, and flakes! I would recommend wasting your time with this site!

Hi, we just wanted to update the data -- we have over 7.3 Million members in nine countries. Thanks for the reviews.

You treat marriage as a rubbish...this is holy gift from God...think about your children not your own fleshly desires. From Manila, 22 yrs old.

Are you all out of your mind? How would you feel if it was your wife or husband having the affair on you? I realize there may be some extenuating circumstances, but many of you admit to having a great marriage. Did you ever think about honesty, and just trying to spice it up at home with your significant other? This is beyond reprehensible. If you are not happy and you can afford to leave, then leave your marriage and have all the adventure you want.

If this is okay and you see nothing wrong with it, then why don't you just come out and sign an open marriage agreement with your wife/husband. Mmmm....I guess "some" of the people on this site feel pretty special don't they. After all it is your right to do what you want to, but it would bother the crap out of you if you found out your husband or wife was doing this.

Please....I am sure this won't even get posted. But what the heck I got it off my chest.

I plunked down the cash and got zero.... I am a very good looking man with a winning personality. I'm not ashamed to be confident about that fact because it's for illustration purposes. It's just the way it is. I don't go walking around a confident arrogant jack ass. I just know that I'm not unfortunate. Anyway ...I was never treated as badly or inhumanely by anybody ever in my life as I had been on Ashley Madison. I am very respectful and humorous and I either go nothing for a response of a woman degrading me in a return email. I even "undressed" a woman to the point of her saying "gee I'm really sorry will you accept that" I did and she returned an email bashing me again. What is that??? My suspicion is this. The men are on there trying to find a fast hookup. The women are on there to wreak havoc with these men. And those of us (women and men) who are on there for real with realistic goals are proverbial needles in the haystack. Nothing good in life is easy and you have to put the time in. Ashley Madison and their online counterparts are not worth the time.

@Marina Okay for one sex is a huge part of a successful relationship, and if you're not getting it from your wife/husband partner whatever then you need to leave the relationship. Staying in a sexless relationship and finding sex elsewhere isn't the answer. It's that simple. And before anyone says how would you know, I do know and was married to someone for almost 13 years who I loved very much and still do. But sexually nothing, maybe twice a year, But I divorced him and it was the right thing to do. Not going out and having random sex with anyone that's not the answer, you just end up with a hot mess.

@Marina This is the most spot on comment I have ever read. If someone's spouse no longer wants sex the other party has no choice but to look elsewhere. Divorce is too messy and expensive, especially when sex is the only issue. The party who stops having sex has turned the marriage into a strictly friendship relationship. If there is any blame for an affair it falls entirely on that person. An affair only makes sense. Every instance of an affair outside a relationship must be judged on a case by case basis. There are no bright lines. My wife likes to initiate sex once a month to once every 2 to 3 months. I would like to have sex daily but would settle for twice a week. I am not going to force her to change. I am not going to put pressure on her to have sex. I tried talking to her about it on multiple occasions. Sometimes that led to an increase in frequency of sex but it would not last long. It always slipped back to a lack of sex. I tried proposing a schedule. I tried spontaneity. I don't even get angry about it anymore. Yes there is work and kids. But there are opportunities. They go missed 90-95% of the time. She is in therapy. To the best of my knowledge this is not addressed. If it is, nothing has changed in a year a therapy. No techniques are tried. There is no discussion initiated by her on the subject.

The one time I went with her to therapy we talked about me helping around the house more. Also I keep myself in great shape. I have Latin features. Here is what I have noticed the most. That when I pulled away sexually which was only very recently that her interest picked up a bit. But like every other solution I tried it has descended back into the old pattern. She just does not care enough about it to work on it or change it. But it is the only major problem in the relationship. We parent well together. We even play sports together when we can. We get along. There is no reason for a divorce. What there is a need for is for me to have sex with a human being on a semi-regular basis. I am under no illusions; my wife is never going to be that person. We need to stop putting sex on a pedestal. Some say, "all you guys think about is sex." It is wrong to focus one entire life on sex. It is also wrong to say that sex is the "end all be all" in a relationship. There is friendship, companionship, and parenting. All of those are more important than sex. So don't judge every person who strays.

Oh. Now I am happy, they deleted my account. Maybe it was a different person, who didn't know that I was from Finland and wasn't able to log in myself. I understood that their site is not supporting Finland, North of Europe.

I joined there from Finland, Europe. Was never able to log in, they said that it is because of my country, so why I was even able to sign up? I want to delete my account, have asked them to do it several times, now they asked me to call (!) to USA? It would be very expensive. I have sent my request to delete from my account from email, which I used for registering, still waiting them to delete my account, is it so difficult? Can't understand.

You are really good. i need to get to this site. Need help.

Like any other web site, use discretion and common sense. If you send someone a message and they're interested and you feel comfortable, exchange emails or chat on Yahoo where it's free. I'm in a lonely, sexless marriage, and I'm currently in a wonderful relationship with a lady in a similar situation. She is smart, pretty, funny and sexy. I found exactly what I was looking for on A-M after 10 months of searching. Put the effort into your profile, be kind and sincere and let the sex come after friendship. It will work guys, it will work!

The so-called Ashley Madison "agency" is a total rip-off. Most of the women just do not actually exist. Your emails--which you pay for with "credits"--joom off into cyberspace. A total waste of time, and a total scam. These jerks ought to be prosecuted for fraud!

Going to try it. some friend told me about it. looking for romance and someone to have fun with.