ChnLove.com - Dating Site Review

My comment on Chnlove is positive, very much so. I have talked with the lady by telephone, have written twice weekly for 5 months, have exchanged numerous photos, and write a full 6000 character reply to her 6000 character letter, she is very prolific. I am very pleased to say that I will visit her in early September and stay with her for the 6-8 months it takes the American Embassy to issue her a spouse visa. We will marry the first day I arrive. I have been very pleased with Chnlove and I think if you fellows out there are having trouble it is from some basic misunderstanding. My lady at the outset said she would not tolerate any misunderstanding and we have been very open and always honest with each other.

I first started out with Chnlove a year and a half ago. I received over one thousand five hundred admirers. I am finding out, that is quite a bit compared to most. I'm from the U.S. and a legal professional and made the mistake of putting my yearly income at over $150,000.00. Well you could imagine why I received all the emails. The women are just beautiful and they came and they came. The expense of the emails was not my concern, but simply that I was in this to find a CHINESE WIFE. I eventually chose one and everything seem great, for a year and a half we exchanged emails, she was very beautiful, but when it came to meeting her, she gave every excuse in the book, why she can't. Finally she told me that she was afraid of what her county (local city) would think. Here I am, a grown man opening up to this beautiful lady and she is afraid of a Western Man.

I was wondering why she joined chnlove in the first place, other than be a pretty face and get paid for it. Needless to say it was a year and half of wasted time and emotions. Would not recommend this site to anyone, you've heard the old cliché: "Buyer Beware" it was not the money that I spent, for me, it was the "Dishonesty and Deceit," Chnlove plays out, by having their translator responding to my emails the I sent to my special lady and this does not include a man's emotions, that was the most difficult. I was ready to fly 5,000-6,000 miles to see her and marry her. I, in the alternative, will soon travel to CHINA see the beautiful country and date Chinese women while there through a legitimate site and see what transpires. For those of you who have had success on this site, I envy you, for those of you who want to join...."Buyer Beware".

John

In June, I am going to Changsha to meet a lady. I have had conversations with this lady during 8 months regularly and we were in very good terms. Yes, the lady was very beautiful. But at the agency with her translator and the manager it was only question of my income which is good but, not enough for the lady. I think that there is an intendment between chnlove staff and the lady. I have made a complaint and I have generously received 6 free mails in compensation. May I say that I was coming from Europe to meet this lady? I want to say that I have never received a smile from this lady. For those who do not understand, I think that these ladies are first interested by your money. Perhaps that there are sincere ladies but please be careful and try to take some warranties.

Well, I must say I am shocked to read these comments. I have been writing a lady for about a year now and her letters were always different. Chnlove seems to be on the up & up. My lady has sent me real time photos, a number of them. I also have photos of her with gifts I have sent. As a matter of fact, I am leaving on Friday for China to meet her for the first time. I have read comments in the forums of people who have visited and married these ladies and there are also many photos. Yes, a fee is charged for the translation but they have to make money somehow to exist. Thank you!

Throwing money out the window, that is what chnlove is all about. In my case I did manage to get some pictures of the lady in her “daily life” although she is always alone on them. Furthermore, I suggested many times that we should at least make contact on webcam but was always given excuses as to why it was not possible. So I suggested she hand writes a letter that I would get translated by an independent translator (obviously the goal was to trace the address back to where in China it came from) and the answer I got was word for word "I never sent mail abroad and do not know where the post office is ". Really? That was it for me, I decided one last try, I sent her a last message relating to many reviews (negative ones) I had read on various websites, the answer I got was "I do not know these websites and feel ashamed of my poor English".

Seriously, do yourselves a favor and avoid chnlove.com and chinesekisses.com for that matter!

I am convinced that this site is committing fraud. The women never send photos of themselves in their natural environment. They refuse to send photos of themselves with family or friends. I received many short emails also. While I made every attempt to utilize their character limit, the ladies sent frequent short emails. Even long emails contained very few revealing details about the women. I also suspect that half of the emails, or more, were sent by an agency person. Frequently, the emails discussed the weather or asked how I was doing. Many of the ladies profiles contained the same sayings, e.g. love is like a pair of chopsticks. One lady's profile also changed during correspondence with her. I made plans to travel to China to visit her, and then she found a means to abort the process. I am pretty convinced at this point that the site is fraudulent.

I found this site to be not honest too. The letters I receive from the ladies are very short and letters from different ladies are all about the same. Seems they are trying to get us to write more and pay more to have them translated. I have asked for the original letters from the ladies so I can translate myself and they do not respond. I do not trust them at all! Save your money!

It is a scam. I got many ladies sending out identical messages to all the men. It is the agencies, not the ladies, doing the communication. The scam is to get the men to engage at USD 6.25 per message sent or received. It is USD 25 for 4 coupons. Some discount for buying more.

I found faked lady profiles. A lowly educated woman was touted as a professional. The photos are faked or taken long time ago. I have evidence too. The ladies look very much better in the published profiles, but subsequent photos show they are much older like their mothers.

Translation is a joke in China. Many ladies are paying 20 months of their earnings hoping to trap a foreigner for a good life. They will do everything with the agencies to achieve their goal. I found some agencies parading the ladies without even the ladies know about.

The website and the agencies are working hand in glove. The men are cheated to pay up good money thinking they are in contact with their chosen girls. It is the agency doing the job. "Chatting" with the lady does not mean you are talking to the right lady. Very likely they are fake. The website did not even face my complaint over the fake!

It’s no fake. The woman I chat with , her messages to me are not the same as other guys get. It’s her message to me translated by a translator and then sent to me. There are a number of women that have listed their email address, phone number, address. most of them just post their address. It’s 5.00 USD to send a message to a lady and only 10.00 USD to view a woman’s address. To do a search, use CHnLove.

I’m afraid it is fake. The ladies replies are the same for all men. All its "member agencies" display no contact details, e.g. telephone and e-mail. Online searches all yield no information. Paying over USD 6 for sending a message out and another USD 6 for receiving, is one of the highest I’ve ever know. I do not believe it’s over USD 12 to buy the lady's address. Probably it is a common address at the agency's control.