AshleyMadison.com - Dating Site Review

i like playing tennis and doing sport. im 42 years old 183 high 90 kg medium built married but like to meet someone and have fun. im from north west sydney.

@Mike I understand exactly what you are saying and I agree 100%!

BTW - IT'S NOT FAIR - When a wife (or husband for that matter) decides that they are not interested in sex. How selfish of the spouse who withholds their physical affections, I believe it is also abusive. It is a way to dominate and control the spouse. And when the spouse finds out that their VICTIM has sought release elsewhere they freak out!

A friend of mine cheated on his wife after many months of celibacy, they would go for 4-5 months with no intimacy, she said "NO" dozens and dozens of times. When the wife realised that her husband was no longer begging her for the sex she repeatedly DENIED him because she was suspicious. When she discovered that he had a lover who he was sleeping with she went ballistic. WHY?! SHE did not want to have sex with him, SHE decided that SHE did not like sex.......how UNFAIR of her to try to force that celibate lifestyle on her husband!

My friend loves his wife and would never leave her. But he will not force sex on her and he will not be forced to live a celibate lifestyle, he's only 42 for crying out loud!

For many ASHLEY MADISON has filled a gap. They have removed the confusion as to what kind of relationship their clients are looking for.

Ashley Madison worked for me! Of course I think it is easier for us women to get what we want. I am an attractive 46 yr old married housewife who wanted a lover to play with. I joined a few months ago and was overwhelmed by the contacts I received, about 100 a day. Weeding through them was a bit tough, players, single guys, studs offering their services, penis photos, etc. I emailed quite a few and met three men in person. I found exactly what I wanted in a married 53 yr old businessman. He is kind and gentle, intelligent and playful. Both of us were looking for a single long term affair and after a month for me and about 6 months for him, we found what we were looking for on Ashley Madison. Good luck to those who are trying, I know it's hard!

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A site about cheaters, I don't know how great it can be. The only way to really know if its legit is to get feedback from real users. In addition to the post above, you'd want to check out AshleyMadisonReviews.

I've experienced wonderful success with this site. Women who know what they want, and know how to get it. Many looking for a sugar daddy or gold digging, but willing to deliver the goods in exchange. Quite exciting, the thrill of a newly introduced lady squeezing you in just the right place within moments of meeting.

Just came across this website and got interested. i would like to become a member.

I'm married, over 30 years, great marriage and wife. No children, and my world is just fantastic. I've also been on AM for about two years now and cannot say enough positive things about the site. As long as you truly know yourself, your limits, what you want and need, and how to control your existence, then this is a truly 'classy' and mature site. My big piece of advice to anyone considering this site: don't communicate or meet anyone if they don't come across as mature, emotionally grounded, and sane. If your gut tells you something's wrong, then listen to it. Met a couple of great women, became sexually involved with one--a terrific interracial experience!--and am in heavy flirtation with another great woman. Beats the hell out of following football teams!

If you can be specific (and realistic) about what you want you will find the site works extremely well. Those self righteous folks whining about the morality of AshleyMadison need to get off their high-horse. Please! Don't judge others when you don't understand their circumstances.

Find a right date with a hot girl in my city for a short affair, and more fun with your body.

@bob So you tried it out, then?

I find this site extremely offensive to people who are trying to keep a stable relationship. I have gone through my partner of 3 years cheating on me and myself finding out, I do not think that the other people understand the lengths of pain and suffering their partner would go through if this was found out.

If you have spoken to your partner about it and they are fine with it then good for you. Until then leave it in your pants and stick with your wife that you vowed to love forever and never hurt.

This website is for selfish people who are only after one thing - if you seriously think about using it then I am sorry to say this but you are just as selfish and you should truly hate yourself for even considering cheating on your wife/husband.

And peeps wonder why our worlds screwed up and there's so many probs, no gud hearts anymore, doing the wrong is encouraged....divorce your wife and husband and hump like an animal..why drag people in your miserable sexual exploits, that accomplish you nothing..ppl gota get over sex and think of it as a part of life...not life! there's so much more to do then getin layed.

Soul2soul :

If you can't make sex appealing for your wife then something is wrong with you and not her! Besides she is probably still having sex with you because she loves you and respects you. Marriage is work.

I thought that about my wife too. Until I found she'd been having an affair with her boss for the last 2 years. Now I regret being faithful to her for 11 years of marriage. I wish i read it as a warning sign, but i didn't. I was too naive. Sex is an act between 2 people. It is not the duty of one partner to satisfy the other.... If one partner does not have their heart in the relationship nothing the other does will make up for that.

@Mike I always thought that people married for love and not for sex. If you can't make sex appealing for your wife then something is wrong with you and not her! Besides she is probably still having sex with you because she loves you and respects you. Marriage is work. You can work out your sex life if you really want to, unless you are too lazy!

I first called the help number to ask the ratio of men to women on the site. I'm good-looking wealthy 45 yo man with photos. I had one fat jelly bean contact me saying that she had between seventy and a hundred emails a day from the site. In three weeks I get three. All from unpleasant women. Also I googled the ashley madison name only to find them advertising for people to sign women up for a fee, which proves that you are just going to be one out of a few hundred emails that a prospect will get. Don't bother, save your time and money.

@Jack49 Jacob visited a prostitute, then his hated 2nd wife Leah bought the rights for sex from his beloved wife Rebecca - The Bible. If you want to use the Bible as a guide for morality, then you got some 'splainin to do about slavery, sexual inequality, polygamy, bigotry, xenophobia, ethnic cleansing, concubinism, and other wonders. 'Whoever is replying to a matter before he has heard it, that is foolishness on his part and a humiliation.' - Proverbs.

@What a jerk AM is a site promotes an activity that hurts many people. Adultery has many victims. The non-involved spouse is only one of them. Other victims include the children, friends and family. If you want to emotionally harm a child for the rest of their life, join this site.

There is a way which seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death. Proverbs 14:12 The Holy Bible.